What do you locked up cocks really like?

For me the concept of 'last time' and permanent are super kinky and sexy and I really like. Nothing like taking something and knowing that this will be the very last time I experience something because she has said so.

For example, I remember vividly the LAST time I was allowed to wear non-thong underwear. Ever since then it has been thongs all day every day. I also remember the last time I was allowed to touch the TV remote control. I remember the last time I was allowed to not wear a tie during the day. Some day I may remember vividly the last time I was allowed to take off the chastity cage.

For me the concept of permanent denial in all its forms is what turns me on.

 

Humiliation used to be a hard limit for Me. That's largely because I associated it with the solely derogatory.

Upon discovering that being 'brutally honest' falls under that umbrella, I realized it's one of the biggest parts of My kink wheelhouse.

He certainly doesn't seem to mind.

 

when I first started down this kink it was a big part for me, but it absolutely isn't any longer. Quite the opposite, it's a real turn off now.

 

When we first started with chastity, I had my list of fantasies. If you asked this question a year ago, I might have listed a few of them.

What I have found I like now, has nothing to do with fantasies or myself.

Being a witness to her developing a stronger confidence sexually is a pleasure beyond any fantasy. Through our adventures with male chastity, she now enjoys taking control of her own pleasure and is not afraid to direct activities to maximize it. She now openly teases me, and we can have great discussions about sex, or lack thereof as it may be. In spite of my being locked, intimacy has gone from a once in a while event, to a part of our daily lives.

That, is what I like.

 

Exactly, great summary of what I'm seeking to enhance and support.

 

well for me i would want to be trained to be the perfect partner. i would want tasks like cleaning and dishes but also healthy eating and exercise. Step off the path with just a toe and no fun times with mr willy. To be molded into everything she desires. The better i do the more we explore things together. Oh to dream

 

I like that dominant makes me be very sexual, slutty, so I don't have to feel any shame about my sexuality and kinks. I also like to feel under control of a dominant, so I don't have to make tough decisions. I like to be restrained, so I don't have to have control over my body, and thus be free to let go.

 

I like that I have a wife that likes me chaste, and a keyholder that likes to keep me chaste. I like that they are 2 of my best friends, and that we have other interests, that don't include anything kinky. I like that I can be different with 2 different people, because we each have a different chemistry. I like that my keyholder has been changing me to better suit her, and serve her, and that it doesn't clash with my married life. I like that how I've changed, has improved my intimate time with my wife. I like that they are both awesome, strong, smart women, and amazing friends. I like that we treat chastity as a ritual, my cock as an addiction, and I've been dick sober for 6 months. I like that I actually managed 6 months and didn't lose my mind, break my vows, use my parts, and that I can see managing another 6, and another....

 

i love whatever She sees fit. my only expectation, is She does what She wants and has little or no concern for what i want. indifference can be a powerful energy deployed to a sub/slave. Of course i have many D/s desires, all of which come a poor last to Her needs and whims.

 

I also agree with this comment!
Thabk You freaky rabbit for saying what I wanted to say but didn’t know how to say!!

 

I would like to have a local keyholder,

 

I'm thinking you will be getting as many different responses to your question as there are people posting on this thread.

Also what started out one way ...as the relationship and its dynamic grow and change may very likely change with it.

 

What I like most about being locked is that it makes me feel like I have a purpose, that I belong to my Lovely Wife.

We all have different needs to motivate us through life and we also need to be appreciated. When I’m locked and kept under her control, even when it includes keeping my bum red my life has a purpose. I even want to be disciplined for my wrong doings to help me be a better person no matter how painful the punishment may be.

To try and explain this to someone that’s never been locked or spanked is almost impossible. This is the main reason I like being here at the mansion because I can be myself and other people understand where I’m coming from.

 

I enjoy to see Her enjoy Herself and not worry about me. I have greatly enjoyed watching
Her have a great time and not feel inhibited by all those things we learn growing up. I don't
feel like I'm really missing anything. I feel that whatever changed in Her thought pattern has
made it possible for Her to just be free. I am always in the middle of things, so I am not just
sitting on the sideline. To me to see Her so alive and bubbling over is the greatest thing I
could ever want to happen. And to see how hot She can get....... hold on.. cold shower time.

This is so true. You have to experience it to understand, I have yet found no words to share
that can express how I feel with Her. I know @Mash2214 and a number of others know just
what I mean.

 

Well put gentlemen!

 

I was just trying to honest with how I feel. Glad you liked it

 

I like the way my Wife(KH) and I love each other again. We have always "loved" each other, but after 29 years we just fell into a dull routine of living every day. When we started MC and me being locked, we began to talk more about everything...Likes, dislikes, where we like being touched and where to keep away from. We both found out some things that surprised both of us. My Wife is 10 years older that me and she has different needs and wants now. She no longer wants PIV sex and I'm good with that. She supported me for years, so now I just want to make her happy. And that is doing what ever she wants me to do. That's what I like...

 

Teasing about prolonged or even permanent chastity, threats of public outings especially to more aggressive GFs; pushing me just a little further than what I'm comfortable with, teasing that my cock is worthless and she's thinking of taking a new lover//flirting in public in front of me. Not into feminization or pain but everyone's different

 

I suspect you will find wide variation....

 

There are a many things beyond just tease and denial that would interest me, but in terms of humiliation, only a certain type is of interest. Being humbled by her demonstration of dominance, emphasizing her power and control over me, yes, very much so. Being denigrated and having my value as a human being belittled, no.

When I see dominant women reflexively use the words "pathetic" and "loser", it is a complete turnoff. I know better than that about myself, and why would any woman deserving of my devotion even want someone who is a pathetic loser? I'm much more in tune with the idea of a strong and worthy male in thrall to an even stronger and more worthy woman.