Have you ever had your key held by a lesbian?

Lesbian means Not interested in Male contact so for Male IT shouldn't Not interesting as it should not interesting for keyholder too.

Would be only a way of permanent Lock because the lesbian would never start to demand opening.

For me wouldnt be a interesting Partner for auch a task

 

I doubt I will ever have any form of sex (except some form of permitted masturbation) so the real issue is whether I could provide any type of value to my KH. Lesbians are women and many are strong women who would make excellent KHs and probably put men to good uses.

 

I think having a lesbian hold your key would be a perfect example of being careful of what you wish for

 

I think it would be a great idea.
beats having the key lost in the mail

 

Absolutely, I would! If only!

 

I think your chances of seeing it again would be about the same

 

I have never been in this situation, but if I had to speculate Inwould say that it actually make perfect sense.
As a locked sub, it is not about my pleasure, therefore it is only appropriate the be locked by someone who has no need for “it”.

 

it's always been a fantasy of mine with a lesbian keyholder but never tried it

 

My keyholder is queer, and prefers women, but I wouldn't say lesbian fully fits. Anyhow, this suits us well because I am married, and the 3 of us are good friends. She wants someone who can serve her, and be close with her, but not pressure her sexually. That she has no sexual use for my locked bits is perfect in our 3 way situation. For her, making me into a happily chste/denied guy creates the ideal service situation, and as a sadist, her only interest in my parts is for hurting them. The last thing she wants is a guy who is focused on his own pleasure and his penis, so it's been a slow process of learning to no longer want typical male stuff. It's a fairly different dynamic from most situations, but being more kink/S&M based, it actually works well for us. As locked butler pointed out, if your desire is to no longer focus on your own pleasure, then someone who has no interest in your dick is perfect.

 

As a MtF trans i concider myself a lesbian and i would prefer a girl/monan to be my Mistress/keyholder. Infact a friend of mine is my current KH a girl friend I dont think people realy care if the person holding the key is Male/female/trans and is either bi,straight or gay.

 

oh yea. My english is not perfect so i have it clear in my head but i am not the best at writing i guess, SORRY! What i tried to say but failed horribly at was.
I dont think people realy care about the KH/Mistress/Masters sexual orientation. Mostly it's on the chemestry between two people and then maybe on the preferred sex as a second.
hope that made a bit more sens

 

My Mistress has a lesbian friend that may become her lover and she will be holding my key in the very near future! I am both scared and excited. Scared of sharing my wife but excited for her and our future.

 

I shared a flat with 2 Lesbians-- very open dialogue-- not man haters -- however my habits were controlled.

 

I have shared elsewhere that a lesbian KH - or a 2nd woman (along with my wife) having a say in what release I would be allowed has been a long time fantasy of mine.

Most of my friends are LGBT in one form or another - mostly L.

Years ago, I asked a close lesbian friend of mine if she would like to control my O's (I was on the honor system back then) - she said: "Sure. That sounds fun!". She was a natural at the role and it got as close to living that fantasy as it could possible get ... but alas - while we were couple friends as well, our partners were not interested in that arraignment. So the 'KH' aspect was short lived.

Still, the thought remains with me.

 

For me it doesn't make any difference whether the keyholder is straight, lesbian, bisexual etc, I think the key issue is submitting oneself to a lady who decides when my release shall be. I don't know whether those who have controlled me in the past were lesbian or not, it never came up as a topic of discussion. The fact that in person meetings won't take place removes the possibility of any physical contact and therefore sexual preferences tend to become irrelevant. The fantasy part of the submission is that the keyholders are female and unobtainable. I've only ever been chaste via online control (not currently locked), so can't compare it to real life situations. I've never wanted to show relief on webcam or anything like that as I don't see what the keyholder gets out of it.

 

Could be interesting

 

No I haven’t and I’ve never even thought about it. I guess getting unlocked than wouldn’t happen very often. Why Would she want To?

 

And with little imagination the teasing would be spectacular

 

In my experience it doesn't really matter to most online anyway. They are looking to get off on a fantasy and then ghost the moment they are done. Few have any real substance, and even fewer can see this dynamic for the buety it is. Just because your cock is locked up it doesn't center around you. I

 

In my personal opinion that would be an interesting experience. There would be no sexual tension between the male and his mistress, obviously. On the other side you would have long locking times (refers to her) and maybe more humiliating experiences since she wont be interested in fucking you (of course not because of online locking). She would rather let you hump the wall than touching you. She gets no pleasure from that at all.

That sounds like a good idea...

 

This isn’t true. I have a very beautiful lesbian friend. She’s like a sister to me. But there is a sexual tension. As men we too often are driven by our sexual desires.

So in my case, while I respect my friend, I’d gladly let her use me any way she wanted if she were willing. And she’s told me about some of her experiences using men for her pleasure. Which only makes it worse as our relationship won’t go beyond our friendship. And yes we talked about a D/s one at one point.

Contrary to our misguided beliefs, not all lesbians are 100% gay. In my friends case she’s not interested in men at all for romance or anything more than a rare fuck. And not all D/s is sexual. Service can be very powerful.

Anyway, my point is never assume things and people are more complex than stereotypes.

 

My keyholder/Domme and I have a very close, and amazing relationship, even though she is queer, and prefers women. Not being required for sex makes it much more compatible with our poly wife/me/her dynamic. It does mean less time unlocked, as she has no use for seeing me unlocked, outside of a couple of times a year she wants to hurt it. Service is #1, Letting her be sadistic is #2, and for her, the power exchange of taking away a highly sexual males sexuality is something she treasures deeply, and goes beyond sex. We do have a great deal of affection, and intimacy, just not horny sex.

 

Maybe a lesbian friend. No point in getting unlocked because there would be no chance for sex.

 

I wouldn't mind a lesbian locking me up, I would know she didn't want my clitty cock.