Have you ever had your key held by a lesbian?

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  1. L-u-c-y
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    On another site I have been inundated with males wanting to masturbate on webcam "for me" or trying to send their naked photos "for me". I have changed my profile to LESBIAN to try and put them off, but they are too dumb to take that onboard of course.

    I have had some ask me to hold their keys as well.

    My question is mainly for online lockees, have you ever had your key held by a lesbian? Would you be interested in that or would it ruin it for you?
     
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    I do not know about online keyhoders, I'm one of the lucky guys to have a lovely wife to share all that.

    But in case I would have to look online, I think I wouldn't mind as long as there is some loving or at least caring vibe between us (online and me).

    I think that when that is absent, then I would call it commercial keyholding (paid or for free) and that would not be something for me.
     
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    How would free keyholding be commercial?
     
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    The problem is that guys tend to call any girl who has sex with girls, lesbians. Either that or they think that the lesbian has not met the right man. I cannot remember how many times I was asked how it felt to be married to a lesbian who had her lover living in our house. My wife still calls girl on girl sex, lesbian sex. That is terminology from our younger days when bisexual was not a real thing.

    I was dominated online by a guy who pretended he was a girl. When I found out, I was not very upset since it really did not matter as we were not having sex anyway. :) I think you may even attract more men if they think you are a lesbian since they obviously not looking for physical sex but someone who just does not care if they ever have an orgasm again. I had a small taste of that when my wife and girlfriend cut me off from both oral and PIV sex. I thought it was hot to be submissive to women who could care less about my penis or orgasms. Men are weird. I think you can post that you are not human and still have guys willing to masturbate for you. :)
     
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    I'm not currently locked, Mistress Lucy, nor have I been locked by a lesbian, but I would be completely happy, in fact honoured, to be locked online by one. In fact, Her sexual orientation wouldn't be of major importance to me, much more important would be Her desire to use my chastity as a tool to control me, my urges, my weaknesses, and to serve Her in the best way I could, and as She directed. I believe the D/s dynamic is paramount, not the sexual relationship, and as a believer in female superiority I see chastity as a tool to help train and enforce this truth in weak and wayward males, and for the benefit of the Mistress / Owner.
     
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    That's an interesting idea. Key held by a Lesbian. Speaking as a male I would think that your releases would be a lot fewer and farther between and also any orgasm you were allowed wouldn't involve stimulation from a female. Thanks @ Mistress Lucy for making everyone think about chastity alittle bit differently
     
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    The tease and denial could really get very intense.
     
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    Hello , firstly let me say I am not an online lockee and have been in a relationship with my mistress for many years so maybe not the person you want to answer your question , However I think you might find that placing lesbian on your profile will attract just as many and in some cases more attention from males , on both a serious and thrill seeking level , I don't think the replies will mainly come from males that are too dumb to take it on board but more simply will just use the fact to heighten their possible fantasy or experience , There is for a lot of males an unexplained attraction to lesbians
     
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    What I mean by too dumb to take it on board is when they offer to masturbate on webcam or send photos of their penises to a lesbian. that is pretty dumb you must agree.
     
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    in reality yes , but they are probably only looking at things from their point of view and use it to fuel a fantasy they may have , whilst not really taking fact or your view point on board , this is where the unexplained element comes into play
     
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    So what you are saying is they are males who call themselves submissive but who are trying to use women to get their kicks.
     
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    I would say more that they call themselves submissive and want to be , but and its a big but , with things on their terms ,and how they want them , in a way topping from the bottom ,
     
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    Id say no interest..I'm not someone who never wants to cum again..and there needs to be trust and a certain sexual tension for this to work for me. I want to be used by my queen for her enjoyment in and out of the bedroom. A true lesbian would have no use for a man in the bedroom. (Maybe to fix her car!)
     
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    That's why the question was for online lockees.
     
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    With commercial I meant business-distant emotionally, not connected or unaffected,

    but you are right: I'm not an online lockee, so the question is not really for me...
     
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    Seems to me that a lesbian would make a perfect KH. No chance she's want him sexually herself and she'll ensure he gets none with anyone else either.
     
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    I agree with @Joroincharge, you might have encouraged more guys to contact you lol. For guys really into denial they know a lesbian would probably be heartless and ruthless.
     
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    I once read somewhere that any guy who is really in to masochism, S& M, fem-dom, gynarchy and all that related stuffalong with chastity really ought to seek as a mistress the butchest ugliest lesbian tyrant one can imagine, that would use and abuse him terribly demand he serve her well and the question of sex probaly would never rear its head again nor would his penis as it would probably be locked and denied for the rest of his or her life.

    I did for a while live my my wife and our girlfriend they both had a key to one lock so was interesting at times to see how the dynamic between them twisted and reshaped as I would go from being out daily with regular full ex with either or both of them to not getting out for weeks.
     
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    Lana's sissy pet has an online keyholder, but has never had a lesbian one. To be honest, she thinks it would be quite a turn-on. Having someone with no interest or use for Lana's sissy pet's boy parts would seem soooo exciting -- a release could only be achieved when the keyholder found it amusing. Well, come to think of it, that's the exact situation Lana's sissy pet is in right now :) -- but yes, Lana's sissy pet would find it very exciting.
     
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    It would not ruin it for me. I've never been able to move from fantasy to reality, but I regret not submitting to a lesbian who grabbed my ass in college. I would submit today without question.
     
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    I have a good friend who is lesbian. We had discussed her holding my keys but her wife is the jealous type so it was best not to go there.
     
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    On a side note - I've seen that happen to a number of blogs, tumblrs, et al run by women. Guys overwhelm them, and they either disable the "ask" and comment features, or quit outright
     
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    Yep!
     
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    Mistress Lucy the thought of an online Lesbian being its Owner interests this slave quite a bit, in fact it was Owned in the past bi a bi-sexual Female and She was fantastic up until She tired of this slave of course. :(
     
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    I have been key held online by a number of Mistress's (all but one pseudo), none of them were lesbian.

    However, I do want to throw in a quick say because from my experience, I found that whenever my keyholder's interest would waver, (i.e less msgs/calls/requests) I found myself infatuated with her and would make any excuse to get her attention/offer a service to her. She said too that I was much more attentive.

    I think that having a lesbian key holder would amplify this effect, described above. As @Lanas Pet pointed out it, lockees would be constantly working in order to remain useful to their Mistress. It would be an exciting challenge for the lockee!

    Again this is from a lockee's POV. I would be interested to hear an online keyholder's opinion.
     
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