Have you ever had your key held by a lesbian?

My keyholder would also be my owner, her sexuality would not be relevant to me. My usefulness to her would.

 

That's the boat I'm in for the most part. It's also why and how my wife allows me to serve my keyholder, since I'm for service and bdsm, but not for sex. We are still very close, and love each other, but she's queer and much prefers women. Me without a dick, or a need or desire to use one is "the next best thing" to having a female partner for her, and that's what we've worked towards for the last 3-4 years. It started with a long friendship and mutual experiences in the bdsm world. It would be much harder to just search out and find a gay/queer partner to serve, as a straight (mostly straight) guy.