Chastity without pegging, strapons or sissification

For us, so far even though it's only been a few weeks, this has turned out to be the best benefit. We now have much more intimacy and playfulness all with her control. She is starting to really enjoy the "game" aspect. I'm trying my best not to push her even one little bit and it's already starting to pay off.

 

Look.. I do believe that would find some fun if my wife wants it... But, certainly will not come from me... I like to just be chaste all day long... She controls all my sexual drive and is very demanding like that.. and of course, after 1 or 2 months locked up, I would try anything only to get a chance to get out....

 

Well, 12 years with my wife and she’s not willing to explore any of this. But, I self lock when she’s out of town, I would love to try pegging, I’d love tease and denial (unlocked), I’d love bondage (even some hardcore) and I think I would be into some humiliation in the bedroom. For me it’s the power exchange. Not into the feminization, sissy, forced bi, cuckholding, or anything that makes her less in the relationship. Basically, I want the traditional roles and genders, but her dominance. I really wish there were more “safe spaces and content” for loving traditional wives to take more assertive sexual positions in traditional relationships.

 

I find the idea of pegging and strap-ons titillating, but not enough to go there. My wife has never mentioned any interest. Sissification holds no appeal for either of us.

 

What he said.

 

I never had a fetish for feminizstion, pegging or strapons. I just have a chastity and worship fetish

 

I didn't know worship was a fetish, it seems so central and normal to me.

 

Same giving my owner the power is my kink I think that starts at a basic level with locking and from there everything else is a discussion I’d go up to significant to high discomforts to show my servitude but I do have hard limits. They aren’t anything mentioned above as long as it stayed private

 

I’ve worn silk panties and tights after being told to order some. I like the feeling and I’d gladly do it again if told but it’s not something I crave

 

Chastity to show that She is to the only one and to please Her totally. Doesn't
get any better than that for us.

 

ME! I have been locked up and have no major interest in being a sissy and still have my anal cherry intact. I think I am in the minority really as been in numerous websites and chats around chastity and nearly all were sissies, or bi men from experience.

For me, it is that sacrifice of giving control over to the Woman in your life.

 

Zero interest in pegging, feminazation ect

For me Chasity is about female power and the sexiness of physically being controlled by a woman.

 

Look around here -- there are many, many locked husbands who are not sissies or bi men, and some of us are pegged and/or panties.

 

I'm willing to concede your point on being pegged does not make you a sissy nor indeed does the exploration of any erogenous zone.

However and to be honest I think if you are saying there are many locked men wearing ladies underwear that are not a sissy surely that is a contradiction. I don't care about it either way as always each to their own but saying crossdressing within TTTWD and not a sissy does not quite make sense.

 

Panties alone do not a sissy make. For some wives and husbands panties with the cage simply reinforce the message of loss of erection and power exchange.

 

Might also just be comfortable

 

Before chastity I have always had a thing for crossdressing and wearing feminine undergarments. But I find as the more I am locked up, the more I want to wear and the more I feel lady like. I am not into bi though but I don't mind my lady using her strap-on and having some fun play time.

 

Well put and certainly true for me. Having underwear for both of us which consists just of panties is a symbol of the irrelevance of the penis, its existence is not even being acknowledged.

 

(I was searching for a different topic and found this one.)

While I do have kinks, I’m not interested in pegging, sissification or full crossdressing; and while Being on the receiving-end of a strap-on worn by a frustrated chastened man sounds both hot and hilarious, I wouldn’t classify that as a must-have fetish.

 

My madam also has zero interest in me using a strap on or toys on her, but the other way round is just heavenly, and she has me wear panties as a point of humiliation.

 

We are into chastity without all that. My wife/keyholder just loves controlling “her” penis.

 

I'm into chastity in general. I have no keyholder and no experience though. Seriously about to let a guy KH for me..... I'm straight but can deepthroat very well so it seems like a potential match..... maybe

 

Check out the Chastity Challenge for self-locking on this forum, if you like!

 

Nope. She just loves that all my focus is on her and her pleasure now. She didn't like the days of BC when I would cum, she wouldn't, and then I'd be done. Only time dildos are used is if she doesn't feel like unlocking me, but she still wants some "dick"

 

No control I'd Last maybe an hour