Does your KH allow masturbation (without orgasm of course)

I am not allowed to provide any stimulation to my penis, but this is the rule I struggle with the most. One of the most common items on my weekly punishment list is edging myself with the magic wand on the cage. In our early days of chastity before we instituted punishments I got into the habit of edging myself, because she had no interest in doing it herself. At the time it just worked for us. As she became more dominant and expected/demanded more from me she decided I shouldn't be allowed to continue to do this. As part of my efforts to more fully embrace her will and my subservience this year, I've gotten much better about it. I'm down to about once every 2-3 weeks instead of 2-3 times a week. I am also unlocked for certain activities, the most common of which is sailing. In the past I would sometimes take advantage of that unlocking to masturbate for edging purposes. My goal is to stop this completely as instructed and I'm hopeful I can.

 

I'm not allowed to masturbate at all. But it's a moot point since I'm never unlocked unless she wants to play, in which case she's the one who decides what happens.

 

In the last year and a half I have only touched my self once and that was to pee in a cup then the cage went back on. My KH/Wife is the only one that plays with her penis 2 to 3 times a week some times only bringing me to the edge and some weeks I get nothing at all

 

A former chronic masturbation habit is the main reason I'm locked up, so no wanking will ever be allowed for me again. I don't even touch my penis during sex, she will insert it herself. I only touch it during supervised showers.

 

Nope. I'm rarely uncaged when she's not around, but even when I'm caged she doesn't want me tugging on the cage or humping the bed. I kind of thought, before it all started, that she would allow me to stimulate myself as long as I didn't come, but she immediately made it clear I wasn't to give myself any stimulation, period.

 

We haven't had this discussion in this depth! Obviously masturbation is not allowed -- that's what the f***ing cage is for. (Once every few months she'll unlock me and tell me to masturbate for her -- she knows I'm ashamed of my former masturbation habit and does it both because she thinks it's amusing and, I think, because she wants me to remember what she no longer allows.) But all these other variations -- prostate massage, dildos, pillow humping, etc -- we've never talked about. I bet if I ask she'll say no. Which means I probably should ask.

 

No, my wife never allowed any stimulation by my own hands, only hers. And that is rare.

It is why I am happy to be on MTF HRT, which basically castrates you. The constant frustration sucked. Now I don’t really care. And she is happy that I don’t care because I am not distracted by it so much during lovemaking.