Hi, I’m a 43 years old male. Maried for the past 15 years to an amazing women. I have introduced a chastity cage to my wife about 3 years ago. She took it very well and she did not take long to enjoy all the benefits of keeping my cock locked and keeping me away from masterbation. The moment I told her all about chastity cage and the reasons why I need to wear one, she completely agree that this would be perfect thing to keep me sexually ready at anytime. My wife is not only sexy but she is also very intelligent so she right away ask me if I was sure about what I was asking her to take controle off. She mentioned to me that there is no turning back since she knew that this was going to be quite interesting and addicting. Once a gave her the key, she was not going to give it back. I have agreed to never complain or ask for release. My wife has always been a dominant person but never fully accepted the power she had over me. When I introduced the chastity cage 3 years ago I also discussed with her the dominance that she had with me. She said that she knew that she was naturally dominant with me but did not feel confortable with it. I told her that this was a huge turn on for me and that I always loved it when she gave me orders and directions. She admitted that this was natural for her to controle me but she never really thought about it. She even became emotional when I told her that I knew that she loved taking charge in our relationship. So she admitted that she will now be more accepting of her dominance over me. So in the past 3 years she has evolved completely and she is now more dominant than ever. For the past 2 years I have been taking care of all the house chores. She also knows that I have a feet and shoe fetish so when she leaves or arrive at home I am in charge of her shoes and boots. She lets me put them on her feet’s and remove them. I’m also in charge of keeping them clean at all time. I love it! The first year she was making me wear a chastity cage about 3 to 4 days at a time with breaks for sometime one to two weeks. The second year I was wearing it 6 to 7 days at a time with breaks for 3 to 5 days. Then last year I was wearing it 6 to 7 days at a time with breaks for 2 days. So in December she informed me that she will be keeping me in chastity for longer period since she finds that I am lacking stability in my day to day chores and also it did not help that she found me masterbating. So I have been wearing my chastity cage since December 18th 2018. Since we do still have sex she is locking me back in right after sex. I’m slowly accepting that I no longer able to masterbate. By the way, I’m very serious about chastity and will not attempt to pull out or any attempt to play with myself. But my wife finds it very fun to play and tease me just to see me go crazy. Oh yes, I also love to dress with sexy things in latex, leather, higheel....I’m a closet bisexual that likes to travesties. Anyway, this is me right now. I have left many details so if any questions, please do not hesitate.
To give an update, I have been locked for the past 40 days and my last orgasm and PIV was 25 days ago. Once a week I take a lovely shower with my wife for a good cleaning of her property and the cage. I had a few frustrating times but I have now gotten over them. I am missing the feeling of PIV with my wife. Its the first time that I go that long without all of that. I have been keeping busy with chores and other stuff so that I keep my mind focused on pleasing her. One of my worries is about how she is getting her own sexual pleasure. She does uses her vibrator often and I do oral stimulation about once a week that end in an orgasm for her but how about PIV. I know that she loves oral but what about the rest. I admit that I’m not the best at PIV and she has mentioned before that it hard for her to get an orgasm this way from me. Will see how this will continue. For the people reading, please feel free to comment. If any of you has lived the same or had the same questions please give your input.
Welcome! When we started she let me out nightly and always ended with me cumming. She also thought it would be good for my skin if she rubbed vitamin e oil on it regularly to keep my skin healthy there. Gradually it went to about once a week, and then when I got pierced and she couldn’t touch it, a switch flipped. I got a cage that I could wear while my piercing healed and continued to service her as usual. This became more of our routine, and when I was fully healed 3 months later, she didn’t seem to need penetration from me...or feel the need to take it out on a daily basis. I believe it was that time of unreciprocated attention that she didn’t feel guilt (physically I couldn’t be touched there), that let her accept pleasure without guilt. Once that happened she told me whenever I get a lil needy “this is about me isn’t it?” I of course said yes “then there isn’t a reason to let you out right now”. And there it is. She is a loving and caring person, and before chastity she would have gladly reciprocated or let me in her if for no other reason than to make me happy. When it clicked that I wanted her to be happy, and I really did want this to be about her, she was felt open enough to be honest. 1. Penetration from me is something she does for me not her, so doesn’t do it all that often. 2. Taking it out to play with it is also for me, and is a treat to be given not expected. 3. She isn’t big on breaks from the cage. The only time I am ever out of it are when she plays with me for a minute or two, or I need some healing time. It was a rather quick jump from not knowing or understanding anything about being a kh, to her keeping me caged pretty much all the time. I once started a thread here called “I miss head” Lol because it’s something she doesn’t do much of anymore but was something she did every time we were intimate before. Again, I think it’s because she is a loving and giving person, and it didn’t register right away that she didn’t have to do anything she didn’t want to do. Keep writing, looking forward to hear more.
Hi Vicky, A significant part of my duties involves pleasing my Keyholder in accordance with my training. This includes servicing Her with Her vibrators and Her Hitachi. I have learned how to operate these devices as per Her direction. Participating in Her pleasure is my reward. It is also customary for me to orally clean the devices for Her amusement before washing them. I have also been trained to use a strap-on to Her specifications while still locked in chastity. The discipline required is amazing. Nothing reinforces chastity & submission quite like using a strap-on and being denied an orgasm.
Love your story. Thanks for sharing. I feel that this is what’s happening, my wife no longer feels the need to have me penetrate her. I think that it doesn’t help me that I do an amassing oral job on her. I always think that if I do the best I can she will unlock me to have PIV but that no longer works. And in the past momths, she no longer feels bad about keeping me locked. It’s funny how it becomes natural for her to see me locked. She said that she feels weird when she has not her key with her. Like you, my wife is very much caring about me and she tells me that this is good for us. My wife knows that one good reason I’m wearIng a chastity cage is that I love to take care of her and she craves it. She loves the attention I give her and she loves the power over my sexuality. It’s important for her that I’m focus on pleasing her and she often see herself as a queen. I love it! Today I think about everything that has happen lately and I feel so lucky to have her and that this is what I always wanted. And I find this very exciting. I’m nervous about the future but very excited Does your wife still let’s you cum sometimes?
I must have not expressed myself correctly, she is a very caring and giving person, and used to allow and give orgasms on an almost daily basis, but as she evolved and deprogrammed herself that she did not need to reciprocate and did things on the basis on her needs, my orgasms, especially in her, has gotten fewer and fewer.
I love the sound of “training” and I love the way you use majuscule for her. I’m a bit jealous of where your at in your relationship. I would love it if my wife would let me help her with her vibrator. And I would definitely see it also as a reward. And wow, This would be amazing if she would let me use a strap-on wile locked. This as been one of my dreams. Knowing my wife, she would definitely have me wear something way larger than me and I know that this would be the end of PIV for me. Does your KH see other men?
Majuscule, indeed. Her position, power and general overall awesomeness warrants it. As Her collared slave, serving Her in this capacity is a privilege. The end of PIV is Her decision entirely. When She permits me PIV, i consider it to be the height of sacred privilege. No, not at this point. It is not out of the question and will probably be a part of my future. We have discussed the possibility of my becoming a service slave to Her potential lovers as part of my training. There are a lot of requirements to avoid the pitfalls. But, of course, servicing Her and any consort falls squarely within my interests. And i have conserted to wearing Her collar.
For myself the hardest part of wearing a chastity cage is being refitted with it just after we have had sex for some reason I just don't want to wear it when I have orgasmed. I am not allowed to be uncaged anymore so its back in the cage but under an internal protest in my mind. However once I am locked again this subsides and I accept that I am now again being kept as an impotent shemale. When we started my chastity training I would be allowed out for maybe a week after previous lock up sessions and again after being allowed to orgasm I did not want to be put back in my cage however after about 4 days the urge to be locking in the cage again returned. I guess its something to do with the testosterone levels which fall immediately after orgasm maybe affecting the desires. Anyway i am now locked 24/7 and get so few orgasms this is now academic but worthy of little note Mitch
The last few days I have been dreaming of what the feelings of pure flesh to flesh PIV would be like. I had only been allowed three last year, twice while wearing condoms. When that bell went off in my keyholder's head, the numbers 1, 2, and 3 stared to apply for me also, but I am let out for certain reasons, mostly when we go travel on vacation, when I go golfing ( only for the time I am away because I am allergic to bee and wasp stings ) or whenever she deems it necessary.
Yes, this is exactly what I do, every chance I get to please her I do. And so far its all positive. I’m happy that your relationship is going so well.
I feel the same way. Right after sex she ask that I get cleaned up and put the cage back on and I know I can’t say anything so I do what she says. Before when I was wearing it part time I always hope that she makes me put the cage back on when it was not. Lately since I’m wearing it 24/7 for the past 45 days I don’t know how I will feel when she unlocks me for Sex.
Yesterday I got a good reality check. My wife and I we were on the couch watching tv and she was teasing me by caressing my balls. Of course I was so hard and I was straining in my cage. Then she asked for a foot massage. I love her feet’s and I do give her foot massages regularly. It’s kind of hard on me since I get turn on so much but the pain is worth it. After about 20 minutes she directs me give her oral stimulation as I do with a big smile. A few minutes later and an orgasm I look up and see her in full attention watching tv. So I’m there licking her and she is watching tv like nothing special is going on down there. That lasted for a good 5 minutes and she then put her panties back up and said thanks my love. Is it weird that I felt very turn on by that and that the feeling of being used was fine with me? And this is when I got the reality check. It’s been 45 days since unlocked and 30 days denied an orgasm and she is fine with it. Not even a comment about it or future plans. I’m excited, turn on, scared and so in love with her. I want more! I thought I gave my plans for tomorrow since my wife is working till 21:00. When I will be home, I will be getting all dressed up in my higheel boots, leather skirt with a silky blouse and corset until she gets home. It’s been a long time since I have fully dressed up. I just love the feeling of looking all sexy. I might also use my dildo to see if I can get a few drops. If you guys have any suggestions to how to try to drain my balls, let me know. I hear that this might help release some pressure.
Another little problem I face is i cannot erect fully anymore without the help of viagra et al, however once we have finished the erection is still quite solid and it takes about 6 hours for the penis to shrink back to the size I am prior to caging which is only about 7cm. After sex and with viagra my penis sits at over 10cm and is quite fat so getting back into my tiny urethral Looker1 is quite a challenge. I am going to ask mistress for an extension of time before I am re caged maybe she will agree to a few hours while I shrink. I am not asking to be allowed to be uncaged anymore just an extension after she gives me viagra. Lets see how she reacts next time I am released. Could be a while yet Mitch
Nanny is a one-sissy woman, but I have asked her if she desires another lover, even as a fantasy. She says she's not interested, and should she have any sexual needs, she has a sissy to service her. There's been no PIV for us, since we agreed to a FLR. Nanny doesn't want a boyfriend bugging her for sex, and finds our dynamic very agreeable. In this 1st year of full-time chastity, Nanny does not unlock me at all, so I have not experienced the letdown. I'm aroused continuously, which I prefer.
Hi Vicky, I love your red latex maid's outfit. Do you serve your wife dressed? You seem to be as eager as this sissymaid in training, and I wondered where your journey has lead beyond chastity.