Relationship status poll

Discussion in 'Female led relationships' started by Guest 6019, Mar 30, 2022.

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What is your relationship status

  1. Married - Domme wife

  2. Married - Cuckold

  3. Married - Pro Domme outside of marriage

  4. Married - Wife locks but mostly vanilla

  5. Married - self lock wife not involved fantasy at the moment

  6. Married - never locked fantasy at the moment

  7. Single - Pro domme

  8. Single - Fin Domme

  9. Single - self lock fantasy at the moment

  10. Single - never locked fantasy at the moment

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  1. Guest 6019
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    #1 Guest 6019, Mar 30, 2022
    Anonymous pole. Married could also mean in a loving relationship with your partner whether married or not. You are exclusive to each other (except cuckolding).

    I hope I've covered all. Maybe we can discuss categories and redo it
     
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    #2 madams-sissysub, Mar 30, 2022
    I answered married-cuck although my madam is Dom with others to.
     
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    #3 Guest 6019, Mar 30, 2022
    Interesting split so far. I'm in the Married mostly vanilla category.

    My wife thought I took too long to come, and that would sometimes make her sore. When she was coming to the end of her period October 2020, I bought a CBs clone from HoD and self-locked for about 12 hours, before she found it. I explained that I wanted to save myself for her, and stop masturbating. 11 cages later...The rest is history. Now I'm locked and loving it. Usually out about once a week , and she's growing into it, and likes that I'm locked. Wears the key hidden, but with pride. As do I my cage. I'm proud to lock for her.

    I hope everyone will vote, it'd be nice to see good, reliable data on the demographic here.
     
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    #4 Tarknassus, Mar 30, 2022
    I opted for Married Domme Wife, because my wife is rapidly heading in that direction - it was a tough call tbh, because she is pretty vanilla in some things, but she's really coming into her stride and taking charge in ways I've not even considered or hinted at.

    Heck, even though she's been ill this week, she's keeping tabs ready for when she's feeling better...
     
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    #5 Guest 6019, Mar 30, 2022


    This is where we get into definition. So what constitutes a Domme Wife. Are you in some kind of TPE, finding every private moment to create scenes? Is it restricted by work, kids, time...So 99% of the time you are a normal couple. I think we should go with time spent in kinky situations, apart from just wearing the cage. I get an occasional whipping, but it's still vanilla. Even if she decided to be more kinky and did a full on Domme scene it would still be restricted to the bedroom, and a text or two. Still vanilla. What do you think?
     
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    #6 Alceste, Mar 30, 2022
    Defective poll.
     
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    #7 Guest 6019, Mar 31, 2022
    Why do you think that?
     
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    #8 Alceste, Mar 31, 2022
    False dilemma.
     
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    #9 Guest 6019, Mar 31, 2022
    Not really explaining are you? Just being negative. How about more constructive comments
     
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    #10 Alceste, Mar 31, 2022
    There are not enough choices. None of the scenarios fit my situation.
     
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    #11 Evan Gore, Mar 31, 2022
    I'm just a pet/slave for my two Mistress. I'm not technically in a relationship with either. I'm alot closer with my in person Mistress but I'm entirely at her mercy for any form of affection or other wise.
     
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    #12 Guest 6019, Mar 31, 2022
    If you read my OP, I said this was for discussion, and asked if I had missed out categories, suggesting a rerun. You are still not giving me enough to go on.
    How would you do the categories?

    What specifically is missing?

    What you are doing is equivalent to this:

    "It's bollocks"
    "Why?"
    "Just is"

    You sound like a belligerent teenager, It's like squeezing blood out of a stone. Either contribute in a positive way, and add to the discussion, or not at all.
     
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    #13 Tom Allen, Mar 31, 2022
    Mrs Edge and I have a pretty vanilla relationship. Aside from the permanently locked up thing, anyway.
     
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    #14 A4w2, Mar 31, 2022
    Lol.. I miss words like bollocks… again, I am in a pretty common place it’s seems - mostly vanilla wife, who seems to like the lock up thing - hence is more of a raspberry ripple now :)
     
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    #15 Guest 6019, Mar 31, 2022
    Even if her other subs vote, it won't skew the data
     
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    #16 Alceste, Mar 31, 2022
    It could be as simple as just adding a case for "None of the above".

    The rest of your post comes across as pretty "belligerent". I was just pointing out that your poll was incomplete.
     
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    #17 Inksters, Mar 31, 2022
    I like this poll, I think it covers everything just fine, thanks for taking the time to make it. I voted married vanilla, I really like that’s where the majority here voted. I’m new here but really enjoying the “real talk” here. My wife and I both are finding it much more than a kink, but more as a loving communication
     
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    #18 Guest 6019, Mar 31, 2022
    I pointed out in the original post, that it might be incomplete. Did you need to repeat that? I asked you nicely for your views, but you weren't exactly forthcoming. "None of the above" doesn't help with the understanding of the demographic in my current opinion, but I'm happy to be persuaded otherwise. "None of the Above" kinda feels like someone actually doesn't want to be part of the discussion. I am not looking for belligerence between us. Just a conversation. So I ask again....To everyone.

    What categories am I missing?
    If you were to add a category (not a non-category) what should it be?
    Can it be simplified? Have less, but more inclusive categories?

    @Alceste I think, what you didn't pick up on, in my OP was that I was aiming for a first draft kind of thing. Hive thinking would then pick up on things I've missed. I meant no offense. Just trying to get you to engage on a deeper level man!
     
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    #19 Guest 6019, Mar 31, 2022
    After a few months from first locked, I said I thought the cage was the least kinky thing about it. It's a tool to keep me loyal (not masturbating), which consequently has other benefits that make it worthwhile for a vanilla couple.
     
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    #20 ChasteJase, Mar 31, 2022
    Thanks for the poll, Jah Rubbings. I think it is useful and informative.
     
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    #21 Inksters, Mar 31, 2022
    100% i am currently practicing full time chastity with supervised releases. My sex life has dramatically improved now my wife knows 100% she is the only source of my orgasms, and my orgasms are much more intense when I’m allowed. I’d say there are some pretty big benefits, especially if wife can really grasp this concept. I’ve tried chastity in a relationship prior to my wife, but it was play and was put in the kink box. Again with my new wife, when we where dating I introduced chastity she thought it was kinky for about five minutes, lol. Now, 6yrs in 2yrs married we are revisiting chastity as more than play and have been sharing a more intellectual relationship. It’s taken a lot of communication and being honest with ourselves to be able to communicate. Honestly I’m finding I never really knew how to properly express myself which led to break downs in relationships, now I’m finding new ways to communicate and it’s working. I’m enjoying this sight, seems to be some genuine people here going though the same things. I especially like the way you’ve been handling this tread
     
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    #22 Alceste, Mar 31, 2022
    Since you set the poll to have the result viewable only after voting, that implies that it needs to be complete so that everyone can vote. Otherwise, someone for whom a choice does not exist cannot view the results.
     
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    #23 ChasteJase, Mar 31, 2022
    @Alceste - you have posted on this thread 5 times now and have yet to state what additional field you would want to have in this poll. I can't be the only one who wants to know what is missing from the poll that would cover your situation. Can you please specify?
     
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    #24 Guest 6019, Mar 31, 2022
    Interesting. I'd not thought about it that way. I thought it would encourage more votes, and ensure impartiality.
     
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    #25 Guest 3729, Mar 31, 2022
    I ended up picking wife locks mostly vanilla. It’s kind of a dance between both but I think I fit in that category.
     
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