The main reason for me being locked, as with most is to reduce my orgasms and make me a more attentive, loving, and caring husband. Being a former chronic masturbator, I now understand how orgasm denial works and why my keyholder keeps me locked up. I just miss the feeling of holding my hard cock while masturbating. When ever I ask if I can (masturbate) she says " that's a waste of good cum" or she will just instantly say "NO" I'm allowed orgasms once a week but only after I have pleased her thoroughly and then I'm allowed to be inside her and cum. Is anyone allowed to masturbate supervised or unsupervised?
I'm only allowed supervised orgasms, and also only after I pleased my Wife orally. The manner how depends on her mood. In general my testicles are drained weekly, but often it can be longer. I do not automatically receive an orgasm, nor should I count on it: a ruined orgasm is always possible depending on what she desires. Sometimes she'll take full control. One method she prefers is to use a riding crop and vibrating wand to make me cum while I'm tied up. There are no words to describe how enjoyable it is if she lets me cum while locked in a medieval bondage device. When allowed to use my own hand I'll be leashed and on my knees in front of her. In such cases I'll also be told where to put my load and from where to ingest it afterwards - her feet, boots, cup. Alternatively I may have to have a plug or vibrating dildo inserted into my anus when allowed to cum. As for PIV: she doesn't enjoy it, so it doesn't happen. Only very few times I was allowed to put my penis inside her and that was only with her on top and me tied down.
I am never ever allowed to masturbate supervised or not. My main form of release is when she jacks me off in the shower, but I do get PIV a couple times a month.
I am allowed supervised masturbation on rare situations, but never unsupervised. Like you, i had been a chronic masturbator before we built up our FLR. Now, @MistressAMA allows me to play with "Her toy" once in a great while and always for Her amusement. Whether that ends in a climax is also up to Her--sometimes the amusement is just to have me stop and go back into my chastity cage. One crazy thing we did that might help: Mistress had me hold Her favorite penis dildo ("Phil"--get it?) and stroke that. It did feel good to stroke a hard dick in my hand again (and a bigger one, at that). After a few minutes of doing that and watching Her giggle and smirk, i was able to get close to a climax, even with "Her toy" still in a chastity cage. I asked if i could climax while stroking Phil and She agreed, leading to the 2nd most humiliating climax of my life. But it was still great to get to completion and caged the whole time. Might be worth a try! asa
I'm given the option of the fleshlight (always supervised) sometimes when my wife is not in the mood for anything ,With that I get instructed how fast/slow/deep I'm to go, Sometimes she will get a little more involved but not much. It's OK but nothing compared to her direct attention.
I've been told it will never happen again. I told her I preferred her hand and that's all she needed to hear.
I say supervised or unsupervised but in reality I'm pretty sure she controls my erections at this point. So it would have to be by her hand.
In general, no. She wants all that energy directed at her. But as with everything, she uses her discretion. In the last couple of months she has allowed it once, unsupervised. I was surprised about that - and I don't expect it again any time soon.
BK will let me play with myself supervised of course, and she also holds a Fleshlight between her thighs while she sits on the edge of the bed. While both scenarios feel good to me, the main reason she does it is just to fuck with me. she drives me crazy talking to me and I love it. I wish it happened more often.
I’m only allowed supervised masturbation while wearing a butt plug although more often than not it’s simply to edge multiple times before I’m told its time to put my “toy” back in its cage for safe keeping.
My wife is a hotwife, I'm a cuckold in chastity 24/7 . I can not satisfy my wife ( if you look at my photos you will see why ) I'm very small and very fast. This left my first wife in a constant state of sexual frustration and stress. She divorced me another story. I told my current wife the story before we married . She said she loved me as I do her, and we could work around the sex . So she dates, gets all the sex she needs. But being very fair about it. She comes home to me . If he did his job and she is satisfied , she will unlock me and let me nerk myself off as she tells me all about her date. If she comes home unsatisfied , or doesn't have PIV sex , because of her period or some other reason. she will come home , tell me all about it but not unlock me . She fells if she is unsatisfied and frustrated then I have to be . But if she gets it, she lets me have it. That is unless I'm being punished for some miss deed.
First of I wanted to tell you that I love your avitar. If you ever put that on a Coffee Mug, I am buying one. I too lock myself up due to my Masterbation addiction. While I do not need to be supervised for Mastery, I do need to ask for permission. By asking for permission, It's training my brain to associate sexual pleasure with my Wife. I want them to be one and the same. I am also on a 7 day Orgasm cycle. This helps to keep my mind "Right" and my thoughts under control. Iso.
Self pleasure? Not allowed. I fear how long I would remain locked if I asked for something as selfish as that.
I use supervised masturbation mostly to humble husband. I usually require him to do it in front of witnesses. He has to have permission to ejaculate, which I usually don't grant, but since he's required to keep stroking, he does, anyhow. This gives my guests the opportunity to watch him eat it then get a tawsing. Sometimes I'll have him masturbate to pornography he doesn't like. I encourage my guests to comment about that, too.
My beautiful wife allows me to have a supervised ejaculation about once every two weeks or so. Usually it goes as follows, she tells me to remove the Cage and hands me the key, I put a 2 inch heavy leather ball stretcher on, put a blindfold hood on, and lubricate her property. She then sits in front on me, examines her property and then she beats my balls with a leather paddle (discipline with every ejaculation is important to her)! She then holds my balls and tells me to stroke my cock. As I stroke, I am told to ask for permission before ejaculating into her hand, and as she feels my orgasm built she squeezes harder on my balls. She usually reminds me that Friday I will be disciplined and pegged with her big black cock ( Doc Johnson Hung ). I ask for approval to ejaculate and then fill her hand with come. I then lick it all out of her hand, thank her for the release, and she tells me to put the cage back on. I cuddle her and off to sleep we go. I am very privileged.
I have never been made to masturbate in front of anyone . But have gotten bare bottom strapings in front of witnesses. Very humiliating, very embarrassing. The humiliation and embarrassment lasts a long time , far longer the the pain from the spanking.
My wife will supervise my masturbation when she returns from a date. If her lover satisfies her. She will come home unlock me and tell me all about the date as she watches me masturbate. If he doesn't satisfy her which sometimes happens , she will tell me all about the date, but not unlock me. She feels if she is sexually frustrated then I should be also.
Doubt i could climax with someone watching me. So supervised unlocking would be more frustrating than just being left locked up.
If I was told to climaxe and I failed , Sara would take me to her art studio for a good spanking. Thank God she has never made me do it infront of anyone . But she sits there and watches during my supervised release. She then makes sure I'm locked back in afterwards.