Is there any resources for men in a FLR

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    lockedUp24byKH Yes Dear...Right away.

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    #1 lockedUp24byKH, Apr 8, 2020
    There is lots of resources for our wonderful Women in our lives on the topic of FLR such as books and blogs and sites.

    Is there any such resources for men in mind.

    Cheers.
     
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    #2 Shimone, Apr 8, 2020
    I think not as most men interested in FLRs do not need to be convinced. ;)

    But I would say that you do not need much help to start a FLR anyway. Just use common sense about what is practical in day to day life and talk it through with you wife / girlfriend.
    One last thing though: start slowly - you might be surprised what small changes might deem harder in reality.

    If you ask me there could not much more advice as every couple might choose slightly different changes to start with. Much more important: Everyone might choose to live one and the same in a very different way.
    If you f.e. grant her control over your timetabe / free time: She either could mix it up so you would not recognize it again or there might be almost no changes in your day to day life...
    Depends a lot on the individuals involved...
     
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    #3 Rectrix, Apr 8, 2020
    Such advice and resources are all around the Mansion if you look
     
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    #4 madams-sissysub, Apr 8, 2020
    Was just about to say this!
     
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    #8 Miss Amandas boy, Apr 18, 2020
    There are lots of resources, many on this site, and yet more on others. In the main these are useful to both submissive men and to dominant women.

    When I first mentioned being submissive to Miss A. six years ago, the whole concept of FLR was unknown to her. After just a few weeks she knew more than I did, and had become an enthusiastic Mistress.
     
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    #9 lockedUp24byKH, Apr 18, 2020
    Thanks everyone i have the ebook Georgia Ivey Greens book How to setup an FLR. Ive read a few chapter's to my wife, ( she's not a big fan of reading).

    So far she's enjoyed it, we will continue to read it and take ideas and see what sticks.
     
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    #10 Seeken, Apr 23, 2020
    A web search for female led relationships will yield some websites and blogs to read.

    Also, Do an Amazon search for FLR. There are a bunch of books out there on KIndle.

    A couple I enjoyed were:

    Real Men Worship Women: A Gentleman’s Guide to Loving & Obeying Women (Female Led Relationship Book 2) (free on Kindle Unlimited)

    Surrender, Submit, Serve Her.: The definitive guide to enacting Female Leadership and embracing the Female Dominated Household

    My Wife/ KH's has read several, and was unimpressed by most, but she liked and recommends: Sex and Relationship Nirvana With a Submissive: A Beginners Guide by Mistress Scarlet.

    If you want to browse a bunch quickly sign up for the 30 day free trial on Kindle unlimited and then read all the free ones. You can then cancel within 30 days for free or decide you like the service and pay $11.99/mo.
     
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    #13 Disciplined Boyfriend, Jun 7, 2020
    Easy - just listen to what your partner has to say!

    Like a lot of things there's not a right or wrong way to do a FLR. One thing we did find useful was the lists in Georgia Ivey Green's How to Start a FLR book. There's about 40 questions along the lines of "I would like my partner to make financial decisions" and a series of answers: always, mostly, equal, less than me, none at all.

    Go through them with your partner and you'll get a really good idea where your common areas are and where you need to make some sort of compromise.

    https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Set-Ge...2?dchild=1&keywords=flr&qid=1591530738&sr=8-2
     
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