Do women find them aesthetically appealing?

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    #1 Realisticlylocked, Feb 9, 2019
    random question. Do women like the look of a caged man?

    I find the steel cages make me feel that I’m almost wearing jewellery.

    Just wondered if it was visually appealing as well as mentally to others?
     
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    #2 Ma’ams Slut, Feb 9, 2019
    I think my wife/dom/kh @Ma’am M favorite part is that she knows it’s locked that’s the main thing and I think she kinda likes the way it looks but don’t think she loves the look. Maybe she will chime in. I also saw other posts here where other women love the way they look. I think it varies person to person
     
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    #3 Tom Allen, Feb 9, 2019
    Mrs Edge was not crazy about some of my home built devices, but she really liked the CB3000. It was clear, which allowed her to see me squished inside, and had a nice, natural or organic shape. She was less happy with The Fort (a CB3000 clone in cast stainless), but mainly because of the weight. And she actually enjoyed seeing through the clear plastic.

    I've gone on to other styles, and right now she likes the A272. She thinks that most other devices look like old plumbing parts.
     
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    #4 ChasteCel, Feb 9, 2019
    Pretty sure my wife is indifferent. She did insist (when I was getting the Orion) that she wanted one in purple, and before that it was pink & purple. But its not like she stares or anything along those lines.
     
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    #5 Billus, Feb 9, 2019
    I've always thought of it as jewellery, especially the metal devices.
     
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    #6 cshorts, Feb 9, 2019
    My wife thinks it looks a bit weird though she's gotten comfortable with it. When I switched from HTv3 to A272 she thought the shiny tube looked too cyborgy. When I got my Contender though she was immediately taken by the open cage, remarking "ooo, now I can really tease you."
     
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    #7 Tom Allen, Feb 9, 2019
    Interestingly, my wife does not care for the open cage designs. Her reasoning is that the more skin exposed means that I could potentially stimulate myself if I were desperate enough.
     
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    #8 CZSteve, Feb 9, 2019
    Interesting question.
    I assumed the following and just asked @n2toys

    First She likes that I'm caged & locked and She has complete control of my orgasms and ability to achieve an erection.

    She also likes the look of the cage locked on me; similar thought of jewelry.

    When we decided to invest in a custom cage we were looking at different cages; She liked the look of the rings that surrounded the shaft that the Tarantula by Red Chili provided but we both felt much more at ease / safer with ordering a cage from Mature Metal as they were very responsive and helpful to email inquiries.
    One night we looked over option for the Jailbird on MM's website and my Mistress liked the idea of adding an additional cage ring for a total of three rings in addition to the vertical bars of the cage.

    My Mistress prefers metal, does not like the look of plastic cages.
    Likes to have access for teasing but also likes a secure / caged look.
    So... The Jailbird w/ the extra cage ring was a perfect fit and She likes the look of it on me.

    We are a perfect match and works well for both of us :love::)
     
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    #9 KittensProperty, Feb 9, 2019
    My Lady loves seeing my in HER purple HTv3 and is looking forward to switching it out for a MM Jail Bird.
     
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    #10 LockedPom, Feb 9, 2019
    My wife thinks they look stupid. One of the reasons I'm on the honor method.
     
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    #11 Doczilla421, Feb 9, 2019
    I just asked my wife this question and she said she loves the way it looks on me and loves the fact that it cant be removed by me.
     
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    #12 Realisticlylocked, Feb 9, 2019
    Interesting responses pretty much half and half
     
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    #13 Ilikebond, Feb 10, 2019
    Wife says she thinks he looks cute all locked up.
     
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    #14 Allen1987, Feb 10, 2019
    She always liked the steel. She saw the full belt from Behind Barz and it
    almost never comes off. She loves the look of the steel around my waist
    and always is looking and smiling.
     
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    #15 Nicoftime, Feb 10, 2019
    My wife liked the open style steel cage. Mine is custom now so it’s not totally open and she likes the look of it as jewelry, but preferred the larger open design so she could see it strain and be able to touch it through the bars.

    At first she thought it hey we’re ALL weird and ugly, now she thinks it would be weird if she looked and saw a penis just hanging there.
     
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    #16 Finn-egan, Feb 11, 2019
    My keyholder loves that the type we have makes me look dickless. My wife doesn't really care, and calls all my devices "dick cosies". :)
     
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    #17 harddenial, Feb 11, 2019
    My steel JB, oh yes.
     
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    #18 Peter Rabbit, Feb 11, 2019
    Exactly my own wife’s reaction. She didn’t take to chastity, until I got the custom 316L stainless steel Contender. The rest were all toys for scenes. She likes the open design, so she can see, and it rinses clean easily.

    I generate copious amount of precum so I get funky quickly. ;)

    I have been under her control happily ever after we got the PA security option added. A light went off in her brain shortly before - She realized she likes me better this way.

    She turns Mark’s MaleChastityNow work over in her hands appreciatively. The welds and polish are very handsome. (we have both a GlansArmor and a Contender)

    She never liked the plastic or resin devices.
     
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    #19 filltee, Feb 11, 2019
    I think you will find the simple answer is that some do
    I think you will find the simple answer is that some do. And in the case of male chastity devices aesthetically pleasing may or may not only mean pleasing to the eye.

    There is also the feel of said cage... and whether or not it is sometimes uncomfortable to her at the wrong time... whilst spooning for example.... or it somtimes tears clothes and bedding

    The smell it has been said that some plastic cages are hard to keep clean and 'fresh'. I have never found this to be the case but some have.

    Rattles or clicking noises associated with some cage and padlock combinations may or may be irksome or may hold some appeal... maybe even both dor different people at different times.


    I am not going to even try to second guess women in general, but I'm sure there are some for which the effectiveness (dependent upon their own definition of that) may be as or even more important than aesthetics.

    Though to be honest I'm sure aesthetics of some sort will always be somewhere in the equation.
     
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    #20 Breathe, Feb 11, 2019
    Love the aesthetics of steel around our package.

    I've got a deep fondness for metal and piercings, so I'm not surprised that I adore the look of the cage.
     
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    #21 filltee, Feb 11, 2019
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    #22 Cecilia B, Feb 15, 2019
    I like the look of it. It looks even better with panties.
     
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    #23 RangerCuck, Feb 16, 2019
    My GF loves the way the BON4 metal cage looks on me. I have a plastic one that I wear when I'm going somewhere that has metal detectors, but as soon as I get home, she makes me swap them out. She says the metal one makes it look more "hardcore." Usually when she's at the house, she won't even let me wear pants or underwear because she likes to look at it and play with it and likes the sound the lock makes when I'm walking and it rattles against the cage itself (instead of a "cowbell" she calls it a "nutbell" lol).
     
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    #24 Guest 3729, Feb 16, 2019
    My Miss loves the way it looks on me and has said so several times.
     
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    #25 Tom Allen, Feb 16, 2019
    That's an interesting cuff ring. Custom?
     
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