My chastity experiences

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    #26 L-u-c-y, Feb 5, 2017
    Before I joined these sites I had an image of the submissive male in my mind, the kind of males I had met throughout my life who had submitted to me in their own ways. sweet, kind, helpful, caring, generous, the sort of male that actually wants to SERVE a woman and contribute to her happiness.

    But instead I have found the majority of submissive males are the most truly selfish individuals I have ever met. They think serving me is about me doing things for THEM, they want to use me for their fetishes and fantasies while not caring in the slightest what I want.

    There has been a lot of talk on this site about women exploiting poor vulnerable males, but it is them who want to exploit me and use me.

    When I have spoken to a lot of so called "subs" it is easy to see they actually despise women and it's just buried beneath the surface. When they realise they won't get what they want from me it's safe for them to let the submissive facade down and show their true colours and call me things like, "little girl" , "whore", "cunt" etc. Only a few weeks ago this happened and a member of this site told me how he wanted to hold me down and rape me amongst other things. I've had a lot of nasty messages but this was pure evil. He has been banned since. It's not the first time I've had such messages on this site.

    I have found some what I consider to be real subs, who meet the criteria I mentioned. And they will be my friends for life, I hope. There is nothing sexual about their service, I spend most of the time talking to them about Star Wars and TV shows. I have had to block about 5000 nasty males on the way though.

    I myself am a sweet, kind, helpful, caring and generous person who just happens to be dominant, I know how to use my brain and looks to get what I want. I don't use whips or pain or teasing to get it, I inspire genuine service without these things.
     
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    #27 low, Feb 5, 2017
    That is absolutely foul. Happy he is banned. Ashamed that he shares the same gender as me. Mistress Lucy, i truly hope You find more of the type of sub that You prefer.
     
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    #28 Steve-0, Feb 5, 2017
    Sorry to hear about that. Truth is that the Internet is full of many sick puppies.
    At the same time though, I don't think you should automatically link many of us more active guys on here who are trying their best to navigate through chastity/sub life. Big change for some of us and definitely hurts to see someone lump us into the garbage pile.
    Anyways, hope you can have a more friendly outlook towards us (and of course visa versa) even though you've clearly put up with a lot of shit.
    Peace :)
     
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    #29 sillymaid, Feb 5, 2017
    @Mistress Lucy I think you are wonderful, you have shown tremendous patience in sorting through the flood of subs to find the true ones, the ones that can serve you and be useful to you while fulfilling their own submissive needs.

    Long may you continue in your quest.

    Sillymaid, missie
     
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    #30 L-u-c-y, Feb 5, 2017
    A big change for you, that you chose, that is your fetish and your fantasies come true.
     
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    #31 Muzzo4you, Feb 5, 2017
    My friends, when has everyone forgotten that each of us are entitled to their own opinion as to the whys & wherefores as we go about our individual lives? What you choose to enjoy or not shouldn't be forced upon others -- a significant error in the ways of the world these days.

    As for Mistress Lucy, how ever she 'got into' her own kink is her business (and thank you for sharing!) - not yours. Frineds, what she does or doesn't get out of it is her business - not yours. If you can't handle it, may I politely advise you to "shut up". Let's get back to discussing those thoughts, actions, and remembrances that actually give you pleasure - for this world certainly needs more "fun" injected. If some of us like your comments, then we'll give them a try, if not, them we'll move on. duh.

    Mistress Lucy: as to what you do that gives you pleasure, please don't stop. (Thank you for your recent video, too!)

    Ok now, the title of this thread is 'my chastity experiences', I'll start with one of my remembrances: well, there was this one day at band camp.......
     
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    #32 SubVerity, Feb 5, 2017
    Ahem. No-one here has said anything to the contrary @Muzzo4you, and it really doesnt need such constant repetition, but.....tell us more about band-camp! :).

    It's great that Mistress Lucy is sharing her experiences in this way, it's clearly appreciated by many and is something I don't do enough of personally.
     
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    #33 LadyS, Feb 5, 2017
    I wouldn't really say it's all his fantasies come true.
     
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    #34 harddenial, Feb 5, 2017
    This sums up things for my wife and I pretty much exactly.
     
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    #35 L-u-c-y, Feb 5, 2017
    Good, I am glad she is making it work for her in a practical way. :)
     
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    #36 tegelad, Feb 7, 2017
    I think that is the most spot analysis from a woman's point of view "ever". The only way that every changes is if she is desiring a child, or is really into her partner physically or psychologically (think love not crazy).

    On the flip side, women have zero understanding of the time bomb that goes off in men at all or the the complete destruction to a man's self identity when things no longer work ...

    But what a fantastic resposne ....
     
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    #37 L-u-c-y, Feb 7, 2017
    Glad you agree. It's about time males had a reality check here.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    #38 Nicoftime, Feb 7, 2017
    Reality...my my I didn't know you were so gosh darned funny:)
     
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    #39 L-u-c-y, Feb 7, 2017
    This is my reality, using a males head as a footrest while he's wearing a collar and leash :) Not like you topfromthebottomers

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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    #40 Nicoftime, Feb 7, 2017
    And I used a smiley...thought that made it ok.

    Don't worry I'm leaving your thread...I hear your minions coming, they might have heard a male not agreeing with you.

    You know it seems you cater to their needs a lot! Teasing them with your looks...wonder how many would stick around if you looked like a troll.:)
     
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    #41 L-u-c-y, Feb 7, 2017
    None, that's how pitiful males are, pathetic isn't it? It's a good job I don't look like a troll :)

    Take your minion steve with you, do you go everywhere together?
     
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    #42 LadyS, Feb 7, 2017
    Let's just leave Steve out of it.
     
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    #43 frankie teardrop, Feb 7, 2017
    It's always inspiring to run into a fellow troublemaker. If I could clarify the comment: I ran it past Jackrabbit Fat, the wisest cat on the block, who owns a complete collection of Top Cat DVDs - in fact he was an early consultant on the series, 1959, it was about his 2nd or 3rd life from memory, pretty much knows which way the wind's blown' (in the industry it's common knowledge that Dylan stole some of Jackrabbit Fat's dialogue) - he tells me that Meow is about as profound as it gets. Then he winked. Oh.

    What's a troll look like anyway? I always thought they came in one shape only: male.
     
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    #44 tegelad, Feb 7, 2017
    IMO ... and I could be wrong .... I think women including those into chastity and key holding, would 100% prefer the men not to masturbate and live the chastity life without the device then with. At least if I attempt to put the women's shoes/hat on (not in a CD way) .... the act of love and giving up something so strong is far more important then being enforced. The pure act of needing something to constrict/restrict means that the guy really doesn't care, like/love her enough to just say "hands off".

    What helped me wrap my head around this lately is my girl basically stated even though she was hot and bothered ... ok I am going to switch this off now ... (it was due to one of the animals making a messy not so fun mess to clean up ....) ... for a guy that is hard sometimes nearly impossible to do.

    I know this goes anti-kink to what the forum represents, but that is at least my attempted look through the view and me parroting back / or intrepreting it back.

    Anyways that is my additional two cents (or pence) ....
     
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    #45 SubVerity, Feb 7, 2017
    This thread started so well, and people were getting on and making amends and such-like.

    Oh well, life goes on.

    It would be better for Lucy and Steve-O (et all) to cease goading each other. Really.

    Debate and conversation is one thing, but there will be a time when enough is enough. You have been told.
     
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    #47 Steve-0, Feb 8, 2017
    Hey man, I tried to make friends.
     
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    #48 LadyS, Feb 8, 2017
    Steve didn't say anything worng on this thread!!!
    He simply came on and tried to be friendly.
     
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    #49 L-u-c-y, Feb 8, 2017
    Today my most loyal servant reached 530 continuous days in chastity, I'm still thinking about what to send him as a reward, it might be a pair of my heels... or something from my dressing up box... or maybe both! :)

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    #50 LadyS, Feb 8, 2017
    As a reply to some earlier messages,
    I am a wife, I have been with my husband for 12 years married for 8.
    In this 12 years I have had the most amazing sex of my life.
    And yes I had a lot befor I met Steve, so I have some things to compare too.
    In this 12 years I have had a husband who takes care of me, cleans up around the house when I don't, takes care of the kids, always provided everythign we need, never went out drinking with the boys and left me at home. I have always been his #1. Everytime we have ever had a fight even if it's me being a total ars he has still been the one to apologize.
    I have always been the one to controll the finances. It really has been a flr without even knowing it.
    There are maybe 2 time in our relationship that I haven't really wanted to have much intercorse with him. And both came at time after having children and one of them I was terribly,terribly depressed over things that were out of my controll. I know it sounds cliche but he really is my rock.
    I love him more than any one will ever know. And clearly a love you haven't felt yet Lucy.
    I don't think he deserves to only be used as shit like human foot rests, a chair or some meaningless things that you and your subs get off of on.
    Does that mean I don't "get" chastity?
    I prefur to love and nurture my boy so that he will want to love and nurture me,with out being forced to.
    I certainly don't think that abusing him and forgetting about him is going to make him love me with all his heart.
    I also don't think that what we do is all about eating me out but as a sexual woman I do rather enjoy it a lot!
    There are a lot of things I can get him to do that aren't related to sex.

    I use chastity because he doesn't need to masturbate all the time. I like they way it's has allowed us to open up about things that we might not ever of opened up about. Feelings we both share, but never shared with each other becuase we were to ashamed.
    Now instead of being mad for days over something stupid that was said we both know there will be discaplyn I feel like I am only making a great man even better. I am breaking a cycle. BY having his man brain put away it gives him the ability to realize that I am right. And let's face it we all want to be right.


    Houneslty I could go on and on.
    But I really don't want to.
    All I'm saying is we all do things differently. We all get to have our deffintitions of chastity and how we want to do it.

    I don't think I ever Sosa the way you did it was wrong and if I did it was in the heat of the moment by I try to practice what I preach. I just thought I was crazy you didn't want to own up to getting anything out of it.
    I like to know what makes people go and think the why they think they way they do. I think I only started out questioning you becuase I was curious.

    I think befor you speak for a married women you should expiriance it from our side.
    Becuase it really is a lot of fun.
     
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