My chastity experiences

I first joined fetish sites around 3 and a half years ago, I had never heard of chastity, footworship or any of these other things.

I just joined out of curiosity. I’ve always had a power over males but I have never used it in any fetish way, they just do what I want without being forced to, they quite rightly want to impress me. So I uploaded a few photos to Fetlife and submissive males seemed obsessed with my feet, they offered me lots of money to sit at my feet for half an hour, which I did about 20 times. Sometimes I just used their backs as a footrest and ignored them while I watched TV or used my ipad. They did not give a damn that it was not a fetish of mine, as long as they got to sit at my feet. It didn’t do anything for me, but still, it was useful to ME.

Also lots of males were asking me to lock them in chastity, their profile photos were usually clinical looking chastity cages, they made me think of something you would see in a hospital. I don’t like anything to do with hospitals plus the thought of the cages seemed very unhygienic to me, let’s face it, they look like they smell!

I kept getting messages from males every day pestering me to lock them, begging me to lock them, it was quite pitiful. They did not give a FLYING FUCK if I was interested in it or not, as long as they got their fetish kicks from being locked by a “hot girl”.

Some offered me money to lock them in person, there was no way I would touch their shrivelled penises but I told them I would meet them and they could put the device on in front of me, then I would click the lock shut and keep the keys. A lot seemed very interested in this and I arranged a few meetings. Guess what... none of them turned up!

So I knocked that idea on the head, there is nothing I dislike more than getting ready for a meeting and then having a wasted evening, while a potential stalker has gained my address out of it.

Still the subject of most of the messages I received were about chastity and I started reading about online keyholding, I read about some women who held 5 keys! I am a perfectionist and everything I do has to be bigger and better than everyone else, so I thought I’d see if I can get the most amount of keys in one go. I told subs who messaged me that I would lock them if they paid for the lock and postage, £20 in the UK and £30 for overseas. I always put their keys in a shiny metallic pink envelope with a nice puff of my perfume. Yes I probably made a pitiful profit from it, but I have a good career and I am not poor, pitiful amounts mean nothing to me and it ended up being quite a lot of time and effort on my part for something which was not an interest of mine.

I did this because holding a large amount of keys amused ME and I like beating everyone else.

These 2 fetishes were pushed on me by selfish males who did not care what I want, but I turned them to my own advantage.

The highest number I had locked in one go was 39 locked boys.

To be continued...

 

"Little girl" is a term males have been using to put down women for 1000's of years, it remains popular with the so called submissive members of this site when they don't get their own way (no names mentioned).

 

Mailed a pink lock today to France, the first one I have sent for about 3 months. His target is 91 days.

 

Another male telling me what to do. Stop grumbling boy!

 

It was not a grumble, and this site was not mentioned. If you don't like the truth then stop reading.

 

I wasn't grumbling actually, I was explaining how I got involved with chastity and how I use it for myself. But if you boys want a grumble I'll give you one.

What I see here is a the macho boys club who constantly top from the bottom, the "horde" who always stick together and pat each other on the backs.

It seems to be getting worse since I joined this site a couple of years ago.

YOU DON'T EVEN REALISE YOU ARE DOING IT.

It's actually pretty funny to see them reprimanding others for topping from the bottom. You might as well give your partners scripts to follow. Somehow the whole concept of chastity has been turned into males telling women how to dominate them in ways they enjoy. Hardly a day goes by where there is not a post about a male trying to con or manipulate his wife or girlfriend into chastity for HIS needs. They are not her needs, she's never heard of chastity. When you read between the lines you can see the majority of women who are doing it are not really interested in it, it's just another thing they do to stop their husbands from whining and getting in a mood.

Even when they do submit to his demands and "dominate" him he complains she's not doing it right or not strict enough. He will throw a tantrum and make her cry, it's not worth putting up with the hassle so she desperately tries to get into his fetish, she even tells herself she is enjoying it, she might even enjoy parts of it until he throws another hissy fit that she's not doing it right. But as long as you run her a bath or give her a massage all will be forgiven, so you tell yourself, she is really thinking "let me have a fucking bath alone in peace!" and "I'm sick of fucking massages!". But at least you can boast to others about how much your wife is embracing chastity and loving it.

As an outsider I can see all the lies that have been perpetuated within this fetish, and the truths you don't want to hear because it will shatter your illusions. Somehow topping from the bottom has become the norm.

Yes there are some women who are into it, a minuscule few. If you take the UK for example, the population is 65 million. Out of that I bet there is less than 500 women into chastity. That is why sites like this are crammed full of males with a few questionable women with 3 dodgy looking black and white photos that could have been stolen from facebook, but you do not question if they are real because they are telling you what you want to hear and perpetuating your fantasies.

You watch your femdom porn and think all dominant women must be into pegging, strap-ons, and chastity, however this is the real world we live in. But then you read stories from members of this site (probably fiction) about how their wives are constantly locking and teasing them and fucking them with strap-ons and it inspires you to try and manipulate your own wife into it.

What MOST wives would really like to do is use it in a practical way and lock you up and let you out for sex once every 2 weeks, in that 2 weeks there will be no teasing, she will forget about your penis and your wandering hands and have a nice break from it, she can relax. But this has the opposite affect and makes you even more horny and you can't keep your selfish hands from pestering her, you keep telling yourself it's because you want to please HER and give her orgasms, but SHE DOESN'T WANT THEM, she just wants to watch TV and go to sleep after a day at work, but still she will pretend to be into it to keep you happy. Just because you are obsessed with orgasms it doesn't mean SHE wants you hounding her to give them to her every day.

It's all about YOU and your fetish. One other person here had the guts to admit it, he said "I make women do things I want them to do".

But as long as you all congratulate each other on a job well done and endlessly talk about your penises and how much they drip who cares.

When you are confronted with a woman actually taking control all you can do is pick faults with it and snigger like schoolboys.

I am aware that my ways are in the minority, that's because I am a female, VASTLY outnumbered on this site. If chastity is ever to become more popular with women it will be if they use it in practical ways that are useful to them, and that doesn't mean baths and massages.

I use chastity in ways that are useful to ME, and you don't like that because you can't control it, and my ways do not make you horny and fit in with your male fantasies, BOO HOO!

 

Thanks LadyS