Women, I wanted to ask if you are or were excited/wanting a FLR when the idea was proposed? And I assume the male brought up the idea. And if so would you say that you consider yourself a Dominant....Submissive....or Switch....or something inbetween. For me I am single and do not have significant other in my life. Or KH for that matter. But very curious how you took to the idea and how the male approached the subject matter with you.
I must point out that your post has assumptions that don't always fit... But it's an interesting question, regardless. Thanks for asking. Yes, I identify as a Dominant, despite fighting that designation when I was younger. Social conditioning and all... heh. Thankfully, I rejected that mould and have been happier ever since. I introduced the idea of 'FLR' in our relationship from the beginning, but I feel that's largely because I'm biologically female. Even though it's impossible to accurately depict an alternate existence, I would likely have a different opinion of FLRs if I had been born male. I am the leader. Regardless of My sex chromosomes. And it's working quite well so far.
Well, the cage was all the wifes idea. Which lead to her being is charge of sexual activity in our lives. Which was followed by being locked 24/7 and some where after that, that cuckold thing happened some parts happen as a joint effort but most were all her idea
I thought it was a stupid idea but I indulged him in his fantasy nonetheless. What else can you do when your lover has a passion to try something?
It sounds like you have embraced the idea? Can you share a little more about what was the tipping point where you said.OK lets do this.....
May I please ask HOW it was your wifes idea? How did it come up....did a situation occur.....did she do this in the past??
Thank you for responding. May I ask if your SO was immediately open to the idea or did it take time for him....and was this the first FLR for you and using a cage? Have previous relationships NOT wanted to do this??