I have been locked in my cage since early June and think I will be released tomorrow on July 4th. We agreed going in this was the plan but during this month She has done many things to keep me guessing and wondering what will happen. Having me caged has really brought out Her dominant side and horny side. In a short month I have learned to focus on Her and Her needs only. I have pampered Her, given Her numerous orgasms and pledged my desire to completely serve Her. I will be happy with whatever She decides for me tomorrow but I am really thinking She will extend the locked period and, if She gives me a choice, I am hoping for at least another month locked. I am worried that if I am released, the next time I am locked it will be like starting over with sleeping through the night, begging for release etc. Is it normal to not want to be released?
I think, you are on a wonderful path. Don't expect an orgasm and be prepared about it and show her how much you are focussed on her. Make her being prouf of yourself. Give her anything she asks for. In case and just in case she asks for your wishes, be honest that you don't want to be released. It might be unlikely but she might decide to make it hard for you and play it the opposite way, giving you an orgasm and making it hard for you to go into chastity without complaining. I wish you some nice time to verify your focus.
I think most of us feel the same, as much as we all want a release there is always the worry that something won’t go back just as it was!
Yes. Exactly. I am comfortable physically and mentally with the cage. I love where our relationship is. I don’t want to change anything
Yes, but she will lead better if she fully understands the effects of her decisions. She needs to know what denial, and orgasms, do to a man, his hormones and his behaviour. Of course you can learn by trial and error, while that can be fun, it can be a more difficult journey. The most common error is one that both sexes are conditioned into believing, is thinking that a man needs, or benefits from an orgasm!
No! She wiill lead better, if she doesn’t care about the “effects”, demands good behavior regardless of how he “feels” about it and unlocks at her whim.
But please be sure, not to try topping from the bottom. You may find a good conversation at the right time. But release date might not be the best way to talk about expectaions. I wish you some nice time.
As agreed upon She unlocked me last night at 8pm. We had a wonderful evening of PIV, I came, I recycled and I brought her to four orgasms. After, we had a long talk about the last month of me being locked and how we both learned a lot and agreed that we want to continue on our path. She offered for me to be unlocked until Friday and I said I was happy with whatever She wanted. This morning I told her I appreciated the offer to be unlocked until Friday but I would prefer to be locked sooner. She agreed and She will relock me at 8pm tonight, exactly 24 hours after I was unlocked. I don't know how long I will be locked up for and I don't care.