Wife spoke her mind...

Physical issues are something that will more than likely eventually affect every relationship. They are also not something you have to toss your whole relationship away for, there is more to life than sex. That being said, it’s how we deal with, communicate our needs, compromise, and give our partners what we can, that makes those physical issues something more like a speed bump instead of a road block.

Like a previous poster said...we don’t hear her side or the reasons behind her views. We don’t know the reason why she doesn’t want u to orgasm, besides she just doesn’t like the idea of it or the mess. We don’t know the reason why u getting off alone or seeing your erection bothers her. We don’t know why both giving and receiving oral upsets her. Why vibes are not acceptable. She doesn’t like it. It almost feels like she keeps coming up with activities that she doesn’t like as soon as you can come up with them.

Then comes the big guns because you were so understanding, she throws out something you couldn’t possibly give her...lesbian tendencies. Then next thing you know, you compromise that you could live with being a female. Now it’s all of that mixed in with physical pain not just with penetration, but arrousal as well...basically saying I don’t even want you to attempt intimacy.

Physical issues can be dealt with, erectile disfunction, even being paralyzed, but if she’s making up reasons for you to stay away physically, there isn’t anything you can do and maybe you just have a best friend. Which also isn’t the end of the world, but should be discussed.

I really do hope you two find your way to happiness together, no matter the role each of you have.

 

Damn, you may as well just get castrated if you are going to stay with her.

 

Maybe you could do a quid pro quo.