So we've been experimenting with chastity for about 1.5 yrs on and off and have tried a ton of different devices. I purchased the first one buying restraints for my wife and saw a cage at the bottom and thought it would be a fun toy for her to put on me for T&D. Then we learned how they were really used and she made me sign a contract, but I could keep getting out through the back as I'm a grower. We've tried lots of Chinese devices and I could get out of all of them. Then I found a way to make a ball trap device inescapable, and she sent me another contract. Well, we both got the flu and she had for 1 week, I had for another then another week went by without me being touched or acknowledged about being locked. I figured she wasn't into it and doing it for me so I took it off and didn't say anything. Then a few days later she grabbed me in the kitchen and didn't feel it and said WTF!!! We have 2 kids and couldn't really talk about it but she was PISSED! She was putting the kids down and I went to bed. When she was done she came in the room and woke me up yelling, telling me I better put it back on and that it's like a tattoo and I better get used to it cause we aren't going back to the way things used to be and that she'll get the damn thing pierced if we have to. So now I'm locked 24/7 365 in a steel device that has solid sides and a caged front. I found it can me made inescapable by wearing a properly sized penis plug independent of the cage which keeps from pulling out the back and doesn't flutter when urinating, which i can do standing up. The other inescapable way is getting a (for me) a 25mm ID x 4mm welded stainless steel ring and zip tying it to the bottom of the cage. Then put your head through the ring with water based lube and put the cage on as normal. You'll have to use a Q-Tip or something to hold the ring to get your head through it. It's like a glands ring and you will not be able to pull out without cutting the bottom zip tie or unlocking the cage. She puts numbered zip ties on the bottom and through the lock so she'll know if it's been tampered with. I haven't even attempted...she reminded me of Judge Judy when she went off on me. She also recently started making me wear a butt plug to work, meeting new customers and going shopping. Either one of us thought we would be into it but....here we are going on 2 years now. 26 days was the longest she let me go without an O and I'm on 17 right now.
It's amazing how easily men can be forced to wear a butt plug. My KH forces me to enjoy delicious evening meals with wine, while we watch a movie most nights before she forces me to enjoy a hot bath before she forces me to fall asleep with her in my arms.
We used to do that too except for the bath. It's awesome that nobody knows but us and I really like when she tells me to do sexual things. For the past 12 yrs. she's been trying to get something in my butt and I finally agreed. It's not like she makes me but says " You're wearing the plug today and don't take it out till I say you can" I can easily say no but what fun would that be?
She doesn't ask me to wear one 24/7 but when she does, which is a few times a week it anywhere from 4 - 10 hours.