Why do locked boys look at porn?

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    How would you feel if you lost your Alpha. I know some members seem to desire to change the person they love but will they still love them if they change?
     
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    I try not to watch any porn. It is hard for any KH to monitor this.

    Here are some impacts of porn even without Masturbation: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/what-if-i-recondition-my-brain-watching-porn-without-masturbating

    I was a PMO addict (Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm) whenever I watch porn my mood changes, I get grumpy and also chances are that I cheat to try to edge what often leads to a full or ruined O, which is why I try to completely avoid it.

    I love Femdom porn but there is no good open, it's a drug. :(
     
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    Males are hormonally required to appreciate sexually attractive female.
     
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    Its kind of a mind-f*ck and keeps me horny...
     
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    I don't think Mandy is showing much of anything that you couldn't see on a regular beach.

    I think it is up to the KH to decide what is allowed to be seen.
     
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    You're kidding right ? Which beach ? And isn't that even worse ? If I went to to the beach and was ogling girls in bikinis and my gf/kh caught me, she would be pissed, not because I was appreciating rather because I was objectifying. Another case in point, just because you can find it on YouTube doesn't mean it is okay (as I have found out)but that brings up the hard porn vs soft porn argument lol.


    I am not trying to rip into Mandy and sorry if she took offense. Obviously everyone has their own rules and opinions and so they should! :cool::cool::love::rolleyes:
     
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    Bloody auto correct. Should have been :"no good porn", it's a drug.
     
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    OK, maybe not any beach, but I don't consider Mandy's picture to be explicit.

    It seems it depends on what your GF/KH thinks you are doing when you are looking at other women. My wife actually likes to point out attractive women to me. There's not much I can do anyway! :)
     
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    Why on earth all this fuss about Mandy’s pic? It’s tasteful, unlike the plethora of dicks and cages.

    Jane
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    exactly - THAT was not the
    Exactly - THAT was not the topic!
    So if "Thatgirl" and "Jane" are the same, let me ensure you: there is no reason for " female insecurities" and for: "unfortunately I can’t even touch my toes" - as long as you cand bend down enough to get him by his balls! :cool:
    Please be more perky - as you seem to be a nice and caring person!
     
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    Explicit? Well although I am topless, I am wearing knickers. Plus I am facing away from the camera. However, irrespective of any females choice of wear, I would expect you to avert your eyes immediately if her naked body was on show. This would be more out of respect for your Wife/GF/KH/Mistress, who expects your complete attention on her at all times. For those who are single and self cage, the same applies out of deference to all females. Just because you're single, in your minds you seek female direction for your sexual needs.
     
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    Explicit might have been the wrong word a little bit provocative is probably fairer... and I do avert my eyes out of respect for the woman (in this case you mistress) and my GF. I meant no offense just pointed out your photo definitely draws looks towards it. I am really sorry if you felt I was rude.
     
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    Not offended and you were not rude. Just be a good boy.
     
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    It is a most well done photograph, showing no more than a beautiful lady reading, relaxed, nothing to shock about, on the contrary of many tasteless avatars around that show nothing but only the lack of ideas and taste of their owners.
     
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    Mandy's avatar is excellent. Not offensive(IMO) and certainly celebrates feminine allure. As far as the original theme of the thread. Locked or not, I think most boys like porn. We're kinda wired that way
     
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    Crucify me, I looked at Mandy's picture. She looks very lovely and I can understand why she is worshipped and adored. All of which has absolutely nothing to do with looking at pornography, which is totally subjective anyway, although I figure I've just got time for one last quick peek at Mandy before I break out in pimples.
     
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    Well I was not trying to create a massive drama I was just making a point that pictures like Mistress Mandy's can trigger people, especially if they have had a problem with porn in the past This is obviously not Mistress Mandy's problem and I am definitely not asking her to take it down or even worse telling her how she should display herself. On the other side because I have had/do have a problem with porn my GF is very sensitive to any pictures that might trigger me so i have to be very careful.

    I am always trying to be a good boy but considering my current number of punishments, apparently I am not always so good at it :(.
     
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    sometimes the best answer is the simplest one.
    Who better than you know him.
    One can, to feel closer to you.
    From how much is blocked?
    I believe it happens after a period of compulsion.
    He wants to feel the constraint of the cage, it excites him and prevents him from going further.
    Knowing that he will be caught, he does it. To see you angry and not disappointed is beautiful and a little scary. But it does
    In short, being excited and feeling stuck, and possessed at the end he is enjoying it.
    Otherwise he would put a stop
    it is a contact with you, and not indifference
     
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    Plain hornyness brought disobedience ,which was eventually discovered and ( I shivered when seeing Rita's avatar!) the KTB easily convinced me of staying in the right path.....
     
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    Caged men look at porn for the same reason as uncaged men. It's a natural inclination for most. The biggest differences that I see are the ability to do anything about it and the level of frustration. Those are what keep me from looking at pron any more.
     
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    stimulate erotic rather than aesthetic or emotional feelings. that is the way my brain works sometimes the pics help it along, because I am caged it makes me feel alive!!
     
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    Exploring the just question why and not the possible ramifications of locked guys looking I'm surmising that it is hormone driven and that's probably a Dopamine thing.

    There will be the odd guy or two out there that view porn and also see the pleasure of it in part as a gamble against the potential consequences of being caught or even some that just want to be caught but them aside;

    Porn viewing is think more likely to occur when he has time to himself and when it may possibly be his only sexual outlet. The latter being more likely if the KH more is of the lock em and leave em variety than one that execises various forms of T&D on a frequent even if not regular basis. But basically I think the frequncy of porn watching is something based on or around the dynamic of the relationship and proportional to the amount of mental and physical stimulation he receives.

    Looking at porn stimulates and will inevitably cause leakage, not just but mostly physical leakage and most likely only pre-cum. undoudtedly not as well as more direct methods such as milking etc. It can alleviate his urgent, and/or more demanding, need to cum and reduce it to the more subdued desire to cum. The latter being the more desireable state, the risk of an 'accident' is reduced to a more acceptable level yet that drive which motivated him which into wanting and/or being willing to do prior to his porn 'interlude' remains largely undiminished. Thus his KH suffers no real loss

    He may or may not be aware that this is actually happening or be quite knowledgeable about it and comfortable with it.

    But we don't all need porn. With one of my ex-partners, when apart we would be sexting daily and almost all the time we were together, maybe for an occasional evening during the week and on frequent but not regular entire weekends we would have countless if not merging into an almost constant sexual encounters. I would often remain locked throughout or mostly so but frequently not. As one might expect almost anything and everything went but I was almost always denied. Almost all of my sexual pleasure was derived from her orgasms, multiple orgasms and her insane ability to squirt. The copious loss of pre-cum and prostate fluid the constantly attaining and subsiding of erections the whole time was for me physically draining and seemd to work as a stimulant for her. My need to cum would diminish and yet my desire to do so if anything was increased. By the time we were parting again I would be experiencing no physical need or pressure to cum and yet I would invariably be as, if not more, horny than when the time together had begun.

    Whilst in that relationship I never sought porn or any other distractions we provided each other with more than enough stimulation and as a KH she was all I wanted. I think that the intensity of our time spent together probably could not have been sustained at the level it was if we'd lived under the same roof and I not been mostly denied.
     
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    Short answer: I don't know.
    Long answer: I don't have any $#@&ing clue :confused:

    The original question was posted before my wife and I first talked about chastity. So I didn't have anything to add at the time. But since making a commitment to my wife that I wasn't going to masturbate or have 'unauthorised' orgasms, I have had no interest in watching porn. My wife doesn't have a problem with me watching porn, so we don't have a ban. But, I can't see what the point would be. It would only create a temptation to do what I have said I wouldn't do. So looking at porn would be totally counterproductive.

    I have only been in chastity 6 weeks, and most of that time on the honour system (probably caged about a week in total in that time due to waiting for the thing to arrive and then some teething problems). In that time the only 'porn' I have looked at are 'educational videos' regarding chastity eg using the stocking to get it into the cage, or ruined orgasms, which I showed to my wife.

    Abstaining from porn - so far not a problem for me. Hopefully I will still be able to say that in 6 weeks or 6 months time. :D
     
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    because they're not really locked........
     
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    Do it because it is fun to watch and maybe fantasize some
     
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