Who puts it on?

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by RockyB, Mar 3, 2014.

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Who locks and unlocks your chastity device the MOST?

  1. Me

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    47.7%
  2. Keyholder/Mistressy

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    25.5%
  3. I put it on and she takes it off

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  4. She puts it on and I take it off

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  5. Neither myself or my Keyholder. Someone else.

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  1. Miffy
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    I put it on-my wife inspects and checks regularly
     
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    I always put it on . Well it’s on the a ring I guess all the time. the cage she unlocks and I pull off unless I am tied. Then I put back on after
     
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    I put it on and Mrs Chaste takes it off! When I say she takes it off, that is a very rare event!!!
     
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    Normally, putting it on I do the ring and cage and she closes the lock and takes the key.
    She always does the unlocking, and more often now takes the cage off as well.
    But it's getting so infrequent now 'normal' is becoming 'occasionally'.
     
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    Always my Mistress now. This only happens when I’m fully restrained in some way and I’m never released from restraint until the cage is locked back on.
     
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    I put it on and take it off...But my Wife(KH) always unlocks and locks it back up...I lock it once by myself and paid for it...
     
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    Whats this unlock stuff
    ?????

    Lol
     
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    Looks like you are living pretty much the most exciting circumstance that I contemplate. For real control, that's what I feel is necessary - it doesn't come off unless I'm restrained in some way, so that I have no choice about it going back on. Very much a "be careful what you wish for, you might get it" situation, or to put it another way, "more than he bargained for."
     
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    I put it on and take it off when she tells me. Or occasionally she'll make a game of it and leave the key somewhere I might find it without telling me... If I don't find it at some point she'll tell me it was left for me to find but I failed to do so, so I miss my opportunity. A few times she has locked or unlocked it herself.
     
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    I put the first device n once when it first arrived. i was told that would be the only time. Except to adjust for comfort and to clean it when it is off I am forbidden to handle HER cage.
     
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    It took a couple attempts for my key holder to get it right but she prefers to be the one putting it on and taking it off. Seems she doesn't want me to touch it at all.
     
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    My device incorporates a pa prong and getting that on with cage, not to mention getting everything through the base ring first... I put it back on.

    She unlocks me, then leaves it up to me to get the device off. She’s taken it off a few times but mostly it’s a race, and if she fiddles around with it, I’ll get too hard to get the thing off me.
     
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    I always put mine on. We tried having her put my Jail Bird on me but the cuff ring was really rough. I think you need to have a nut sac to understand how to stuff them (one at a time) through the cuff ring. Her using her thumbs and fingers was a real punishing time. Better to have me do and then she places her locks on the cage when I'm done. I always feel under pressure with her watching the process. When I'm done I'll present myself to her (she holding the padlock and numbered security tag) and she'll say finally! LOL
     
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    D always insists that I am restrained when the device is removed, Wrists are cuffed behind my back, and tied to the bed post, she unlocks, removes and does what's required, usually to swap to an airport friendly model when I fly and when I return the process is reversed. I am strictly not allowed to touch her penis at anytime. Recently D has started to use a blind fold to enforce her control so that I am also never to see my penis in any state other than locked in a device. No looking either, has been a lot harder than just no touching.

    Having not had an orgasm for more than 6 years can make it difficult not get hard when D is handling her penis, but as always, has everything under control with a plastic bag of ice at the ready.
     
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    In the case where it's difficult to put the cage on, and better for the sub to do it himself, I have another option in mind. She could keep him restrained by his collar locked and connected to a bedpost, and /or his ankles cuffed and locked either to the bed, a spreader bar, or just to each other. He won't be released from the restraints until he puts the chastity device on.
     
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    Just thought of another possibility. She wouldn't need to put him in any serious restraints, just something that would make him unable or unwilling to leave without having them removed first. For example, a big, heavy metal slave collar, the high type that covers his entire neck; ankles chained together so he can't put his pants on; a pair of bulky shackles locked onto one wrist, or cuffs on both; a head harness with gag locked on. I can imagine the frustration of having the freedom of movement, but still being unable to leave without her permission, having no choice but to let her lock the chastity device back on before she removes the constraining items.
     
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    Same here. I put it on and she locks it. It took a while for her to get used to the HT lock though.
     
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    In my case my Mistress doesn’t want me having the chance to touch myself so the restraints need to prevent that at a minimum. I’m usually dressed up on some humiliating latex outfit and heels locked on anyway so I know I won’t be taking this off until I’m securely locked back up.
     
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    I was only offering alternatives for people who said they put the device on themselves because it's too difficult for the dominant.
     
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    I’m always tied up when I’m released and she puts it back on before I’m untied. She has gotten very good at it. Even getting the PA pin in.
     
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    That’s the best way, IMO, with her always in control, not giving him any choice. Plus it seems such an exciting dominant act when she actually puts the device on him.
     
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    I put it on and take it off but my Domina locks and unlocks the device.
     
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    I put in on, as Miss is scared of trapping or pinching bits.
    Miss has full control of the lock and key therefore she locks it.
    Miss takes it off always.
     
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    At the moment due to our circumstances sometimes it will be entirely me doing the unlocking/locking and actual removal and replacement.

    Otherwise when possible she will sometimes lock and unlock but I am always the one to remove and put back on the device itself.

    That sounds like an ideal situation, meaning you really never do get to touch yourself and it is entirely her who does the locking and unlocking.
     
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    I put the cage on and take it off, but puts on and takes off the lock.
     
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