Who puts it on?

I put in on him; lock it, unlock it and take it off him. Sometimes he gets pinched, but I do allow him to let me know when it's about to pinch. If he wouldn't disobey me so much, he might not get pinched. When he gets pinched, I'll remind him of that.

There are some exceptions.

He can wear it to work if he's working in the office that day, which he's been doing a lot of, lately. Once or twice, he's had to go out, and the cage is a no no for that, so he's had to cut off the lock. I don't give him a key, he can just cut off the lock, or locks (I have one for him that we fixed up so it has 3 locks--I LOVE seeing My property secured). He has to buy a new lock and keys if he has to cut it off.

If I'm locking him up just for security, like when I have to work at the hotel on a weekend night but he's going out, I don't make the comment about pinching. Then I tell him I'm sorry if I pinch him.

There have been 2 times I crossed his limits and he got mad and cut if off. That hasn't happened lately, though.

He never puts it on himself, any more. There were times when I had to go out of town for work and he was in the field most of the time, but I wanted him in chastity for security, so I gave him a key then, and he had to send me a pic of him taking it off and putting it back on when he got off work, but that's about the only time he's put it on. The last time I had to travel for work, he was in the office the whole time and he was in chastity the whole time I was gone.

I'm not going to have the problem any more, though. Husband has a big house so there's room for Mom and to spare. She's coming to live with us I just found out I'm pregnant, and she's very happy to help out with it and has insisted on babysitting when the child comes. We decided we had to tell her about out little "secret". She says she;ll lock him up and unlock him if needed., She learned pretty fast how to put it on him and take it off.

So it's mostly me, but Mom will be helping from time to time with both "children", but more on that on another thread.

 

I think the word “ideal” is relative. Ideal for my Mistress. Not so much for me!

 

Chill, it wasn’t a criticism.

 

I think you're the one who needs to chill, it was only an explanation.

 

Ok, will do

 

Me too, no hard feelings,

 

This surpasses / equals the tales on Fictionmania.

 

I put it on and take it off mostly. Only time my KH messes with it is if I am restrained. Either to take it off if she has decided to let me cum or for a good tease. In the later, she puts it back on before the restraints are removed.

Restraints are not always part of our play. So again, it's mostly me. Our current agreement is that if I am allowed to cum, I get a day of freedom. So if that happens on a week night, I must lock back up when I get home from work. Weekends, the next morning. These are both unless she says otherwise.

 

I am the one that puts on the cage, but it is done under my Wife's supervision. She is the one that puts on the lock and snaps it shut. It is an incredible feeling when she does so!

 

I'll lock him up, my kh takes it off if she feel the urge to or I'll will for cleaning only.

 

I would have never thought I'd ever dare put something like that on my man but well never say never. And I never thought I'd ever try anything remotely similar but with time everything changes. Recently we even tried wearing rubberloft suits during the intercourse. And now he's thinking of some other ways to spice things up

 

i put it on myself and she lock it....after that she check all...then sometimes she kiss my locked dick

 

Does anyone know where we can find a vid of how to put the cage on? We just bought the bon4 micro with flexible rings, and still can't get it to work. This is a serious request for help.

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Hi @Cecilia B I enjoyed reading your post and congratulations on becoming pregnant and whether it is the first or second or even the tenth, it is still great news. Can you keep us updated on the progress. what are the chances of twins.

 

Our practice has evolved over the year as I suspect many of yours has too.

In the very early days I did the putting on, taking off and locking and unlocking - at that time it was a bonus if she would wear the key on display.

Then we moved to a position of me putting in on and taking it off but she did the locking and unlocking.

Then we moved to me putting it on and she removed it whilst still doing all the locking and unlocking. This was partly due to the type of cage we were using. I had a metal one at this time but it had two pins that needed to fit into the base ring - get it wrong and it pinched (bloody painful!)

Now I have a MM custom fit cage - this means that my KH can put it on without worry that she'll damage her property. So since November she has done it all unless she instructs me to put it on if it suits her.

 

Oh! the kiss of approval after the click, I too love it when she does that

 

I put it on and then Mistress puts the lock in it. at nite when its changed Mistress put the key in and unlocks it and then I change the cage and She puts the lock back in again.

 

Great idea to freeze the cage It is always difficult to refit the cage after play and I hate waiting for him to go limp enough and even then once I try to fit the cage he starts to grow