Where and how can I delete myself from this shitty site?

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  1. L-u-c-y
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    #26 L-u-c-y, Jun 8, 2020
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    Ah this is a switch shithead who messaged me on fetlife. I gave him some boring non sexual tasks to do (not involving money or gifts), he did them for a week and then begged to do more for me. I said there was nothing else I needed doing. He still begged. I said if he really wanted to be useful he could send a gift from my wishlist. He then offered to move from Austria to the UK and marry me and move into my house. I blocked him for his arrogance.

    Hence the tantrum.

    He should have just carried on doing the tasks.
     
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    #27 Abstraction, Jun 8, 2020
    Awww, poor thing! And we were mean to him. Oh well, a lesson learned. :)

    @L-u-c-y, you've missed an opportunity of a lifetime. :p
     
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    #28 L-u-c-y, Jun 8, 2020
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    Thanks for the post but you have not noticed any findom. This is a subject that really annoys me, it's my pet hate!

    I enjoy posting lots of content on Fetlife, it's all totally free. My profile says I'm not looking for anyone or anything. I post photos, videos, and stories. I have a lot of fans because of this, nearly 100,000 on fetlife and 75,000 on twitter. Sometimes I let a fan buy an item of clothing or shoes for me, but even than it's a rarity that anyone offers.

    That's nothing to do with findom. That's a completely different thing. I can't be paid to do things a male wants, it goes against everything I believe in.

    I donate money to vanilla youtubers and podcasters who make free content that I like. What is the difference?

    Currently I am donating to a Walking Dead podcast and a Trans youtuber who makes videos I enjoy. I like to show support for them and encourage them to carry on. They have both mentioned me in their content which is quite fun :)

    They don't do it for a job, they do it in their spare time because they enjoy it.

    It's not something I've set out to do, it's just evolved organically over the years.
     
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    #29 Chaste J., Jun 8, 2020
    Well I for one enjoy this "shitty site". I feel very much at home and find it a friendly place. :lockkey:
     
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    #30 tecolote, Jun 8, 2020
    So he asked Lucy to be his kink distributor, and she asked him what's in it for her so he got all butthurt? That's my guess, anyway.

    Wrong site to look for a hookup unless you happen to be a dominatrix.
     
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    #31 L-u-c-y, Jun 8, 2020
    No, wrong again.

    I don't do anyones kinks, for anything. The only way is serving me. No ifs, no buts, no conditions.

    I have been offered houses, cars and holidays, I turn them all down. They all rely on doing what the sub wants.

    That's a big no from me.

    If I wanted to sell out I could make a fortune, but I wouldn't be able to live with that.
     
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    #32 slimswitch, Jun 8, 2020
    As if he was going to sue. "So, your honour, I signed up to this site about locking fetish chastity devices to your penis, but then..."
     
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    #33 L-u-c-y, Jun 8, 2020
    Dear Lawyer,

    I signed up to a site about locking penises 2 days ago which I have made no posts to. I need my personal data removed.

    Lawyer: What data do you want removed?

    A made up email address and a made up username.
     
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    #34 tomf_22033, Jun 8, 2020
    Ms Lucy

    I stand corrected. And owe you an apology.

    Anyway please know that I’m sorry for misspeaking.

    I hope you know I hold you on high regard and have enjoyed our discussions both publicly and privately.


    Everyone else,

    Again, Ms Lucy does a very good, and usually excellent job of running this site. We don’t have to like all she does or says, but it’s her site. So if you have an issue, respectfully discuss it with her or one of the other admins. Or leave. Being nasty to her isn’t cool nor acceptable.
     
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    #35 Alceste, Jun 9, 2020
    Was that really his name?
     
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    #36 L-u-c-y, Jun 9, 2020
    I can't tell you his name, he would set his lawyer on me :)
     
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    #37 Alceste, Jun 9, 2020
    He definitely lived up to his name!
     
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    #38 Byrdie, Jun 9, 2020
    So, basically, one way or another, he wanted @L-u-c-y to do his bidding immediately: give him kink on demand, or hustle to delete his account under threat of legal action.

    Um. Okay ...?
     
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    #39 Alceste, Jun 9, 2020
    Exactly right.
     
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    #40 L-u-c-y, Jun 9, 2020
    He wanted to marry me, move to the UK and move into my house after 2 short conversations, and he didn't even have any photos on his profile.
     
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    #41 Alceste, Jun 9, 2020
    Amazing.
     
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    #42 Byrdie, Jun 9, 2020
    I've gotten those sorts of solicitations before. Inspired by these interactions, I wrote a blog post somewhere pondering how much accepting a submissive is like picking out a dog from a pound ... both realistically and unrealistically.
     
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    #43 tecolote, Jun 9, 2020
    Need at least 3 conversations. Got it.
     
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    #44 Junebug15, Jun 9, 2020
    And I need tasks
     
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    #45 Alceste, Jun 9, 2020
    That is a funny observation!
     
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    #46 L-u-c-y, Jun 9, 2020
    Well this is a big problem. What do you do when subs beg and beg to do tasks and there is none? Should I spend my time making up pointless tasks? Then I would be their slave.
     
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    #47 MissyB, Jun 9, 2020
    Well at least it generated an interesting thread on 'how not to do it'. a sub may wish to be Mistress's maid, or do endless tasks, but that only works if it is Mistress's interests too.
     
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    #48 CagedJohn, Jun 9, 2020
    you could make a thousand of these and some idiots will never get it
     
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    #49 Junebug15, Jun 9, 2020
    Lucy so true. I was half jokingly about task. And it wasn't directed at you. It was a general statement
     
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    #50 L-u-c-y, Jun 9, 2020
    I know : )
     
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