When I started chastity, I would had never believed I'd end up liking ________.

I can't believe that I turn down orgasms, that I don't have any PIV sex, That the only way I get to cum is that my Wife(KH) lets me or wants me to and the only way I have an orgasm is by masturbating 80% of the time...And I like it all this way...

 

Turning down orgasms... I still don't fully understand why denial works but I'm a convert.

 

I never thought I would like the loss of control as much as I do. Chastity was my kink and early on, I was always trying to top from the bottom. As time went by, I came to realize just how intoxicating not having the ability to determine if or when I would get to cum would be. Although unlike for many others here, chastity for us is extend foreplay but now Princess is in control of our sex life.

 

thinking about My Queen literally each and all seconds of every day

 

For me, chastity was a side kink. I wanted more bondage and Femdommy stuff, but Mrs Edge just never got into it. After stumbling across Altairboy in the mid 90s (late night surfing on dial up), I built a few devices. Mrs Edge was a little more receptive, but it never took out for us until the CB3000 came out.

From there, our chastity play became more frequent, and for longer and longer terms. Once we got a lifelike Vixskin strapon for me to wear, out play extended from weeks to months.

Eventually I grew to enjoy and look forward to putting on my harness and railing her silly, while being denied for months (or longer as is the case now). This really isn't how I expected it to turn out, but we're both enjoying how things are going, so I'm certainly not going to complain.

 

being locked forever. It's my new life.

 

Yeah, I didn't expect to actually like being locked for months on end, as opposed to being merely threatened with it.

 

I have been pussy free from Aug 2006. My mistress gets a lot of tongue and i now receive regular pegging and that is now how i come. I do hope sshe does allow you out for a good orgasm but from the sounds of it that is not going to happen

 

Orgasm denial.
Being a submissive house servant.
Spankings.

 

Yes, I have found that I want to be caged when out (not full time wear as fit isn’t right, cheap Chinese). I serve her in many ways, orgasms for her are what I strive for, locked or not. Even if I’m free I don’t have a say in my orgasms, it’s always about her & I haven’t even pushed that. I’m also doing more in the house without being told, and ready to help if “asked to help”. I’m getting “less sex, but way more sex” than we ever had before. It’s amazing what this has turned into.

 

After starting to feminize me, Mistress originally required me to be caged as a means of preventing my wanking (which She deplores) and, at the time, I figured, "What the heck!". Little did I know that, before long, I was caged as part of a plan to eliminate PIV sex from my desires and to have me happy about that. I adore Mistress and thank Her for leading me in this journey!

 

Before CM and the internet I would have imagined I was a little crazy and alone in liking to be locked in chastity. It is comforting to know how many share this love of chastity.

 

I like doing my chores now and letting my Mistress enjoy leisure. I have also found I look forward to the paddle on my ass

 

"When I started chastity, I would had never believed I'd end up liking _"

I was thinking of the many ways chastity has changed me. One of the things that I really like is that I have no option to stand and pee as a male any more. The cage strongly reinforces my feminine feelings.

When I sit I'm looking into the gusset of my panties between my knees, usually with a pad as well. I can't touch my penis when its caged, but when I'm sitting, I can't even see the cage, I'm just peeing. When I'm out and about I have to pay attention to how much I drink if I don't want to end up in a dirty bathroom. When I do have to pee, I have to use a stall and sit, or hover, as the case might be, no choice.

Outdoors in the woods the pants and panties must come down, as I look to see if there is anyone around, my bare bottom hanging out, as I squat to pee--no choice with my cage. Oh, I tried standing when I was first caged, it didn't work out well! It is a vulnerable feeling squatting there with the breeze blowing against you bare bottom hoping you won't be seen.

 

Laundry

 

Couldn't have put it bettet

 

She used to get upset that I didn't do enough chores, but through our FLR she learned I needed to be told what to do. At first, she didn't understand why I didn't just see and act, but now she likes ordering me around. One. Task. At. A. Time.

I never thought I would enjoy the mild torture of thinking I was done with chores only to hear I have to do another. Then another. Then another. Ooo! It's a mindfuck.