Forget the naysayers WEC, she’s hot!! If you’re going to dream/wish/fantasize or create art, it might as well be a 10!!
I believe her being sexualized in the picture and pulling the strings is a perfect reflection of what allows most men to let someone do it. Let’s face it, it may not be that way at the moment for everyone, but I would hazard a guess that most (NOT ALL jeez don’t chase me with torches!) started this because they thought it would be a thrill for their partner to be in charge. With that probably, denial, tease play, and thoughts of her being more aggressive in what she wanted in bed. She will get out of it what she chooses, and more than likely what she wants isn’t all the hyper sexual stuff, but more intimacy, more freedom, more communication, and yes with all that more sex since not being pissed off helps the libido. We on the other hand usually have sex on our brain, and it drives us farther than common sense or courtesy ever would. Although we do adjust, settle in, and our expectations can change if we think it’s sexual...even if it’s asexual in nature.
Chastity was essentially my Wife's idea which I was very much against when she suggested it. What she gets out of it is me not talking too much; me being complient; her financial freedom; me doing the housework; not hearing me criticise her or getting angry with her; me listening to her fully; no sexual demands from me and her pleasure in denying me.
LOL...is what it is I suppose...on any given day my wife and I have different needs...sometimes I enjoy simply doting on her in ways that please her, sometimes I want to be dominated in ways that turn me on. Very frequently my wife wants me to dominate her! all in love and fun!