Wedding plans

Congratulations! Besides collaring you … she could brand you with her initials to permanently mark you as her property.

 

Congratulations

 

Congratulations!

Who will be attending the ceremony?

 

reminds me of this time we had a couples get away with her long time friend and her partner. the one the missus would text our location to when we first started dating a good 7 years ago.

didn't sound like they got told about the dynamic. within the first 10 minuets of getting to the cabin the missus gives me an order probably out of habit, out of habit I jump up head to the car to fetch something. i come back to the three debating what words where used to 'ask' and a very embarrassed looking missus searing she used please and thankyou. I didn't get many orders for the rest of the weekend

anyway don't make anyone uncomfortable without warning, I know its the bride and grooms wedding but imagine far right republicans going to a gay wedding assuming it was a straight wedding

 

I know a ton of redneck Democrats that would react the same way.

 

we only hear what makes it over the pond. your figure heads appear rather polarizing. Ours are just disconnected, we had a referendum to have a aboriginal voice in parliament, when all the counting was done it appeared the richer you are the more you where for the voice. turns out aboriginals didn't want another mob telling their mob what to do

 

Congratulations!!

 

Congratulations and good luck to you both

 

Congratulations! And do whatever makes you happy!

 

Congratulations you guys

 

Wedding and getting married and lifestyle.
In 2001, we were married in a lifestyle wedding collaring and reception, a play party with all our lifestyle friends to follow. Our only family, both our Mothers, were there, joining us and supporting us on our new adventure as our circle of friends still talked about the day or weekend, lol. Wishing you both the best on this new adventure in life.

 

Yes, it sounds like perhaps two ceremonies might be something to consider. Please share your plans as they become clear!

 

Congratulations Smokey

 

Great news!

 

Congratulations to you both, and have a Wonderful and Full filled life together.

 

So what has been decided

 

2 ceremonies is the safest way to prevent exposing potentially unwilling people to your kink. Also, it depends on the culturd, what type of wedding You/you are having, and what type of FLR You/you have. If you are only doing one ceremony, you could have Her lead if You/you are dancing. If She plans on collaring you, you could wear a collar and leash under your clothes. you could also wear some type of anklet or bracelet the She selects. If You/you are having a sit down dinner, stand until She sits and don’t eat until She takes a bite—it’s a bit more public but unless You/you make a big show of it i doubt anyone will think FLR or kink. As for the vows, some use the word “obey” but others do not. You/you could make sure to use that and slightly and subtly stress that work when reciting them. Alternatively, your vow could be something like that you will always listen to Her, support Her and do everything in your power to make Her life better.

 

We did not start our FLR until after we were married but I fantasized a lot about what a marriage ceremony would be like if we were in a FLR prior to being married. A few ideas that are not too crazy:

A pre ceremony a fews days before the wedding in which you kneel before your wife to be and exchange “FLR vows.” It could be just you two or if you have a friend that you are comfortable including, they could serve as a witness. Your vows would be focused on serving her, always yielding to her, and treating her like a Goddess. Her vows would be focused on ruling you with loving and strict authority.

During the pre ceremony she locks you in chastity and you are not to be unlocked until after the wedding. If you are not into chastity, a cock ring could be an alternative.

sign a slave contract prior to the wedding. This would be more of a symbolic gesture as actual slave contracts are not really enforceable and in my opinion not conducive to a FLR that is growing and evolving.

day of wedding you wear something submissive under your clothes such as chastity, cock ring, bridal panties embroidered with “slave”, ribbon tied around your cock, or an infinity collar. You can get metal cock rings engraved so that could be something fun to do.

when you consummate the marriage you are tied up and she is on top during sex and you are not permitted to thrust. You cum when she commands. This is symbolic of her power over you.

Each of you Get tattoos either before the wedding or during your honeymoon, tha symbolize your status in the FLR.

 

Mazel Tov!

 

Have the wedding early so you have the main meal nearer lunchtime.