Saw a short video clip on reddit, someone caged up, holding a dildo right above the cage, and stroking vigorously as though he was masturbating. He came in the cage without touching it. As far as I know there was nothing on the prostate either, but who knows. Kinda fascinating, and I've watched my myself cum while masturbating so many times I wouldn't be surprised if I could make it happen too.
I suspect this could work. However, it would require training to trick the brain first. This would involved hiding the actual penis from view and placing the dildo in view where the penis should be. Next, both the penis and dildo are simultaneously stimulated in the exact same way until the person’s brain accepts the dildo as his own penis. Once the brain accepts this, then something done to the dildo is interpreted as being done to the real penis. I advise anyone considering this to do their own research before attempting. Seems like there could be many ways to use this information. As with all information, I also suspect it could be misused. Please be careful. If it does work, let us know. The video below might provide a SFW example of how this could be accomplished. Rubber hand illusion video
That would take some serious dedication and training to get to that state (if at all). Still be an impressive party trick lol
I don't know about an orgasm but my wife will take one of my fingers and stroke it like she's giving me a handjob. My response is to breath harder, become erect in the cage and I can feel sexual excitement from her efforts. It might be that I'm so needy that anything is better than nothing but I really don't understand how it works or why.
Did she, perhaps, condition you in any way? Perhaps by doing that to your finger before giving you a handjob in the past? Of course, you could just be really sexually frustrated, too.