About 12 years ago after purchasing a CB-3000, I asked my wife of then 32 years to place me in chastity because of my chronic mastubation. That was a real hard thing to do. She tried to be my keyholder for about a month but lost interest. That was OK by me because I realized for me, that a CB-3000 was just a toy. I found out I could not only escape from it, but put my penis back into it, while it was still locked. About a year latter I found Mistress Lori’s chastity web site, and bought one of her devices that required a PA piercing. I held off telling my wife, until I got my device, and tried it out to make sure that, it was both escape proof and comfortable, before going through the embarrassment of telling my wife I wanted her to be my keyholder again. Immediately, I realized this device fulfilled both of my concerns. Again, I asked my wife to be my keyholder. This time though, I realized the power this device gave her. I immediately gave my wife all of my attention. I was in love with her as much as I was in the beginning of our relationship, some 33 year before. But guess what? Again she lost interest. Fast forward to now. We will be married for 44 years this September. We are very much in love, but we have not had sex in 2 years. I was still masturbating daily. I found a dominatrix 35 miles away. At our first session she told me she wanted me in chastity. I again got a piercing and a new Mistress Lori’s Chastity device. After waiting for my piercing to heal, I have now been locked up for 5 days. My next session with my Dom. is 22 days away. She told me that session will be about serving her. My horniest is out the roof. By the time my session comes, I will be willing to do anything she asks. It blows my mind that my wife gave up that power that a chastity device gives a women.