That feeling of being “on edge” - do people actually like it!?

The "on edge" feeling subsides as you are locked longer. Eventually it passes and you will be in a wonderful plateau of continuous (but not overwhelming) horniness. Enjoy it

 

I'm going through the same thing myself... Usually between 2 and 3 weeks without orgasm, my body sounds the alarm and makes me very horny, jittery and hyper-sensitive to things that wouldn't normally arouse & excite me. I have mixed feelings about it.

At work I have plenty of tasks to keep myself busy and take my mind off of how badly I need to cum, but at home (especially this time of year when it's colder) I'm cooped up and not able to ignore the urges that come and go regularly. On the one hand, it feels really great to have such energy and to feel constantly aroused & excited (except at work, then it's a distraction), but on the other hand it can really feel like a burden to be ready to "pop" any minute and have to be careful not to allow that to happen, lest you get a "T-crash" for the next few days to a week.

So yes, going a period without orgasm will make you feel like you're going through withdrawal Thus far, I haven't lasted long enough without orgasm to make it past that period, so I can't speak for what it'll be like afterward... Whenever that is.

 

I find two tracks to it:

1) Distraction and loss of focus, anxiety. This is often resolved with exercise, movement, breathing and paying attention to good habits. Whereas addiction (alcohol, distracting ones self with overworking, porn, drugs, etc) masks this, your body seeks balance and healthy living.

2) Horniness - especially after day 10 and I get a horny "floaty" feeling that is delicious. While also have an incredible desire to have an orgasm, once getting actually close to the realization of having that orgasm, I don't want to give it up. Constant paradox of craving orgasm but not actually wanting to have one.

#2 is an awesome feeling, but if #1 is left unchecked, #2 takes over, makes me anxious, and I can't get any work done.

 

I find once you get over that first urge to have an orgasm. Your body settles down . And you don't actually dwell on it so much . At times you can leak a lot but mostly you can concentrate on day to day things easily . But beware you will get days when really turned on and the longer you go on you might find things you never thought would turn you on sexually start to do just that. And then comes the question you will end up asking yourself .. I've so much time invested do I really want to orgasm or continue with the sexual high... that's why I said beware

 

You sound like you are experiencing stress.

Distraction, meditation, ensure you drink enough water, relax...you'll be fine.

 

I usually "peak" of horniness/edge about a week after first locking and then it comes and goes to a serious extent every so often/days. Particularly if I am taking care of Mistress/Wife needs and she falls a sleep right after next to me.

I just accept it as part of being locked nearly full time anymore.

I have found after a longer period ...weeks of being locked without release,... being on the edge as it were becomes less and less frequent.

 

I have to ask permission to edge.

 

I discovered that great feeling about a week into Locktober last year. Was in the shower one morning and my whole body felt really tender to touch. I was buzzing for the rest of the day.

 

I like to call it the low simmer of constant arousal. Yes, it can be irritating, but eventually I learned to embrace it and I now find it to be energizing.

 

Yeah I love it ,one of the reasons I like to stay locked, it seems to kick in after about a week for me and peaks at about 2 or 3 weeks

 

When we first started chastity it was an enhancement to our sex lives and heightened the experience. On Friday's after work, I would get home, clean up, shower, and put the cage on. My wife would get home a little later and we would have an evening of playing and relaxation. Sometimes it would be sitting at the pool, in the hot tub, or lying in front of the fire. The evening would end with her being satisfied and me being left caged. I would lay in bed the remainder of the night with every nerve on edge and waiting for Saturated to arrive.

The day would start with breakfast and me watching every move she made. If yard work had to be done of other repairs around the house, I would be able to clear my mind and focus on the tasks at hand. Then sitting around the pool was hard, she would be walking around in either her bottoms or naked wearing nothing but the key around my neck. Finally the night would come and she would approach me teasing me and feeling my cage and then finally she would unlock me.

It started to change a year later when one weekend after we finished she had me lock up and told me she planned on keeping me lock for the entire week. At this point I had done a day or two or three, but now a whole week. During the week we would get home from work and after dinner soak in the hot tub with some evenings just cuddling or on occasion her sitting on the rim and me between her legs. Every time she touched me was like fire running thru my body but then Saturday night relief always came.

A few month later we were in our Saturday night mode and I noticed she was not wearing the hey. After I pleased her over and over again she went to get up and I figured it was release time. I was so much on edge and she finally returned with only drinks in her hands but no key. I asked her what was up and she dropped the bomb telling me she was going to keep me locked for another week. I was crushed, but remember how hot and on edge I was and the feeling of disappointment and frustration that came over me. I also remember that entire week, at work I was normal, but at home was always feeling a rush whenever she walk by me.

 

I love that feeling when you are expecting you are going to be unlocked only to be denied, its so hot then you have to buckle down for at least another week.

 

I have moments when I’m incredibly frustrated but not necessarily horny. My mind is stuck on my situation and everything else seems trivial. I find that either forcing myself to get involved in something whether it be work, chores, a hobby, etc. or talking about it with my wife will eventually suppress it. I don’t enjoy it and doubt I ever will but I’m slowly learning to live with it.

 

If you've got a romantic partner kh, the on edge feeling can be explained by high oxytocin levels. It's like the anxiety you get when you're first dating someone.

 

On edge typically means stressed. And no, being stressed does not feel good. It sucks, and it can kill you actually. But being extremely horny brought on by denial is really pretty good. I wouldn't call it stressed. It's kind of a buzz. That part I like. I haven't felt that stressed 'on-edge' at all wrt chastity or denial. Not sure it's directly related. You may want to look at other contributing lifestyle issues.

 

UN CHE per me dopo il decimo giorno senza orgasmo mi sento voglioso e citato mi sento come una troia supplico per avere un orgasmo le palke piene la prostata che comincia a farmi gemere il cazzo di liquido prostatico al mattino prima di urinare si sensibilizza il cazzo è la pelle di tutto il corpo se mi toccano mi eccito. Però se voglio mantenere l eccitaziine a lungo devo avere oun orgasmo rovinato o una mungitura della prostata. Il desiderio inapoagato di sborrare mi ecciti tanto.

 

I'm definitely going through orgasm withdrawal... Better known as "Desperation".

Have a read on the latest post of my journal here... The second paragraph emphasizes how I feel right now: A new year, a new lockup!

 

Agitation happens when you don't cum. If you're committed too chastity long enough you'll get used to it and it will be less of a problem.

 

spot on!