Teasing frequency

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It is pretty much safe to say at the moment, with my wife’s reflux issue, bedtime is a no go zone for any fun, her reflux is always worse in the evening - so I have taken to gently waking her up some mornings simply by gently stroking her back and running my fingers through her hair - which does seem to push the right buttons if you get my drift. My gentle stroking then extends to her arms and I can safely lay behind her in a spooning fashion, and with more hair stroking I can stroke over her and gently massage her wonderful breasts. This of course induces a bucket of leak from me so I have to be careful not to leak all over her butt/leg/her side of the bed - tricky, but do-able... With a bit of contortionism my other hand gently strokes her butt and I listen to her breathing as I softly caress her nipples... if we have time & she allows, I may even get a chance to stroke her pussy which by now is extremely moist... if not, She starts stroking my leg and I am able to raise that over her butt so she has access to tease me - I stay locked of course... but she can at least reach behind and and me and starts stroking my ass and perenium and trapped ball and I simply feel like there are angels playing with me down there as she caresses me with her gorgeous fingers...and there is nothing hotter than knowing her fingers are gliding over my cockcage, the sheer hotness of her feeling my captor and NOT being shocked or repulsed but lovingly squeezing it and stroking it is just a total mind blowing experience for me... she continues this for a few minutes and then decides I have had enough fun... time to get up! And that is that... until the next time... what is just delicious is the sensuality of it all... married 10 years this year and thanks to the cage (I am sure of it!) we are now more sensual with each other than we have been for a long time!!
Still no release in sight before Valentine’s Day mind you but we are enjoying the ride as much as we can with more sensual horniness to come....

 

I think if she has you locked 24/7, she should be teasing 24/7

 

Teasing was an important part in the beginning of hubbys life in chastity but now this is over I believe in replacing the male sexuality by female sexuality only

 

I'm in my mid 60s and discovered that my nipples are an erogenous zone. I've had low libido, erectile dysfunction, and low testosterone for years which I now understand is due to cardiovascular disease, high cholesterol, etc. I spent months trying different things to increase the sensitivity of my nipples with great sucess. I use small nipple suction cups for about 20 min 3-4 x per week and clothespins 1 x per week for about 20 min rotating every 5 min to keep them sensitive.

My wife teases my nipples about 5x per week. She calls them her "toys". She absolutely drives me wild. I try to lay completely still but within about 5 min I start to twitch and tense up uncontrollably, sometimes moaning. My cage is always dripping by the time she's finished. She gets so aroused that she's always wet herself and we almost never use lubricant on her to give her an orgasm which is remarkable for an older woman who is having issues with being dry at that age.

I've brought up the idea of removing my cage for direct teasing but she's not interested in doing that... too much effort I guess and she doesn't want me to have the pleasure of having my penis stimulated directly even if it's without an orgasm.

My penis starts twitching trying to gain an erection almost immediately when she teases me. I've aware of it because it seems like her leg is usually laying across me touching the cage and I didn't want her to be aware of the throbbing going on down htere. Yesterday, I finally asked her if she could feel that on her leg and she said "Of course. I want to know that I'm achieving my goal."

We just agreed that we need to try a 3 month or longer lock-up with no orgasm for me to break the cycle of masturbation. I also need to be trained to love her sacrificially so that it's ingrained in me and it becomes 2nd nature. I had a 1 month lock-up to begin our chastity experience together, I was on the razor's edge, and she never felt more loved by me in our married life. After 3 mind-bending orgasms within 5 weeks time, I was dying to masturbate all the time and had lost my behavioral mindset that was focused on her needs. And I was starting to misbehave. If she continues to tease me like this for the next 3 or more months, I might become a basket case and turn to jello.

 

My Wife teases me in various subtle ways almost daily. I receive "formal" edge play from Her in the bedroom (while i am full restrained of course) about 2 or 3 nights per week depending on Her mood. I am also required to service and pleasure Her orally as the last part of these sessions whenever She chooses. Like littleguy3 described (above), my Wife also just loves to pinch, bite and torture my nipples while i am restrained. I absolutely love these bondage - edge play - nipple torture sessions!

 

I think it an appealing concept to replace the male sexuality by female

 

I think it an appealing concept to gradually replace the male sexuality by female sexuality only
How did you come up with this? Was it obvious from the beginning that locking him away would lead to ending his sexuality totally or when did you consider this as a goal for the first time, and how do you and your partner feel and think about it now? What does is imply that you consider it as your "belief"?

 

I'm not locked up, and @MissAmy teases me most days, usually to the extreme point of being edged. I don't play by myself and she's not made me cum for probably about 2 months now, although we did have a small accident 3 weeks ago, but it was not remotely enjoyable!

Her preferred method is nipple biting, ball squeezing and simply wanking and sucking me until I am nanoseconds away from cumming and then repeating that multiple times and then telling me to get in the shower as I'll be late for work (usually happens in the morning, but not exclusively).

We don't have any set schedule or expectations, some weeks it's every day, or multiple times a day, other weeks it's once, or never.

 

My Wife(KH) enjoys making me leak. I get teased several time a day. Once or twice a week, my Wife(KH) ties me to our bed and will tease me for a few hours. Almost every morning she will have me give her a body and foot rub. While I'm doing this, she will tease my balls and play with my nipples. For her foot rubs, she tucks the side of her foot under my balls and then makes me rub her feet. Other times, while she is watching TV or playing her game, she has me stand beside her nude and will rub and squeeze my balls and make me dry hump her hand while I play with my nipples and make me leak. She really enjoys bringing right the edge and then telling me to go away.

 

It is generally a daily for us. Even if it is only 30 seconds with a laugh, she always gets me aroused and wanting more.

 

Now that I am cut off from cumming I find teasing is the number one way I keep my attitude. We had house guests off and on for 3 weeks and zero teasing. I found I was dragging ass until she edged me. Its like a battery that needs charging

 

I think some sort of teasing should happen every day.

Think about it: He is locked 24/7 right? Means the whole 24 hours of his day are filled with the thought of how he wants to orgasm and how much he desires his Mistress. Literally every minute is filled with that thought being at least in the back of his mind.

So I think it can not be too much for the Mistress to spend at least 10 seconds per day on her submissive.

Teasing could be ...
... a text message, saying for example: "So good to know you want to, but can´t.", or
...just grabbing his locked parts and looking him in the eyes, whispering "You are going nowhere, aren´t you?", or
... putting a box of condoms on his shopping list, when he is send shopping. Could be XXL condoms, when he clearly would only need normal ones, driving him crazy why you need those, or
... putting a box of condoms in the shopping cart when you go shopping together and when he puts them on the cashiers table, you go like "What for do you want to buy condoms for? Go, bring them back to the shopping aisle." (cashier probably would not even notice what really is going on and just thinking that you probably use the pill or have a baby wish ... but hubby will think the whole world now knows that he gets no sex anymore), or
... sending him three porno links asking him to tell you in which of the three pornos he liked the interaction best and why (in high detail, so he has to really watch it), or
... wearing a certain pair of elegant gloves each of the rare times he gets a handjob, then simply wearing those gloves from time to time also when you go out with him (can even be just to church or something innocent) and smile at him, while resting your head on your gloved hands or stroking with your gloves through his hair, while smiling knowingly at him, or
... holding his hand somewhere in public and then sneak a quick grab of his index finger in and just for two or three strokes "masturbate" his finger, or
... ... ...

The possibilities are endless. Not teasing your man simply shows that you don´t respect him and are not even briefly with him every day.

Sorry for being blunt, but it´s hard to object against that, I guess.

 

Goddess teases me multiple times a day. Unless one of U/us is traveling She starts the day with a “cage check” which involves me dropping my panties and Her “inspecting” Her cage. That usually lasts for 1-2 minutes and can involve any part of Her body - most commonly Her hands, feet, mouth, boobs, or ass. During the day She will tease me in different ways. Sometimes it is by text or over the phone, other times She will brush up against my cage, or bend at the waist in front of me to pick something up, and still other times it may be by having me watch Her do things.

At night when W’/we are sitting around relaxing She will frequently play with Her cage acting as if She is doing so almost absentmindedly.

Finally, as long as i have gotten my work done and attended to anything Her needs Goddess will play with me for 3 minutes right before bed, almost always ending with Her spitting between the bars leaving me even wetter than my “tears” already made me!