So happy to be feeling normal again!

Discussion in 'Female led relationships' started by Thatgirl, Jul 3, 2019.

Random Thread
  1. Thatgirl
    Offline

    Thatgirl Owner and Wife of Thatguyontheinternet.
    Verified Female

    Joined:
    Feb 1, 2016
    Messages:
    847
    Likes Received:
    3,045
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Female
    Local Time:
    3:21 AM
    After many, MANY months of on and mostly off again chastity, we are finally back at it again, much more seriously this time. The pregnancy definitely threw my mojo and drive off: postpartum, healing from awful birth injuries at the same time terrible lack of sleep and learning how to raise a baby really took it’s toll on the both of us.

    Our amazing little girl is seven and a half months old now and doing awesome! She’s such an easy kid. With less stress now, we picked things back up about 2 months ago. Giving birth and almost dying from blood loss made me realize just HOW powerful I am. Once the dust settled, it definitely breathed new life into how I feel in regards to my dominance over my locked boy. He has mentioned it as well...it has made our play so much more intense and fun!

    Anyway, thought I’d drop back in to say hello! Hope everyone is doing well!
     
  2. slappy
    Offline

    slappy Long term member

    Joined:
    Feb 24, 2015
    Messages:
    187
    Likes Received:
    81
    Trophy Points:
    38
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    2:21 AM
    How come not verified?
     
  3. Thatgirl
    Offline

    Thatgirl Owner and Wife of Thatguyontheinternet.
    Verified Female

    Joined:
    Feb 1, 2016
    Messages:
    847
    Likes Received:
    3,045
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Female
    Local Time:
    3:21 AM
    I’ve been here longer than a lot of people on here and just came back after a long time away. The verified option was implemented while I was gone. You’ll see it come thru soon when I figure out how to go about getting it done.
     
  4. PouchPantyLover
    Offline

    PouchPantyLover Long term member

    Joined:
    Mar 6, 2017
    Messages:
    1,203
    Likes Received:
    2,258
    Trophy Points:
    133
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Hawaii
    Local Time:
    9:21 PM
    Yeah! Welcome back. Had some communication with @Thatguyontheinternet but didn't know how dire the post birth issues were. Can't tell you how glad I am you pulled through. Glad the kid is taking it easy on you now, but don't count on that lasting. Sooner or later they stick it to you. Childbirth is an awe inspiring thing to even witness let alone go through. Glad you have your mojo back and look forward to hearing more details on your post "brush with death" exploits.
     
    Goddess Gaia and Ma’ams Slut like this.
  5. Thatgirl
    Offline

    Thatgirl Owner and Wife of Thatguyontheinternet.
    Verified Female

    Joined:
    Feb 1, 2016
    Messages:
    847
    Likes Received:
    3,045
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Female
    Local Time:
    3:21 AM
    Thank you Pouch!! I am happy to be back in the swing of things...it feels normal and right! Now to go about getting “verified” as I can’t find any instructions anywhere!
     
  6. Bound4life
    Offline

    Bound4life Long term member

    Joined:
    Jan 4, 2015
    Messages:
    567
    Likes Received:
    514
    Trophy Points:
    93
    Gender:
    Male
    Home Page:
    Local Time:
    10:21 AM
    Glad you are feeling back to normal if not even better!
     
  7. Thatgirl
    Offline

    Thatgirl Owner and Wife of Thatguyontheinternet.
    Verified Female

    Joined:
    Feb 1, 2016
    Messages:
    847
    Likes Received:
    3,045
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Female
    Local Time:
    3:21 AM
    Much better! Thank you!
     
    Slave to a Goddess likes this.
  8. locked_top
    Offline

    locked_top Caged tiger

    Joined:
    Jan 8, 2019
    Messages:
    702
    Likes Received:
    1,043
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    USA
    Local Time:
    2:21 AM
    Welcome back. Small babies are wonderful, but they are energy sinks. Glad you've been able to bring the kink back
     
  9. locked_top
    Offline

    locked_top Caged tiger

    Joined:
    Jan 8, 2019
    Messages:
    702
    Likes Received:
    1,043
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    USA
    Local Time:
    2:21 AM
    Don't be impolite. Women can choose whether to be verified or not...it's not an obligation.
     
  10. Thatgirl
    Offline

    Thatgirl Owner and Wife of Thatguyontheinternet.
    Verified Female

    Joined:
    Feb 1, 2016
    Messages:
    847
    Likes Received:
    3,045
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Female
    Local Time:
    3:21 AM
    Thank you. I almost said something not nice, it decided to bite my tongue.
     
  11. Thatgirl
    Offline

    Thatgirl Owner and Wife of Thatguyontheinternet.
    Verified Female

    Joined:
    Feb 1, 2016
    Messages:
    847
    Likes Received:
    3,045
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Female
    Local Time:
    3:21 AM
    Sooooo very true! It’s so weird looking at the clock when it’s midnight and making myself go to bed whereas we used to play until early morning before!
     
  12. dereknor
    Offline

    dereknor Junior Member

    Joined:
    May 18, 2009
    Messages:
    117
    Likes Received:
    131
    Trophy Points:
    53
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Hamburg
    Local Time:
    9:21 AM
    My wife and me have stopped with chastity about 2 years ago. There was just soo much stress. Problems with work, money, we married, problems with family, health problems and so on. We just hadno energy left for chastity play (and chastity takes a lot of energy). We are slowly starting with it again now.
     
    taped2, Chaste J. and Ma’ams Slut like this.
  13. L-u-c-y
    Offline

    Staff Member Owner of Chastity Mansion Administrator Verified Female

    Joined:
    Oct 20, 2015
    Messages:
    4,883
    Likes Received:
    34,391
    Trophy Points:
    163
    Gender:
    Female
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Oxford, England
    Local Time:
    8:21 AM
    It's up to women if they want to be verified or not. Please do not do this again, it's very rude.

    @Thatgirl Welcome back : )
     
  14. Rider9
    Offline

    Rider9 Locked4her

    Joined:
    Jan 5, 2011
    Messages:
    330
    Likes Received:
    775
    Trophy Points:
    103
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Slovenia, Europe
    Local Time:
    9:21 AM
    Wish you all the best with your daughter and your relationship.
     
  15. locked_top
    Offline

    locked_top Caged tiger

    Joined:
    Jan 8, 2019
    Messages:
    702
    Likes Received:
    1,043
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    USA
    Local Time:
    2:21 AM
    Thank You!
     
    Aubrie likes this.
  16. madams-sissysub
    Offline

    Joined:
    Apr 30, 2009
    Messages:
    12,389
    Likes Received:
    6,726
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    nurse
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    uk (west mids)
    Local Time:
    8:21 AM
    Welcome back! And good to know your ok and getting back on it! I know how you feel, kids just drain you at the beginning, you have to replan your whole life!
     
  17. Rectrix
    Offline

    Rectrix Long term member

    Joined:
    Jul 8, 2010
    Messages:
    2,694
    Likes Received:
    5,951
    Trophy Points:
    133
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    US East Coast
    Local Time:
    3:21 AM
    Welcome back, glad to hear about the wonderful changes in your life. We went through one of those difficult births too, very traumatic.

    BTW, if you feel like getting Verified, just ask L-U-C-Y.
     
  18. Aubrie
    Offline

    Aubrie Active member

    Joined:
    Jun 20, 2019
    Messages:
    74
    Likes Received:
    96
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Occupation:
    Contractor
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Mesa, Arizona, United States
    Local Time:
    12:21 AM
    So happy you came back (even though I didn’t know you were gone:)) I just joined a couple weeks ago, My KH just joined about 3 days ago hope she meets you. Trying to meet other couples who have been through all this. She wants to go more hard core than our other attempts too. She has definitely been living up to it.
     
    locked_top likes this.
  19. Allen1987
    Offline

    Allen1987 All for Her

    Joined:
    Aug 20, 2017
    Messages:
    1,141
    Likes Received:
    3,189
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Machinist
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Massachusetts USA
    Local Time:
    3:21 AM
    Happy your back and in the saddle again. You two were missed.:+1:
     
  20. Thatgirl
    Offline

    Thatgirl Owner and Wife of Thatguyontheinternet.
    Verified Female

    Joined:
    Feb 1, 2016
    Messages:
    847
    Likes Received:
    3,045
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Female
    Local Time:
    3:21 AM
    Thank you! And YES ain’t that the truth?! I had NO idea just how much energy a kid can take. We thought we’d be able to get right back into it after the pregnancy...we were soooo wrong! It has definitely required a restructuring of our live to integrate the baby in a way that we don’t go insane, haha!
     
    iome343 likes this.
  21. Breathe
    Offline

    Breathe Be true to yourself

    Joined:
    Dec 1, 2017
    Messages:
    630
    Likes Received:
    7,002
    Trophy Points:
    123
    Gender:
    Female
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    United States
    Local Time:
    1:21 AM
    It's nice to see you back here! :) Glad to hear you three are doing well, and that you're feeling that power surge again. Feels so good after it's been a while, doesn't it? ;)
     
    iome343 likes this.
  22. CagedAnimal2
    Offline

    CagedAnimal2 Long term member

    Joined:
    Feb 3, 2016
    Messages:
    603
    Likes Received:
    327
    Trophy Points:
    73
    Gender:
    Male
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    MA, USA
    Local Time:
    3:21 AM
    Welcome back and congrats on your new baby!
     
  23. Queensbitch
    Offline

    Queensbitch Long term member

    Joined:
    May 16, 2015
    Messages:
    408
    Likes Received:
    705
    Trophy Points:
    103
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    2:21 AM
    Welcome back!! We sure missed reading your exploits. We are glad to hear that everyone is healthy and getting back to our normal. As for verified, those of us that have been around here more than a minute already know who and what you are. Verification shouldn’t be needed just given in this case.
     
  24. Guest 3729
    Offline

    Guest 3729 Long term member

    Joined:
    Sep 16, 2017
    Messages:
    1,332
    Likes Received:
    2,523
    Trophy Points:
    143
    Local Time:
    1:21 AM
    Glad you’re back and feeling good! :)
     
  25. Anonoman
    Offline

    Anonoman Long term member

    Joined:
    Jul 9, 2017
    Messages:
    889
    Likes Received:
    870
    Trophy Points:
    103
    Gender:
    Male
    Local Time:
    8:21 AM
    Welcome back! My wife lost nearly 3 litres of blood with our first and things where pretty darn scary. Glad to say we now have two and the seconds was totally different :)
     
  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice