Snug vs. Room to Grow?

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    I find myself in a little bit of a debate. While I am a respectable 6.25" when erect, I am a grower, not a shower when flaccid. My flaccid length is between 2 and 2.5".
    My Wife commented, (and teased me) that when I'm in the CB6000, I looked even tinier, as I wouldn't really fill the cage. This added to my humiliation when she would tease me about my "little pee-pee" (only real men have cocks). However, she didn't like the fact that when I would get semi erect, I could use the cage to stroke myself...
    My Wife expressed her desire to try chastity again, but this time I was to order the CB6000 S so that it would be a better fit for my "pee-pee". It arrives next week.

    What has your experience been? Is it better to be snug as possible, or have some breathing room to accommodate the penis' natural daily fluctuations?
     
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    From my experience smaller is better. I'm in my smallest cage now, a little over an inch and a quarter long, and I can wear it for a month. That is the longest Mistress has kept me locked. Don't tell her, but I bet I could go much longer easily. There is no growing, but after the first week I hardly know it is there--except I have to sit to pee. lol
     
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    Smaller is more comfortable, don't go too small, but a snug fit is super comfy. Room to grow doesn't really work and can lead to pinching
     
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    Assuming I'm not being overly squeezed, I prefer a snug fit. Breathing room tends to result in shifting which isn't fun. If you have too much room to grow, you get the night time erection issue which can be avoided almost entirely in smaller cages.
     
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    Another vote for small is better. See my pics.
     
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    There's little point in a chastity cage if your penis can engorge.
     
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    Some would argue that there is little point of chastity without that physical reminder that you're biologically capable but denied.
     
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    Mistress B, that is along the lines of what my Wife said about it. That, and it makes my penis look smaller, i it, lol.
     
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    Snug is better! I have had various chastity devices, but have found that the shortest device i have had is the most comfortable. No room to grow at all!
     
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    I am a grower, and I found the 6000s much more comfortable to wear and sleep in.
     
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    Hmmmm, it's a bummer for me to learn that snug is more comfortable....as KH I prefer room to grow, it makes teasing more fun and reinforces how controlled he is.
    But I wouldn't want anyone to get pinched!!
     
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    I have also found snug is more comfortable. I recently downsized my Jailbird half an inch and don't regret the expense. In addition to eliminating pinching it's an easier fit in the trousers. Before, it was pretty comfortable. Now it's very comfortable.
     
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    Goddess, I still feel very controlled and needy in my snug device and still feel the constriction and thwarting of my erection. You would be happy. See my pics of post-worship condition.
     
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    Thanks for the replies! So it seems that I made the right choice. My new device will be arriving this week. We'll see how it fits and what my Wife thinks of it.
     
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    She'll love it -- your CB is much too big!
     
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    I guess you got your answer @Subjr29 . Most people starting into Chastity think they need room to Grow. This causes more issues than it’s worth. Yes smaller is better not so small that it hurts you but snug and comfortable so you growth is restricted is Way better for serious long term lockup. If your just playing with Chastity and only locked a couple days a week than it really doesn’t matter.
     
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    Snug is better. You don’t need to cary any additional cage around for the 1% when you need a little growing room
     
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    I find that, with the smalled cage possible, erections are thwarted at their very inception, when they are much easier to control and far less painful. I vote with the smaller is better crowd!
     
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    Rectrix, I don't know if I should take your reply as thanks for agreeing, or as an insult on my size, hahaha...
     
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    Mash2214, yes, you are right. we had tried this months ago and my Wife didn't like that I had so much room. We'll see this time around what kind of control she wants over my manhood...
     
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    DonnaSue, thanks for the insight. I did actually get some pleasure from the sensation of filling-up the previous cage. I'm curious to see the feel of the new one later this week...
     
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    The former. You indicate you've gone for the snug cage. Your pictures indicate that that was a good choice compare to that CB.
     
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    Plus around these parts it’s not always an insult to say someone’s got a small package. It’s often an expression of admiration or envy. o_O
     
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    Rectrix, not to worry, I was kidding, lol.
     
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    We like some room to grow, She says she does not want to break me. I get real bad push back into the abdomen when teased real good. Plus the feeling of getting able to almost make it to full erection is a mind melt for me. Puts me in a sub zone quick.
     
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