Snug vs. Room to Grow?

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    "Push back?" That's not bad, that's good, that's your reminder of what she's taken. We call it an Intrection, a contraction of internal erection. It makes her laugh and giggle and point.
     
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    Very good point
     
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    I know exactly what you mean I used to wear a tube that was too slack and since I moved over to the HT I find the internal diameter of 32mm is sufficient to both prevent me getting erect whilst caged whilst being loose enough to allow circulation and even some rinsing through can be managed with a little effort.

    Snug whilst flaccid works for me and is I finf the most prefrable set up.

    though I am not sure about tight whilst flaccid I'm pretty sure that could lead to circulation issues.

    My lady preferred it when I had wriggle room as she calls it ut sees that snug is overall better.
     
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    I think it's a difference of show-er vs grow-er. If you're a grower, you want snug so that the erection doesn't really have any room to get started. showers get the option since there's not much change in size anyway, but I still think snug would be better for them (he should be reminded the cage is there from time to time)
     
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    I’m a grower and my cage is probably just a little too big( especially when it’s cold) but I think my next option would probably be custom and I don’t know if I’m ready to do that
     
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    I feel and think that a midsize cage would be more ideal The Best of Both Worlds a little bit of growth and a little bit more Agony for not being able to complete an erection
     
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    That’s kinda where I’m at. IDK if this is bad but I love when I get a bit aroused and I’m filling the cage to capacity
     
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    But cannot complete an erection. I think would be a lot more frustrating
     
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    Oh yea absolutely
    Read here somewhere the term intrection when it goes inward- that’s my 3am norm
     
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    Cage is 2” and fully erect I’m a little over 6”
    Flaccid there’s just a bit of room
     
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    Same-ish here, new cage is ~50mm ring to inside tip, but there's no room in my cage. In fact, when it comes off (even just a day) I have cute cage lines in the head for a while.
     
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    Haha- mine mirrors me- just a little shorter and a little more girth!
     
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    100% no room to grow is better. Like most people I started off with a cage much too big. 10 cages later I now I have nil growing space and it's so much more comfortable.
     
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    It has been interesting following the discussion. I have a custom Stwelworxx Locker 2 myself and it is a very good device but I'm having trouble with nightly erections. I'm a grower myself at just under 7" fully erect and the cage is only 2 1/2" long. I think it might be too short (normal size soft ist 3 3/4") and I'm considering ordering a longer version. Do you think that it might help? Thanks for your help in advance.
     
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    Echo that. and again after many years of wearing repeatedly too large a cage albeit different ones has convinced me snug when flaccid is best in all respects.

    A lot say the same but as always its each to their own.

    Besides your SO might prefer you to be having a hard time with your attempted erections and early wake up calls.. so maybe you have no choice in the matter.
     
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    @filltee: Thanks for the advice. My keyholder is usually quite careful with health issues and does not even want me to wear the cage during night because she does not want my penis to shrink. Unfortunately, I recently showed her a picture about "Locktober" and she found the idea interesting. I fear that she might go for it. I'm not used to longer lockup periods so far, 6 days was the longest I have been locked continously. Probably got myself in trouble by not thinking straight again... Maybe I'll get used to the nightly erections, I don't know.
     
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    God I hope I do soon
     
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    I really do't think that taking your cage/tube off every night is helping either of you.
    But as I keep saying... each to their own.
     
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    Some , argue about anything.
     
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    The more snug the better! There is such an intoxicating feeling when you are horny and want an erection but you absolutely cannot because your cage is so small that it completely prevents it.
     
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    That's true. We have a woman trying to tell a man what's important in terms of chastity. :rolleyes:
     
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    Only because the male initiates it.
     
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    What?

    The man's opinion is what's important because he's the one actually wearing the device and thinks about it infinitely more than his partner ever would.
     
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    @Unlucky
    You seem to be missing the point. Just because you decided to wear a chastity device doesn't mean you have the final decision as to what the outcome will be.
     
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    Actually, the guy does have the final veto.

    And you're missing the point. If a woman insists on nonsensical requirements to an offer of purely vanilla chastity, she's just being an idiot, selfish, or both. The guy might be the one asking for chastity, but he's not the only one benefiting or possibly even the primary beneficiary. Why on earth would a woman want to make it more difficult for the guy? Things only get complicated for the woman if the man wants an FLR or to use chastity as a gateway to more kink.
     
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