Sleeping better when locked??

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    We've been locking for a long time. I wouldn't describe myself as permanently locked, but rather mostly locked. Generally my Wife/Mistress prefers me to sleep unlocked because she believes nocturnal erections are healthy and minimum fuss from her perspective. Though sometimes she'll keep me locked if she's in an extra dommy mood or it is more convenient for her schedule.

    After an initial struggle with sleeping locked (a long time ago) I got used to it and sleep was fine, though it was still easier to get quality sleep while unlocked. I'm an Apple Watch fan and have been keeping workout and sleep stats for years.

    Recently I've been having difficulty getting quality sleep. It seems the preparation needs to perfect, I need to have worked out during the day, not drunk any alcohol, had a bath before bed, no devices, go to bed early, listen to sleep meditation, wear ear plugs and take herbal supplements that promote sleep. Then I have a shot at a good nights sleep.

    The weird thing is last night she left me locked and I got really really good sleep. I had a lot of dreams, multiple stories playing in my head. She was curious to see my sleep stats this morning because the last time I got really good sleep was a week ago, when she left me locked over night. So now my better half is curious and has decided to leave me locked up for a few nights to see if I get consistently better sleep over a few days.

    Has anyone else experienced this, that you get way better sleep when you are locked up?
     
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    #2 madams-sissysub, Feb 23, 2024
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    I’ve always suffered from the bad sleep, it took me weeks to get used to sleeping caged, so since I have madam doesn’t really give me time out, I’m in my cage every day and every night.
    But I had a brief stint out of the cage a few years ago due to a scrotal injury, and I found I would wake up every time when I got a erection! So I definitely sleep better locked!
     
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    After a few weeks of adjustment, I sleep much better locked at night. The clearest effect is that when I wake up for whatever reason, having my cock locked in a cage really stops me from thinking about anything else and going off in some anxiety loop for whatever is happening in my life at the time. During the "adjustment period" I was incredibly horny when I woke up and did not sleep as well. Once I learned that I could not do anything about it--that the cock stayed locked overnight per my wife--subconsciously my brain adjusted and I usually fall right back asleep. When we take breaks from full time lockups I sleep with it on and it still works, so it's not just related to the hormone increases from the orgasm denial side of being locked.

    For something that started off as just a kinky fun game, its rather shocking how much this "game" has helped my sleep and mental health.
     
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    I couldn't sleep at night until I found the right cage for me. I get night time erections all the time but my current cage makes it more bearable and far less uncomfortable, so I can sleep fine with it on. My other steel cage is not painful during night time erections, but it can get uncomfortable enough to keep me up at night. My plastic cages are painful with night time erections, due to their shapes.

    So, with the right cage, you can sleep just fine with it on but it will take some getting used to. Your first few nights will be difficult, but that'll fade away a little more with every night. So, if you want a good night's rest while staying locked in your cage, then wear it every night and don't take it off when you go to bed. Once you're used to it, it'll feel perfectly normal and then you can sleep just fine.
     
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    I definitely sleep better caged. For some reason when I wake to an erection in my cage during the night I roll back over and am out. Uncaged I think I begin to let my mind wander sexually, then it's all down hill.
     
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    Mine's on 24/7 and I have got used to it, I have a plastic travel cage that I am allowed to wear when flying. Thats a bit more uncomfortable but the rule we have is simple, I wear a cage at all times. I prefer it
     
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    I've never found sleeping with a cage easy.
     
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    It isn’t, but doable with persistence. I know from my own experience. It just takes some getting used to.
     
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    I wouldn’t say I sleep better caged but I have definitely gotten used to it. I can sleep through the night without issue now but it’s that clockwork 5am erection attempt that gets me. If it doesn’t wake me up I’m good, but if it does there’s no way I’m getting back to sleep.
     
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    I have found I just all around am better with the cage on it completes who I am and who I have become
     
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    I know exactly how you feel.
     
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    I don't sleep better or worse after getting used to it. Took a couple months pushing through to get used to it, now I sleep same as I did without it. Granted I only sleep without it maybe one night a month so it's become par for the course.
     
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    I’ve only been sleeping with mine on and off for the last few months. My wife decides every now and then to to take it off just because. But I did find it difficult in the beginning to sleep with it on but that ended quickly and now miss the it when my cage isn’t on at night.
    This current vacation is the first time traveling with a cage and it’s metal so I didn’t have it on. I guess we need to find the right cage for traveling so that doesn’t happen next time.
    Just curious, doesn’t the TSA x-ray or whatever that is still pick up that you have something caged around your cock??
     
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    Once i settle into being caged (about a week or so after getting locked up) i sleep better caged. That is probably because Goddess has long insisted that i sleep naked even when W/we are in O/our vanilla lives. Since i toss and turn a lot when i sleep, i always get a strong erection which wakes me up. When i am caged that does not happen because i can’t feel the rubbing when i move. However, the quality of my sleep while caged depends on the cage. If i am in my punishment cage (very small pink plastic cage that looks like Pussy lips) i sleep better because there is no way of getting an erection. When i am in my standard metal cage it is hard to sleep at first because while that is also very tight i can get a partial erection which pulls the cage from my body and hurts my balls and irritates my skin. That gets better over time or when i where a strap around my waist.
     
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    Mistress kept me locked again last night, she's quite curious about this experiment. I had a good sleep again, even though I did't exercise and drank quite a few glasses of red wine. Very surprising.

    I'm theorising after reading other peoples experiences that it's either:
    • A physical thing. Maybe the sensation of erections is disrupting my sleep, I seem to be hard all night when unlocked. My current cage is very good at stopping erections without being uncomfortable.
    • A mental thing. My submissive side is so used to being locked up that I feel more relaxed and and able to sleep.
     
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    In my experience, both are a factor but physical more so than mental. Because the right cage can confine my night time erections in a way that's not uncomfortable and I can sleep. Where as having a partial erection due to not having the ideal cage will wake me up and keep me up all night because it can range from uncomfortable to painful.

    As for the mental part, I just find it very sexy to just keep the cage on and I can sleep "happy", if you know what I mean. ;)
     
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    Sleeping happy makes sense :)

    She kept me locked up again last night and then inspected my sleep data in the morning. A great nights sleep again. She is very amused and announced that we have discovered the cure for male insomnia.
     
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    Well done! :+1:
     
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    I'm now on day 13 of being locked, which is a record for me as my keyholder usually unlocks me after around 4 days. I'm noticing now more than previously that I fall asleep much faster when locked. My frequent state of flaccid arousal puts me in a happy state of mind, which sends me to sleep very quickly. I've always been a light sleeper and I wake up at least once every night, but this happy feeling soon sends me back to sleep again. As long as I remain flaccid when sleeping while locked, which my body is learning to do, my overall sleep quality is better when locked.
     
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    I like sleeping with my cage on until I get an erection during the night. It will push my cage so far forward that the ring will slide so far forward until my nuts start screaming. I’ve gone to a smaller ring. I think I might try a size or two smaller. It is pretty snug at this point. Not sure if a longer cage would help or not. ‍♂️
     
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    If I am allowed cage free for more than 4 or 5 days after an orgasm I start to find it difficult to sleep. Sometimes I have to get up and lock myself to help me sleep. The first night locked is usually a bit difficult anyway but all is well after that. It's the only alternative to another orgasm and the drop afterwards - me grumpy, wife grumpy, highly unsatisfactory.
     
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    A smaller ring would definitely help, but I myself found that partial erections hurts at night more than my balls being pulled on by the ring, so I sleep with a cage that doesn't allow any expansion whatsoever. It's shaped in a way that doesn't get unbearable when trying to get hard at night. Only a slight discomfort during even the the strongest night time erections, so it's easier to sleep with it on.
     
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    Never a problem sleeping with it, except in the morning when I get morning wood because of having to pee. Then it wakes me up.
     
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    I have the same problem, so I know how you feel.
     
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    I sleep much better with the cage. I have found that when I am unlocked I get rock hard several times a night and that really disrupts my sleep physically. I also find my mind wanders to relieving the erection since they can last for quite some time. When I am locked the erections are suppressed and they don't wake me up.
     
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