One of the things my partner insists on is that I have my head hair clipped very short. While I find this a little humiliating it also shows my submission and obedience to her. So I like to be told to go and get my hair cut and know that failure to do so would merit her use of the cane. Do other subs have to show signs of their submission?
When you choose to submit, you no longer have anything like short hair, etc to worry about. It's all in Her control. Get used to it and love it for what it is.
Not really sure if it’s a sign of submission or if it’s just what she prefers, but she has told me that I’m not to have body hair. When she touches my cage she usually checks and will scold me if she feels any pubic hair. If there is stubble on my legs or chest she tell me I’m over due for a shave. I do plan on getting a few tattoos, one that is visible and one that’s not that will be overtly obvious
To be well presented in terms of clothing and personal grooming. To display high levels of manners and courtesy in private and in public.
The only outward sign is an anklet that I wear. She wears a key pendant. Although if anyone looked deeper they would see without question I'm in a FLR. Little things like how we interact together, etc. We don't flaunt it, but we don't hide it either, particularly in front of family. My sister-in-law is visiting with us now. She sits at the head of the table at dinner, with my wife at the other end. Me and the kids in-between. We didn't ever speak to my SIL about things, at least I didn't (!), it's just understood.
My wife also sits at the head of the table. And i clear her plates for her,Even when we have guests. In public, we dont do too much to show our flr. My wife wears her key necklace. She also has no problems telling me to do something, rather than asking. Even if we are in the presence of friends or family, she has no problems demanding something of me, and i follow her orders without question.
We are new to trying this out so it’s been a learning experience. . My wife wasn’t very receptive to an flr at first but it seems to be taking that course naturally now. She thought it was all about sex(and I wasn’t too helpful in this area at first) but sees the benefits of me anticipating many of her needs. A few things are having me shave everyday and having coffee waiting. she just decided she is okay wearing a necklace with the key on it which has me so excited.
When we are at home...I'm to be naked at all times. If I get a little picky from not shaving, I'm told to get smooth. Arm pits, chest, legs and C&B. This is what she wants, and I obey her. Other things like her telling me to hump her leg or the bed just for her amusement. She has me obeying and submitting to her all the time. And my only reward is the thought that I might get to have a orgasm....
Same here! My Mistress has made it quite clear in my training that my presentation, appearance, and behavior is a representation of my submission to her.
Might not be what you want to hear , but your a lucky lucky, boy, just submit and enjoy the journey.. I’ve been self locking for some months now, and the feeling is unbelievable!!!!
I have to keep my body smooth and keep my hair no longer than a #3 cut with the Clippers . I push the shopping cart when shopping and follow her. I cook , clean up. Clean the house ect.. My signs Of submission are mostly at home , but a few in public also.
Hi, you are very fortunate to be in your position, don’t fight, just let you natural submissive side out, serve and enjoy, it is a little strange when you begin this , but , it’s worth it !! Serve and Enjoy
I wear my chain and lock collar at all times when I am with madam, I only remove it for work, as I have to. I wear a ring on my little finger with slave on it. And when out with my madam I will wear one of my bdsm t shirts that show I am a slave/ sub/ chaste/ cuck. And I also have my bdsm tattoo on my right arm that says I am owned.
She controls are $ and always pays when we are together. I'm keep cock,balls and face shaved. she enjoys telling others how she wears the pants and then looks to see if i'll disagree... i never do
While I'm not in a relationship, I have decided to have my head shaven at the beginning of September. I am totally into wigs and keeping it shaven will make it easier and more comfy. It will also, I feel, be a sign of my submissiveness. I've been free of all body hair since 2001 and the step after head shaving with be having my brows, lips and eyeliner tattooed on
My signs of submission have to do as much with my fem persona as anything. Keeping body shaved smooth, wearing panties or girls shorts. Small signs that I'm not a masculine alpha type.
As just starting FLRD on Memorial Day this year, M’Lady only requires 3 acts of submission. She takes first bite at every meal, CFnm in bed, and cage stays on until she decides. Was allowed out of cage for 3 weeks, for PA to heal. She noticed a change in attitude during that time and wanted the cage replaced as soon as possible.
Piercing, tattoos, grooming choices, acts of service and submission. I like them all. I like housework nude in my cage. Especially when she is out to a bar with friends and I am home alone, waiting. She did that once and it was so hot for me! She had me kneel and clean her heels as she was getting herself ready. Another woman tried to pick her up that night and she sent pics of the two of them together. I replied "Awesome! Have fun!" So HOT! If it had just been a good looking guy!
The first real sacrifice my wife asked for was shaving off my waist length hair. It wasn’t as hard as I’d ever thought it would be for the simple reason she wanted it. The more she requests, the more fulfilled I feel because she wouldn’t ask if she didn’t care.
Besides my collar that I wear 24/7 and is locked on She has only key, Piercings, tattoos, chastity, keeping all body hair removed, that's beside House cleaning, laundry, Shopping, and She will layout what I am to wear in my room, W/we are going on twenty years that I have been in Her service that last fourteen as Her 24/7 slave/housemaid since retiring
i wear a collar 24/24 : a padlock with a heart and Her initial graved on (look for the photo in some of my posts) and the cb (of course) all day long, never for the night when together (She loves to hang my dick to fall asleep.)
Number 2 all over for me. She gets all my clothes too. I would never say I didn't like something she bought for me even if I did.