My wife has come up with a new rule for me. I have to be restrained while she is at work and I'm home alone. She has me chained up to a wall in my shop. My length of chain is only 3 feet. Not much wandering room. She says that she dosent want me getting a vibrator and trying to masturbate while she gone. As Im sitting here chained up, I was wondering if your wives or Kh went to the same extremes to control you, or is it just me.
I know that this is a fantasy for many but I have to go with @LesterBallard and err on the side of caution. There was one gentleman who wanted to be left in the dungeon overnight all chained up and he offered to pay handsomely for the privilege. Eventually we agreed on him being chained whilst I did other sessions, thus him being chained and ignored but still with a safety backup. I won't leave @lockit chained up if I need to go out however if I start reading a book, it may be some time before I remember his plight lol.
She could just lock up the vibrator (or put a lock in the electric prong) instead. I think she's just upping her control.
I told her what you said and she said that she liked the idea. So now I dont have to be chained to the wall anymore. Thanks for your input.
My wife/Mistress works and I am retired and home alone every work day. We have tried chaining me before, but have come to learn that "chaining my mind" is far more restrictive and safe than chaining to a fixed object ever was. Typical day: I am in my cage, but have a key on a tiny gold necklace locked in place with crazy glue (If unlocking is needed for medicl emergency); I am kept in lingerie, heels, and wig, so exposure to anyone outside the house would be pretty embarrassing; we have cameras in the house that She can see from Her iPhone so I never know when I'm being observed. To me, the mental "bondage" that I am under is more restraining than a simple chain!
No. And I wouldn't want her to. That is extremely dangerous. Bdsm play should be consensual, fun, and SAFE!!!!
Not an activity in our dynamic. If I am left in any form of restraint D will be in the room with me at all times. Oh not quite true, when the doorbell goes she will leave to answer it, or if the phone rings will answer the phone and continue the conversation in the same room.
We haven't done this type of control but it was a fantasy of mine until a recent incident. While on vacation, I dressed up as a maid to serve my wife. She decided to go shopping and I wanted to ask her if she would restrain me while she was gone but decided I shouldn't bother her with my fantasy and, instead, just do chores. A short while after she left, someone started beating on the door and trying to get in. It turns out two maintenance guys mistakenly thought we had called about a water leak. If I hadn't used the deadbolt, they would have barged in since they thought they had an emergency on their hands. The deadbolt bought me enough time before they could find the key to yell I had just got out of the shower and to give me a few minutes. I was then able to change and remove my makeup and wig (although my fingernail polish was still on since I couldn't find the remover). All I could think of after opening the door and explaining they had the wrong condo (with my hands in my pocket!) was how awkward it would have been if they barged in on me while restrained in my maid outfit.
I tend to believe very firmly in SSC and at the same time I do NOT believe in limiting my Owner's ideas or methods. I do believe that trust in one's partner is core to this idea.
Trust in your partner is irrelevant in this case. You can trust your partner 100%, but if the house burns down whilst you are tied up unattended, then you are pretty much screwed!