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    #1 sashasproperty, Aug 19, 2020
    I’ve been caged and denied for about 8 months now - no orgasm at all, but edged a few times per week.

    Over time, I noticed my desire to cum has reduced, and blue balls became less of a problem after teasing/edging sessions.

    In the past (prior to denial) when I was allowed to cum, I would often have 3-5 good spurts, and it would be thick and creamy.

    Enough to make a nice impression and to feel drained / tired afterwards.

    Last night I was given my first orgasm in over 8 months.

    Not only did it hurt as I felt it pushing through the pipes, but the amount was pitiful.

    Despite my diet not changing, my cum was thin, watery, and consisted of just a few drops. While my cock/balls were working hard, my ejaculate was nearly non existent and I didn’t have that deep fulfillment / drained feeling of the past.

    I’m not complaining - in fact I’m happy that my orgasms have been muted because it’s reinforced to me that chastity and denial is the right life for me.

    But I’m curious to hear from others whether they experienced a similar thing.

    As there was some significance to the moment after 8 months of denial, my partner/key holder just laughed afterwards and said “After all that, this is what you have to offer? Seems I made the right call to keep you locked up because no-one is having fun with that.”

    She gave me the night to sleep as a free man but said to me this morning “I sometimes felt sad for you when you didn’t get to cum but now I don’t anymore. Last night reminded me why we chose this life for you in the first place, so say goodbye to him for a long time, get back into your cage and I’ll make us breakfast.”

    I had to laugh that when putting my cage back on, I noticed I was dribbling from her remarks ‍♂️
     
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    #2 ashes1334, Aug 19, 2020
    Normal I believe, after wearing so long. Had you been allowed to cum one more time after the first probably would have been the load everybody was expecting.
     
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    #3 LesterBallard, Aug 19, 2020
    the first time after an extended lock-up is often pretty feeble. May just be the muscles etc not working properly. It tends to get back to normal quickly.
     
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    #4 Solo1, Aug 19, 2020
    Unless you are taking medication to reduce the size of the prostate gland then the result will much like you described.
     
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    #5 ashes1334, Aug 19, 2020
    Cumstipation if you will.
     
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    #6 LukeVallentine, Aug 19, 2020
    Great result, glad it's going well for you.
     
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    #7 jemima, Aug 19, 2020
    giggle. :)
     
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    #8 amvetsb, Aug 19, 2020
    We enjoy the science of chastity.. We played early on with how chastity impacted ejactulation and still do. Most evident result from long-term denial for me is the 'sudden orgasm' is wimpy, or feeble or pitiful as have been mentioned, but also that first attempt at an erection! When given a little warm-up, if offered that, or a subsequent orgasm shortly after that first one, it is normally a little stronger...
    Your mention of painful... I think that may be 'blocked pipes' and a sign that your body wasn't purging goo, at least recently. This isn't a good thing if there is going to be a need for healthy goo discharge in the future. Use it or loose it comes to mind...
     
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    #9 madams-sissysub, Aug 19, 2020
    I agree, it’s perfectly normal, as it’s not been discharged the body will break it down, and as the body is having to break it down it will reduce the amount it produces.
     
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    #10 Surrendered, Aug 20, 2020
    Concur. It’s normal speaking from my experience.
     
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    #11 Zee Man, Aug 20, 2020
    Feeble... the best way to describe it after being caged for long lengths of time...
     
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    #12 Grayfelix, Aug 20, 2020
    Feeble describes it. After 132 days I called it anti-climactic,
    And,... just like that it was over and I was on day 1.
     
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    #13 jemima, Aug 20, 2020
    well when a man make a lot of it it dose make a lot of mess dont it really. it spurt out of some.
     
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    #14 Zee Man, Aug 20, 2020
    For me, it just runs out, there is no spurt anymore as in days gone by. Wife finds it amusing to just watch it dribble out and laughs about how pathetic it is...
     
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    #15 ChasteBoi150, Aug 21, 2020
    First orgasm is always pathetic after a long lock up...I cum halfway limp and it just dribbles out
     
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    #16 sashasproperty, Aug 21, 2020
    Oh wow thanks so much for the replies everyone! Well good to know that I'm not alone, and that there might be a path back to full orgasms if we persist with them.

    We aren't wanting kids, so my desire or need to make sperm for reproduction etc is not at all necessary. We enjoyed the pathetic dribble and it played well into our desire and fantasy that a caged cock belongs in its cage due to a) weak erection, b) poor ejaculation, and c) shrunken size.

    So the fact I had all three, and my 8 month reward was met with discomfort and disappointment, it only deepened our love for chastity and this lifestyle.
     
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    #17 bondinchas, Aug 22, 2020
    The good news about this situation is that while the first attempt at sex after a long lockup might be a little pathetic, on subsequent attempts it's sometimes right off the scale compared to pre-chastity days.
     
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    #18 debbie jones, Aug 22, 2020
    ive gone only 3 months without cuming and its been very painfull and not much pleasure . can i ask has your balls shrank ?
     
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    #19 Rectrix, Aug 23, 2020
    I've had the same experience. And god I hate Day 1, especially when I know that the second orgasm would have been the good one.
     
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    #20 Alceste, Aug 23, 2020
    The subject of the thread is normal, in my experience.
     
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    #21 Alceste, Aug 23, 2020
    Do you never get the second orgasm?
     
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    #22 Locked247365, Aug 23, 2020
    I don't even get a first!! I am made to just wait long enough for my body to rid me of my cum filled sissy balls naturally!! My panties get so wet during this time, it just oozes out ever so slowly and steadily....wow!!!! Chastity tears for real!!
     
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    #23 Alceste, Aug 23, 2020
    Firstly, I did not ask you the question, secondly you threw in a bunch of stuff which does not even apply to the question.
     
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    #24 Rectrix, Aug 23, 2020
    I don't want to say never, but I don't recall any. And I get so few you'd figure I remember....
     
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    #25 Alceste, Aug 23, 2020
    Makes sense!
     
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