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Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by Submissedtoher, Aug 6, 2022.

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IF…and this is a big if chastity lead to ED would you participate?

  1. No, I’d like to keep my ability to get an erection when needed

    73 vote(s)
    66.4%
  2. Yes, lock it away and let the horniness build for ever, transitioning into a PIV free relationship.

    37 vote(s)
    33.6%
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  1. Submissedtoher
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    My keyholder and I were discussing this last night, as a guy who is in a mysteel belt (soon to go neosteel for a more intense locking experience) I’m allowed to play with other women at her approval, I’ve noticed lately I only get an erection for her…with others and any slightly vanilla setting I cant perform. I need chastity, bondage, or intense femdom/bdsm to get in the mood.
     
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    I’ve recently discovered I can barely get hard without her. Not even with porn. But, just touching her sets things right.

    Has her domination become that complete?
     
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    my wifes domination over me has become very real. I’m forever thankful because it only brings us closer, but as always it’s a mind fuck. We messed with cages for years and she never liked seeing my balls get tugged on, but once we put a full belt on things went 0-100 REAL quick. I’ve had 5 highly attractive partners in the past couple months where I really felt hollow without my wife, I even felt bad about being out of my belt.
     
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    That's how I feel sometimes. It's dedication, and I'm proud of it
     
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    After some time being prevented from spontaneous erection, i have grown out of even attempting it. Porn doesnt excite anymore. Piv sex is never the same. The penis is neither the same. The onset of ED could be real. Many would deny for fear mongering accusation and lack of admittance from many. Had i known earlier i would still participate if it is meant to be sacrifice for her. I had had my share of orgasm since 11yo…
     
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    When you say earlier, how much earlier? How long have you worn a device?
     
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    I started wearing since college.. seriously wearing since married 15years ago.. permanently wearing last 6years..
     
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    My madam would still have me locked.
     
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    After she finally unlocks the little guy; moist and horny, ready for those 6 seconds of pure pleasure you’re able to survive…
    “surprise, it doesn’t work anymore”
     
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    I’m pretty sure if it definitely led to impotence, my Wife wouldn’t want to keep going with this.
    My default setting is locked, but I’m released fairly often for piv or teasing. I’m on TRT and I take Cialis most days so he’s ready to perform if the Wife desires.
    The interesting twist lately, when’s she’s had me unlocked while she’s showering or whatever before bed, it’s very difficult to get an erection on my own. As soon as I touch her skin anywhere on her body, or we kiss, any contact with her….he’s standing at attention and extremely hard. So obviously there’s a huge mental side to this lifestyle and it’s not just that Metal cage. He’s been trained over the last 3 years that he’s for my Queen’s pleasure, otherwise he should stay limp and relaxed lol
     
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    After several years of chastity, my staying power is very limited. I get so little physical stimulation while unlocked, that having that skin touched and caressed is enough to make me explode in seconds.
     
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    I voted no, but to be honest, I don't get a vote.
     
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    Chastity + T&D have cured my ED. My little guy is always staining to get out. I'm begging for erection-only releases now.
     
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    What is T&D ?
     
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    Also, what is TRT?
     
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    ......... Has anyone else experienced this benefit if chastity combined with T&D? I never heard of this dynamic but it makes sense.
     
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    Tease & Denial

    Testosterone Replacement Therapy
     
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    I have researched articles on ways to boost testosterone production naturally but none of them mention physical therapy (teasing). But I discussed it with my doctor and it seems to make sense. He did not seemed surprised by my increased libido & testosterone or by my reduced erectile dysfunction. Testosterone is produced in the testes. Somehow frequent teasing (almost daily) triggers the hypothalamus to send signals to the testes to product more T. At least it has in my case. I've noticed it in my hair growth; my bald spot isn't quite as bare on my head, I'm shaving daily again, and my chest, abdomen & pubic hair has to be groomed more often than before.

    As far as my erectile dysfunction, my wife hasn't been releasing & playing with my little guy very often but when she does, he springs to life immediately. We don't have PIV sex anymore, but when she wants to give me an orgasm, she plays with him long and slow and he never relaxes.

    I'd love to know if others have experienced anything similar. My marriage was virtually sexless for about 10 years before we found chastity, tease & denial.
     
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