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    First let me clarify what I mean by permanently locked
    - No release even for shaving, cleaning or any other reason
    - minimum lockup period more than 6 months

    Now my questions
    1. Do you still get nocturnal erections? If yes, then how hard are they?
    2. Do you get erections when you are sexually excited or teased? If yes, then how hard are they?
    3. Do you still have to use lubricant to avoid chaffing / cutting problems?
    4. Do you think that now you need a smaller length cage?
    5. Do you think you have become feminine?
    6. Do you cum? How often?
    7. Lastly, do you regret permanent chastity?

    My asnwers
    1. No nocturnal erections at all. At least I do not realize them
    2. I do, but my cock erects exactly to the size of my cage
    3. I use lubricant 1-2 times a week; and not daily
    4. YES. I think I will be more comfortable in the smallest cage
    5. NO. Not at all. All my manly features are very much intact
    6. Yes, I cum 1-2 times a month
    7. NO. I enjoy permanent chastity. Beyond doubt!
     
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    I might be able to answer these questions later this year, after I have got a custom device and no longer wear a Holy Trainer. I am certainly looking forward to trying this sort of length of lock up. At the moment I am on my longest ever period in my HT after discovering a good way of not letting the smell build up (drink lots of water and power jet setting in the shower directly into the tube.)

    As a prospective permanent can I ask a few more questions?

    Did you know you were going into that long a lock up when you started?
    Do you know how long you are going to be locked up?
    have you ever, even for a moment, wish you could get out of your device?
    What is the most difficult aspect of long term/permanent lock up?
    What is the best aspect?
     
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    What is this "I cum 1-2 times a month"? How is this 'chastity', never mind 'permanent'? I just completed nearly 150 days of 24/7 chastity and did not cum at all during this time. Nor was I released for any reason (I can shave around the cage). And yes, I had erections, nocturnal and otherwise, with no feelings of femininity. I did decrease the amount of lube I used over time.
     
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    He didn't say permanent chastity, he said permanently locked.
     
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    1. Do you still get nocturnal erections? If yes, then how hard are they?
    2. Do you get erections when you are sexually excited or teased? If yes, then how hard are they?
    3. Do you still have to use lubricant to avoid chaffing / cutting problems?
    4. Do you think that now you need a smaller length cage?
    5. Do you think you have become feminine?
    6. Do you cum? How often?
    7. Lastly, do you regret permanent chastity?

    My answers
    1. No night time or morning erections.
    2. It takes a lot of effort to make it try to erect. It expands to the limits of the cage, but it isn't a real erection.
    3. Yes, but I'm gradually using less and less.
    4. Not in length, but smaller in diameter.
    5. No.
    6. I'm not allowed to cum.
    7. No, I enjoy it very much, and love the feel of my cage on the tiny dick. I'm gradually having fewer and fewer erections, and I'm looking forward to a time soon when I can't get it up.
     
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    True, but question #7 does specify 'chastity'.
     
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    i do get cum but that's when i'm milked
     
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    True. I hadn't spotted that.

    So I concur, you cannot have permanent chastity if you get to cum. Personally I don't think milking counts as although semen is extracted you don't have the orgasmic feelings.
     
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    During my interest in Male Chastity, I have noticed that different people have different ideas about what constitutes being locked. To me it is 24/7/365 so it would need to be a device that could be kept clean without removal. However if someone only has a plastic device, does that mean they are not locked if it is removed weekly for hygiene purposes? I suppose not, that is a safety issue so not a choice they have made as such. I could expand more but I think you get where I am coming from. The definition of chastity is more geared towards the abstinence from sexual intercourse. So with regards to male chastity as we know it, the definition is as unique to the person it pertains to.
     
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    Can't say I meet your criterion for lockup periods. For me permanently locked means
    - No release even for shaving, cleaning or any other reason
    - minimum lockup periods of 2 to 3 months

    Now my questions
    1. Do you still get nocturnal erections? If yes, then how hard are they?
    2. Do you get erections when you are sexually excited or teased? If yes, then how hard are they?
    3. Do you still have to use lubricant to avoid chaffing / cutting problems?
    4. Do you think that now you need a smaller length cage?
    5. Do you think you have become feminine?
    6. Do you cum? How often?
    7. Lastly, do you regret permanent chastity?

    And Jasmic68's questions:
    8. Did you know you were going into that long a lock up when you started?
    9. Do you know how long you are going to be locked up?
    10. have you ever, even for a moment, wish you could get out of your device?
    11. What is the most difficult aspect of long term/permanent lock up?
    12. What is the best aspect?


    My answers
    1. Yes I still get strong morning attempted erections
    2. Yes, hard but hghly constrained by the size of my cage
    3. Yes, especially when running
    4. No, having had 2 other cages I'm down to the smallest possible
    5. No.
    6. 3 or 4 times a year from overteasing
    7. No.
    8 and 9 My wife never sets a time
    10. Once or twice I've had an overwhelming desire to rip it off when dreaming/half awake
    11. Skin soreness/burning, especially when being teased caused by force of attempted erection
    12. It's an intense and very intimate kink between me and wife, and she is a big beneficiary
     
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    I've toyed with the idea of permanent chastity. to me permanent chastity also means the device does not come off at all for any reason. Biggest obstacle I would have to overcome though is how to keep properly clean while wearing steelworxx steelheart. I do like the look of some of the other steelworxx devices but I think open bars would enable me to fiddle / cum, which i could certainly manage back when i was using the CB2k.
     
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    I also want to add answers for Jasmic68's questions:

    8. Did you know you were going into that long a lock up when you started?
    9. Do you know how long you are going to be locked up?
    10. have you ever, even for a moment, wish you could get out of your device?
    11. What is the most difficult aspect of long term/permanent lock up?
    12. What is the best aspect?

    8. No, we'd discussed normally having 1 or 2 months locked and then a release for health reasons of just enough time to cum and lock back up, but MDsh decided it wasn't necessary.
    9. It's permanent, but I've been having issues with sore spots. When I'm fully healed and able to keep it on, it won't come off except for my 2 final cums.
    10. No, I love the feel of my cage, but pain has forced me out a few times.
    11. Pain from sores is very difficult, otherwise, I want it on.
    12. I love the feel of the cage on the tiny dick. It's like having an extremely mild form of sex all the time, so I'm always aware of my keyholder.
     
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    Let me clarify
    "I cum 1-2 times a month" means I have 1-2 ejaculations (semen dropping out) per month, without my control, and inside the cage
     
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    Here are my answers
    Did you know you were going into that long a lock up when you started? - Not at all. It was a shocking move by my wife
    Do you know how long you are going to be locked up? - My wife no intentions whatsoever to release me
    have you ever, even for a moment, wish you could get out of your device? - After my wife sealed my cage, initially I wished. But was of no use. Now I don't
    What is the most difficult aspect of long term/permanent lock up? - Nothing. In fact it is more comfortable than unlocking frequently, which allows penis to erect
     
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    No. It is very much permanent chastity
    Please visit my photo album
    My wife has sealed the cage, and now it can be opened only by cutting locking post
     
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    I am fortunate
    I can thoroughly clean my cage (my avatar) without having removed, and I use hand shower every single day and clean the cage
    It has excellent ventilation, so it does not stink at all
     
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    @Sunny thanks for answering my questions and clarifying your earlier post. Now I know more about your situation I think permanent chastity is the correct claim to make.

    It makes me wonder how I would react should my Wife demand the same of me, that I would never get a release from my cage again. You are a strong man to make such a commitment to your own Wife.
     
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    The first thing I notice from reading this is there is the potential for starting a debate on the meaning of different terms.

    The following are my perceptions of the following three phrases and I do not seek to impose those perceptions on anyone else.

    Permanent chastity.. means to me; that as a couple you never stop playing TTTWD
    which can mean anything you and your partner(s) want it to mean to you
    and not what others perceive it to mean

    Permanently locked .. means to me; that you are in a device at all times that your KH does not want you out of it,
    this will doubtless include being released for maintenance and hygiene and health considerations This may also include being let out by your partner for whatever purpose they have in mind.

    Permanently denied.. means to me; you have between come the decision that you will never again have a deliberate orgasm. This may or may not be extended to include some or all types of ejaculations

    I personally love being locked and denied. I have and do wholly embrace the idea of first two. I am sure I would not currently be interested in being permanently denied, and for now doubt I ever would be. Though for sure in my case permanently locked would almost assuredly have to accompany that decision should permanent denial ever be attempted, after all permanently would mean till death, ill-health or possibly age put an end to it..
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    1. Do you still get nocturnal erections? If yes, then how hard are they?..................very occasionally but really hard and bulging
    2. Do you get erections when you are sexually excited or teased? If yes, then how hard are they?.........Yes, really hard and bulging
    3. Do you still have to use lubricant to avoid chaffing / cutting problems?........yes I still use baby oil
    4. Do you think that now you need a smaller length cage?........Yes I think I go
    5. Do you think you have become feminine?.....not really.....but I would like to.
    6. Do you cum? How often?......usually on the 1st of each month
    7. Lastly, do you regret permanent chastity?.........not at all, I love it.
     
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    1. Do you still get nocturnal erections? If yes, then how hard are they?
    1a. I still get erections several times a night, but I've read these go away after a while providing you stay locked up.
    2. Do you get erections when you are sexually excited or teased? If yes, then how hard are they?
    2a. I used to get erect frequently and very quickly (mild teasing), but now I hardly ever get erect, but I dribble pre-cum almost all the time. I've had to start wearing panty liners to keep it from getting very messy down there while at work.
    3. Do you still have to use lubricant to avoid chaffing / cutting problems?
    3a. I've always used baby powder and have had no issues.
    4. Do you think that now you need a smaller length cage?
    4a. No, I did a lot of research and got several recommendations on size and the HT2 I have now fits perfectly.
    5. Do you think you have become feminine?
    5a. Yes, I'm much more feminine now than I was before we really got into the chastity idea, but I dont know if the two are related.
    6. Do you cum? How often?
    6a. My wife considers my constant pre-cum releases a form of release and so does not see the need for me to fomrally orgasm, so I guess no.
    7. Lastly, do you regret permanent chastity?
    7a. Most times I'm grateful to my wife for placing me in chastity and at other times I wish I'd never heard of it, lol.
     
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    Having the Looker 02 with bars you will be surprised that even with all the effort you can put into it, still can't get over the top and only makes the situation more frustrating. I tried this a few times early on and never could get all the way, so just gave up and find that works much better just enjoying my situation.
     
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