Edit: not sure if this is in the right category or not? Had a discussion with my wife / KH this morning. In total sub space I asked her if she dislikes the fact that I look at porn? She said it doesn't really bother her much. She in fact has let me "take care of myself" at times when I am unlocked. And she knows I use porn. I told her I think we should limit my access to porn. She then asked how much I look at it. I told her honestly its about one a day. Even when I am locked and cant masturbate. She was a little thrown off by this as she didn't realize it was this much. So she said that we should limit my porn watching. My main reasoning was to make the time we are intimate with each other even that more special. I already think she is absolutely drop dead beautiful. But again without looking at porn I will appreciate her body even more. So as of a few hours ago all devices I have access to now have "Porn blockers" installed. They are password protected, have security measures in place that does not allow un-installation of the program without the "admin" signing in with the password. Before having her put in her password I made sure that this site was able to load. Its on the list of sites to allow. you can set it up to allow certain sites that would otherwise be blocked. She is ok of course with me still having access to the mansion. And it seems to be working as I am tying this out now. The rest of the site seems to be working as well. I tried several attempts to search for porn to make sure its working, and it is.............. One thing I also noticed when testing things out is that I cannot get access to adult toy store sites. So guess if we are going to get anything she will either have to grant me temporary access or we shop together. Doesn't seem like that big of a deal as anything that is ever purchased is always discussed before hand. So, does anyone else have this limitation? And how did you get to that point? Self restricted or by the hand of your partner / KH?
I'm a techie and have been for the last 40 years. I'd find a way around it e.g. vpn, virtual machine, create a new account on the same machine, install a second OS, get a thumbdrive with a bootable linux...
So I’m locked 24/7. Any time I could view porn it would be with limitations as to what I could make of it. I’ve found that I don’t particularly waste my energy searching anymore… If I do, which is so rare and normally a result of me searching for corny images for crap captions, I just think about my wife. I long for her to be around. I need her. Porn exacerbates the chastity game and tips the scale in her favour. Guess everyone is different.
I'm also locked 24/7 and I still watch porn when she is away. I know it's pointless and a waste of time but I still do it. Having said that; It's been getting less and less, and even when I do indulge in porn my poor horny brain soon realises it's a pointless waste of time and I go do something more productive.
I do watch porn being locked. Why? I don't know. I am getting a lot more excited after watching porn, which is good if happens before sex session with my wife and KH. So porn arouse me a lot before I deliver orgasm to my wife.
Sure. I know that everything is by passable if you have the knowledge and or time to put into it. I know about some of that stuff, like VPN. But most of my exposure to it is through work, and the IT guys set it up. I deal with computers, robotics, some PLC work in my profession. I don't dable in tech stuff outside of work. This is just a layer of protection to detour me. Cant easily just sit on the couch for a few mins and look at porn. On that same vain, with the tools I have at my disposal in the shop and knowledge of how to use them I could be into the lock box that holds the key in a few minutes. Or cut the device off me in a few minutes as well. I guess there is always an element of self control. But with things in place to not make it as easy, its easier to just not to. Whatever it is.......... Bulldog Blocker.
We use a combination of tools: Microsoft, Google, and Apple all have free child protection services that block adult content and provide location tracking. Norton Family is an inexpensive add-in to our anti-virus. Between them all, I have a very PG-13 experience. "Pounding sex" returns no valid search terms. "Naked boobs" delivers no images. Victoria's Secret suggests I get a grown-up to help. Part of the conversation at the time was that it was inappropriate for me to see any naked woman besides her. Recently she decided that it is not appropriate for me to see her naked. She got me the Animal Crossing game as an alternative. She decorated my room in the game with a bunkbed and a toy dinosaur. I miss the nudity but it is a fun game. This site is whitelisted as is Visualizer and Cuckold Place.
We did this before, with Windows parental controls and also with Qustodio for android. She would often allow me access to porn only to view the links herself as see what I was looking at..super . It worked quite well but my wife decided to stop as my kids got multiple devices and needed monitoring from the two of us. We did enjoy it and it was nice to know she was watching. Now a days I show her vids and images.