I'm currently caged at home by myself as my partner is away on work. She seems very happy that I'm locked and doesn't want to share where she hid the key.... Having a conversation last night though and she shared an interesting insight that by denying me she felt the need to deny herself as well.. and she actually got quite excited by that..! We're both quite new to chastity and learning how we both truly feel about it but I was wondering if anyone else shares this dynamic?
Sometimes my wife will make us both wait for a period of time together and she’ll abstain from me pleasuring her or her using any toys. She says she orgasms harder when she waits along with me. Definitely not all the time though… Sometimes she waits and then sometimes she doesn’t
My GF/KH also abstains from orgasm, despite us regularly fooling around and me taking her close to the edge. She says she loves the buzz it gves her. A side effect is that we are very much in lust in more-or-less equal quantities.
I think my wife likes me not masterbating but she still enjoys piv and if she cums she makes sure I do. I don't think she masterbates and I awkwardly said to her once that if she wants to she should. Then sometimes she makes me cum without her coming if she isn't in the mood. She's quite generous and sometimes I wish she was a bit crueler.
Madam used to do this when we first began with chastity, she would keep teasing me and then say maybe tomorrow! But she could only last a couple of days!
I’ve brought this up to my Wife a few times, how amazing she’d cum if she’d hold off a few days, we could just kiss, touch and cuddle to build up the anticipation for her. She just laughs and says yeah right! She will skip a day here and there over a month, and the day after she’s skipped, her orgasm is always stronger. But her sex drive is high, and she’s just used to having that release daily. And I am definitely not going to complain about that at all!!
My wife never use to masturbate until I started encouraging it. I had read a few articles about masturbating being good for women for many different reasons. I bought her many personal vibrators over the years and in the last few years she’s really put them to use. It’s funny how the tide has turned. I think she masturbates at least every other day, she sets her toy out for me to see or will let me know to recharge it for her. Her masturbating has made it so she can orgasm very easily now, gives her more control of steering her pleasure.
Heh. My wife will sometimes abstain ... but whereas she generally keeps me locked for 2-3 months without release, I think the longest she has gone (for fun) is a week!
Thanks for all the responses everyone! Sounds like it might go a few different ways. All sound like exciting and fun options!
My wife cums all the time. With me watching, by herself, sometimes she calls to tell me, sometimes she doesn’t. Once I saw the wand was on the bed, asked if she was being naughty earlier. She said she came 3 times and that she’s not the one that gave that up. I don’t feel threatened or left out, she isn’t the one that has a problem with being able to cum and still act like a wonderful partner. I’m the one that tends to act like an ass when they get to cum all the time.