OK, She told her friends...

What else can you do? Just smile and front it out.

 

Gives new meaning to the term "grin and bare it!" My wife has a close friend, and her and her sisters seem to treat me differently for a while so I suspect CJ has told her friend. If my wife told her friend I am pretty sure her whole family knows now.

 

Not a lot you can do. This was surely her whole idea!

 

Don't sweat if. We leave our whips, canes and paddles in plain view if anyone peeks into my bedroom which they have to pass to get to the living room. We have had house sitters and my sister live in our house for a week and all they had to do is open any drawer in our night table to see all of our BDSM toys. As we were pulling out of the garage on our last move, the real estate agent came running with a bag in her hand. Inside the bag was a lot of BDSM toys. She apologized for looking in the bag but she needed to know if what we forgot was important or not. Guess she thought it was important.

The worse thing that happened to us was when DVD's first came out and we switched to DVD and had a large library of taped movie in the days when you could video tape movies from Premium channels. We gave all the video tapes to my sister-in-law. Much later we realized that one of the tapes was of my wife and I having sex with our girlfriend. First one on one for each of us and then a threesome. Of course we were showing off for the camera so we did some pretty weird stuff. My in-laws never mentioned it but they knew and we ended up moving to where they live and they know that my wife if bi but never mentioned it.

Once we sent a nude photo of my wife sitting with her legs spread, to a girl we were trying to hook up with for a threesome. Not long after that I saw the picture on the internet at a time when there were only a handful of sources of free porn pictures. Anyone who knew my wife would recognize her. I laugh at that stuff because I could care less what people thought of us, but my wife is afraid of even strangers knowing anything about out sex life. When she first had me wear panties she was concerned about me wearing them under my pants when we went out. She was concerned about what the EMS would think if we were in a car accident and they had to remove my pants. Silly girl.

 

Considering the way girls talk, you're not the only one. If you have a female keyholder, her best friends probably already know you're in chastity . . .and probably quite a few other intimate details

 

Just act natural and enjoy the ride!

 

Unless you have to show them , it will probably all blow over fairly soon when the novelty for them wears off

 

One thing that may help you to relax, is to remember that these people are your friends, and they do have love for you.
Another thing is that from what you say they're in a lesbian marriage, which means they've already had to drop the preconceived heterosexual model of how relationships are supposed to work, and they've both had the freedom of working out their relationships without that baggage, so they're going to be totally accepting of your relationship, and they'll probably be highly appreciative that you are submissive to your wife, and if wearing a belt is an extension of that, they'll probably be impressed at how far you're prepared to go to express that submission.

You have nothing to worry about on this, trust me. They like your partner and so by extension they like you.

If you wanted you could start a conversation with them about being a submissive person and how much you appreciate your partner for being the one in charge and take it from there.

 

Next thing I expect they'll want is to see for themselves...

 

I suspect you are going to serve them tea, coffee, or wine dressed only in your belt.
Enjoy the tugging and pinching!

 

I would take it as a sign of disrespect to our marriage. I would probably chose to discontinue seeing those people for a while after telling her how you feel. Expand your own personal friend base. It's a well know fact that most men don't have good support groups. Might even go so far( depending on who initiated the chas relationship) to say the price for her lack of respect is 6 months of no chastity and she is to be your submissive for that time.

 

Prob not intended to be hurtful. Most of these posts are "a slice of life". Obviously this did bother you since you posted and are asking for advice/support. I understand these are nice people but question remains how are you going to feel being around them always wondering ? How do you think your going to proceed?

 

Grin and bare it, no literally, once you handed over those keys, that thing between your legs became HERS. She's giving the orders and you're taking then. Isn't that what this is about in the first place? If not what is the point? She can tell anyone she likes, That's what submission is. Embarrassment and humiliation are just parts of this thing we do. You said "I have always wanted to have more than just the two of us to know, but I have been shy to say anything." so you got what you asked for. No disrespect to anyone else but I can't see how her playing the game the way you really wanted it played in the first place is disrespecting your marriage. If you hadn't asked for this than it wouldn't have happened. She takes her cues from you. Know that if you are extremely fortunate to have a woman that is willing to go along with this and count yourself among the lucky few. You'll be a little embarrassed, you won't die and, oh yes, thank her for it and maybe even get her some flowers. Good luck and enjoy her participation.

 

Enjoy the tugging and pinching!

 

I wanted my wife to feel as if she could derive as much pleasure and enjoyment from this FLR as possible, so when we first started back in August, I encouraged her to let a friend in on her new secret. She was not comfortable with the idea, and I still don't think she is ready. However, I saw it as a way of supporting her in her new role, and another way for me to show that I am completely ready to submit to her. At 53 years of age, I have no fear of the social thing if she was ready to tell someone. I want her to live, love, and laugh. We have lots of bi and gay friends as well.

 

I know my keyholder has told her best friend, but I also suspect she has told other including her sisters. She likes to tease me about it, so I don't know who knows about my cage and our FLR. To me it is exciting not knowing who knows, but it really does not change they way were interact. I am always respectfully to her friends.

 

That's the nice thing about getting older you don't really give a shit who knows what anymore. I wear my device everywhere anymore. If anyone sees it so what? Just: keep doing what you're doing. Everything will turn out alright. Just you wait and see. Good luck my friend.

 

Yes what people think cannot change what you do, if your happy with it keep doing it, all there thinking can not stop you doing what you want to do its just their view of it, the same as what you think can not stop them doing what they do, if your happy keep going and the best of luck to you

 

If you feel nervous around those people, just imagine them naked.
(Now wait, that sounded better in my head!)

 

We discussed it, and she made the decision to show me off, but I don't know to who. I was naked and locked up of course, blindfolded and tied to my big cushy desk chair, my hands tied behind the chair. I could hear someone else in the house and then they came into the office where our computers are. She said hello to me and asked if I was having fun, (I couldn't reply because there was tape over my mouth. I didn't want to have to speak to them, I suppose I just wanted to be shown off
She asked my GF if she could "touch it"....and was given permission. I was instantly so aroused erect at just the thought!
I know a picture was taken because I heard the cell phone click. The door to the office was left open and I could hear them talking for about an hour. I could tell "SHE" was in the room with me several times because I could smell her perfume, and I knew it was her fondling and handling my cage.
I was so turned on I thought I was going to cum in my cage! I didn't but my GF said she wanted to play with me jerk me off with the cage off, but it would cost me keeping the cage on 24/7 for 3 months solid and no more cumming for 6 months and I still wouldn't get to see her or know who she is. I haven't agreed to that...yet.