Not in our case. At least not yet. I have been denied PIV for years now, and I have also made it clear to my wife that I would have no problem with her having sex with other people and, in fact, that I would like that. She says it's something that she thinks will only ever be a fantasy for us.
Unlike many other kinks, there's a huge emotional risk and cost that you need to be prepared to take if you introduce a third person into the relationship. Jealousy, falling in and out of love, and many other emotions could and can be triggered when a third person is involved. Of course PV denial can always be a stepping stone to another activity of whatever type, but unless the fantasy or desire was already there, I doubt that PIV denial would create an inevitable progression from activities practised within a couple's relationship into those with another person.
Not sure how one would be connected to the other. I voted no since it didn't have a discernable path to me.
Although I am cuck I voted no, as I have read posts from quite a few members who do not do piv, but also do not bring others into there life.
I fortunately still get to do PiV, and actually quite regularly (at least once a month when I am out of the cage), but I am not allowed to have an orgasm while doing so, I am only there for her enjoyment and once she gets her orgasm everything else is up in the air. She might tell me to stop and finish me with her hand, she might tell me to stop, and she puts the cage back on, she might tell me to stop in the middle, get her dildo and finish her that way, etc. I can't remember the last time i finished inside of her, but it has been a few months anyway. Honestly, for me at least, the less I am allowed to have an orgasm, the better this it for me and the more I get out of the chastity relationship (the mind trip of it all is still very real after 4 years), but when I am allowed, oh boy, I feel like a little kid on Christmas morning! lol
My wife and I have talked about it in the heat of the moment as a fantasy but we're both dead against making it a reality.
It depends. Luckily my Wife likes PIV with me, but she has the okay to have sex with other guys if she wants.
I would say so.. when d male is on chastity.. his denial/punishment shd not be in anyway restricting her freedom for piv sex.. she shd al d more emancipated.. n hv selection of pleasure far beyond her mate/partner/submale can ofer.. if tats her choice ultimately.. but responsibly… men hv been in polygamous relationship far too long in history n wreck havoc..
It seems there are definitely women who are not into PIV. My wife, on the other hand, loves PIV and loves having a big cock inside her -- just not mine.
Does anything ever ultimately lead to anything? No. Anything to do with behavior is never anything absolute, or ultimately leading to anything. It’s not like relationships are like math problems with a definitive answer. A plus B equals C. Some do, some don’t, some are happy they did, and I’m sure some wish they never tried. We seem to want certain things to mean something or imply something, when there is no way to nail down everyone’s life experiences, individual fears, turn ons, turn offs, comfort level, trust level, needs versus desires. 100 different couples, 200 hundred individuals, could all give up on piv, and still have almost as many opinions on the matter. So no, nothing ultimately leads to anything.
I've always loved Giles' concise and clever comments. This one is no exception. I'll wager a princely sum he's correct on this one.
I just subscribed! A most sensible summary on PIV. Now that you mention it, I can relate. I REALLY enjoy receiving anal penetration. Yet I do not orgasm from it. It's a huge mess. Hence I very rarely do it. So now add in if the woman doesn't REALLY enjoy it....why bother, she might say. Further, using your discussion, let's suppose some tables were reversed. If MY only sex was receiving anal and it was always messy and I rarely orgasmed......I wouldn't want sex that often. And if my wife got to cum like I do.....quickly, with minimal external (penis, clitoral) stimulation, I'd need to be artificially slowed down! Giles is a genius! Chastity isn't so much a kink as it is a practical tool!
Likely a better analogy (pun intended) would be: your wife will peg you or blow you. Which would you prefer?
Like others, I don't believe PIV free/denial leads to cuckolding. In some, MAYBE, most no. In Our case, we had talked many years about Hotwife/cuck lifestyle. Long short, we dove into the lifestyle with her having a once or twice a month regular. Had some health issues and meds mess badly with erections, so her bull (whatever adjective you choose) takes care of her. we are now moving towards a FLR. So, while I have been PIV via my dick for two plus years, we had talked about it for quite awhile before doing it. Most likely, as some have said, the male gets better with his tongue, toys, wearing a strapon etc... Some will be cucked.
Is english your first language? Your posts are very difficult to read. It’s like a text message from a teen.