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    #1 tristenfifty, Jan 24, 2020
    I just happened on to this site. I’m in the Chicago area and interested in the thought of no access to see how I might respond. My worry is I travel and don’t want to set off TSA with a device. Also would only consider a woman who understands I’m new at any of this

    Tristen
     
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    #2 Kiesela, Jan 24, 2020
    Well that has narrowed down your choice of women considerably.
    It's a shame since so many would be falling over each other in pursuit of you.
     
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    #3 madams-sissysub, Jan 24, 2020
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    #4 MissyB, Jan 24, 2020
    Welcome to our community. I hope you enjoy it here and find answers to any questions.
     
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    #5 maid_carrie, Jan 24, 2020
    Welcome to the site, I hope you enjoy it.

    Your nervousness about flying and the TSA is understandable but if you use the serach facility you will see that it has been discussed quite extensively over the years.

    If you are new to the idea it is wise to take things steady. ;)
     
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    #6 tristenfifty, Jan 24, 2020
    What narrows my scope? Eager to learn but I’m kind of feral and alpha at times so again I need a clever handler. Lol
     
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    #7 tristenfifty, Jan 24, 2020
    Thank you for the guidance. I will look but I believe it’s my handlers choice which is why I’m going slow. I’m open to online but I believe a f2f relationship is best for me.
     
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    #8 tristenfifty, Jan 24, 2020
    MissyB thank you for even noticing me. Any suggestion or guidance is welcome
     
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    #9 tristenfifty, Jan 24, 2020
    Kiesela. I do apologize for not giving you the respect of thanking you for nothing me. Are you interested in someone like me?☺️
     
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    #10 Kiesela, Jan 24, 2020
    Yes
     
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    #11 tristenfifty, Jan 24, 2020
    All I must apologize as I’m new I didn’t understand how to read profiles. For my first held experience I am looking for a female handler. I’m not ready for anything thing else. Don’t mean to be rude but honest
     
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    #12 tristenfifty, Jan 24, 2020
    Thank you
     
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    #13 LesterBallard, Jan 25, 2020
    Welcome. You might want to try self locking to see how it goes. Many of us have started like that
     
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    #14 tristenfifty, Jan 25, 2020
    Great minds think alike I picked up a cb-6000 and put it on for my 10 hr drive. I’m going crazy I love it and hate it all at the same time. Trying to deal with the lack of access. Whew
     
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    #15 tristenfifty, Jan 26, 2020
    So my handler let me out after 13hrs. I was very compliant. She didn’t have me wear it last night but it’s back on for the last 4 hrs and I will be wearing it my first night tonight. Kind of nervous as I read it’s going to be very uncomfortable around 3am when the involuntarily erections happen. I will share in the morning. Cheers
     
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    #16 homebody, Jan 27, 2020
    Good luck with the overnight.
     
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    #17 tristenfifty, Jan 27, 2020
    Hope all is well. The overnight was not too bad but I think my handler drained so much from me this weekend it made it easier. But I have been locked up for 22 hrs now and looking at night two. I beleive these night erections are going to catch up with me.

    so I’m learning a lot about myself and how denial of access and orgasm is enlightening. I want to approach our benevolent Benefactor but I’m a bit intimidated by her. Wondering if I should move to her to hold my key

    still trying to figure out what chastity is about pleasure? Lucy says no then it’s to break the sex addiction habit and gooning. I’m thinking more these days but always about my caged passenger. Maybe I will send her a message
     
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    #18 Kylara, Jan 28, 2020
    welcome here
     
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    #19 tristenfifty, Jan 28, 2020
    Thank you. Had my first morning wood erection. Woke from a dead sleep thought my balls would rip off. I used the bathroom and I am good now one day at a time .
     
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    #20 Bob Grant, Jan 29, 2020
    any pictures you feel comfortable sharing?
     
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    #21 tristenfifty, Jan 29, 2020
    I might do I post them here? Day 4 of no access or cuming. This is come from an alpha male that jerked two to three sessions a day with 3 to 5 ejaculations per session. Talk about cold turkey. For those wondering yes I very aroused most of the day but not hard. Odd sensation for sure. I have had 2 nighttime erections that woke me up with pain but a trip to the bathroom and I was fine. I had a dry orgasm while peeing today, that was a trip.

    Here is what I am finding. Every woman in this world has become the most desirable and amazing person to me. I feel compelled to take a lead from all women yet oddly feel I must help protect them. I can only imagine this is what a neutered dog feel like to his woman owner. For now I’m good with this, all self imposed and looking for a verified female to be my key owner. The handler I have now is temporary woman that is helping through this period.

    To be very clear I am a straight male looking for a verified female who wants a gentleman pet. USA as the only UK mistress that interest me is still ignoring me.
     
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    #22 Muzzo4you, Jan 29, 2020
    @tristenfifty Welcome to the party!
    Just read this whole thread and a bit confused.... Are you saying that at the moment you're self-locking (as your own female 'handler' / 'temporary woman')? It sounds like it. (no judgements here at all for we all started as a 'newbie' - and so glad we started!!!)

    Don't sweat it too much going thru the TSA, for once you graduate to the right cage it will be a 'cake walk'. In fact, I've been thru ORD many times with mine (the black one in my profile pics). Do check out the prior discussions as they will help you.

    Should you like, happy to hold your keys until you find your new female KH.
    Remember to take time to smell the Roses on this journey but watch out for those damn thorns!!
     
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    #23 DonnaSue, Jan 29, 2020
    Welcome to CM, @tristenfifty ! You need to read around here about the proper cage, how to find a female KH, and other chastity topics of interest. I am sure about one thing.... the smaller and tighter the cage, the fewer erections you will have and early morning 'wood' can thus be overcome. Enjoy the site and please post often.
     
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    #24 tristenfifty, Jan 29, 2020

    Sorry for the confusion I hold the key but a woman offsite tells me what I can and cannot do. I just realize how much harder I have made it for myself. Total honor system here but think about this if I lied I’m only cheating myself. I am finding this to be a good thing for me and great things are happening to. See a different reply
     
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    #25 tristenfifty, Jan 29, 2020

    So who says great things don’t come to those who wait and comply. The one mistress I respect and admire gave me, ignorant excuse for a person, some of her priceless attention. I could win a lottery and not be a 1/10 as happy as I am today. Understanding she is to be feared if you don’t have your submission together. Man I have never been so happy for a 6 word text. thank you Mistress
     
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