New step with wife starting to lead

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    #1 Amocat, Mar 8, 2024
    As a married couple we fell into male chastity as about as cliche as possible. I found out about male chastity. And step by step introduced the wife to it. But always was me bringing it up. Locking myself up and giving her the key. At some point I saw a post somewhere about locking up when the key holder was on there period. She enjoyed that thought. After all why should I be able to have fun alone when she couldn’t? So after our last lock up I dropped the subject for several months. Didn’t bring it up. Didn’t lock up on my own. Just let it go. Then the other night I go to bed earlier than her for work. While in bed I receive a text from her saying I had better Lock up as she started early. No reminder, no initiating. Her taking the lead. I was shocked. Needless to say I’m now at work locked up with at least a week and probably a few days before I can be unlocked. Patience is key.
     
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    #2 LesterBallard, Mar 8, 2024
    Yes
     
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    #3 The Queens consort, Mar 8, 2024
    I call that, “planting the seed.” It appears your seed is blooming.
     
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    #4 boi paul, Mar 9, 2024
    A success story congrats to you both for finding this wonderful lifestyle.
     
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    #5 Kylara, Mar 10, 2024
    Great, but don't go too fast, do you support well the cage, do you love it?
    Have you asked her what make her lock you? What argument was good?

    It is great she began to lock
     
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    #6 outro2006, Mar 10, 2024
    Great! Wife and I are currently on the “period lock”, 4th day in. I think this is a good dynamic which can be turned into a monthly habit, so that I can still be locked until Locktober. As a side note, seems Locktober already is on her calendar each year, last time I was locked for 42 days straight. Thought I was in it till X-mas :))

    So yeah, good luck!
     
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    #7 madams-sissysub, Mar 11, 2024
    Congratulations and enjoy your journey!
     
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    #8 Slutty Susan, Mar 11, 2024
    Welcome to the mansion and good luck.
     
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    #9 M@rcellus, Mar 11, 2024
    BeSt of luck!
     
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    #10 Durgs, Mar 13, 2024
    Well done
     
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    #11 MrPickle, Mar 23, 2024
    From all I've read. A slow start is a good start.
    My journey isn't on this site but it spans a fare few years.
    When I got over excited and tried to rush it fell apart. So take it slow and savour every moment.
    Good luck.
     
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