New here

New to the site; just found it today. I'm married, and on the road much of the time. My wife is not a big chastity fan, though we've dabbled. I have a plastic Chinese chastity cage in my suitcase, and do wear it in the hotel rooms sometimes (today, the wife says it's mandatory). I'm through airline security daily, so wearing it during travel may be problematic. I won't be posting pictures of myself, and am mostly interested in hearing the comments of others, and perhaps commenting occasionally. I'm not on any social media. I'm monogamous, and quite loyal. I don't mind corresponding or talking online, just not very practiced at it.

Chastity as a subject, and as a practice, interests me, as does the concept of a female-led relationship. I am not submission-oriented or disposed to it, but the concept in a marriage setting appeals greatly and I think it's a practice that speaks well for both parties. I was raised with chivalry and common courtesy at the forefront, and a husband deferring to his wife makes perfect sense to me. I had a very abusive father (thrown through plate glass windows, beat up my mother frequently, etc); it's not what manhood is about, to me, and those experiences drove me in a different direction. Several years ago I first encountered the idea of a female-led relationship, and of chastity. Both struck a resonant chord that seem very right, to me.

Thanks for allowing me to visit.