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    #101 Mistress Tea, Jun 22, 2022
    My partner and I haven't specifically told the kids about FLR, chastity or other play we engage in. They are 15 and 19, intelligent, observant and curious kids. They ask questions about things they have seen and / or heard. We answer honestly. But we answer to the level of their interest.

    Example: 15 yo asked why I wear an odd key on my necklace often. Told him it is from my partner and goes to a special gift. My son was fine with that answer and asked nothing further. But my 19 yo heard this and asked me later what the gift was. I told her it was private. She then asked if it had anything to do with the weird cage that was on my dresser the other day because the key had been sitting with it and a weird lock. I told her that it did. She said "ok, don't need to know more" and laughed.

    If they ever have questions I will be honest and explain the best I can and to the extent of what their level is.
     
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    #102 Chaz69, Jun 22, 2022
    Oh wow, you were totally busted!!! lol
     
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    #103 TMO51nv, Jun 23, 2022
    I thought your answers were really good. But now what do you do when your daughter starts asking for advice on the topic, now that she knows?
     
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    #104 Mistress Tea, Jun 28, 2022
    Yes we were busted. This type of thing has occurred before and more than likely will again. We do leave our bedroom door closed but don't lock it unless we are in it and busy.
     
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    #105 Mistress Tea, Jun 28, 2022
    I'm not sure she'll ask for "advice" but I will answer the best I can any questions she may have. I've always been honest about sex and relationships with both of my children. It's not something scary, bad or dirty.
     
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    #106 bitslinger, Jun 28, 2022
    I think you handled it all very well. I think that as parents we need to model healthy relationships for our kids, including sexually and including if they happen to inadvertently discover something intimate. Don't act as if you're doing something shameful and they won't view sex as shameful.

    An open door has been our approach. Sex toys are in a box in the closet, but not locked or hidden away. The kids need to respect our privacy first and foremost. Whether the door is closed or open, this is our private space. Second, if they need eye bleach after finding something in our bedroom then they only have themselves to blame and will hopefully think twice before doing it again. Third, a locked door is just going to make them curious.

    Great thread!

    Answer their questions as openly and honestly as possible, in my opinion, while trying to maintain our own privacy as parents. We don't need to share our own intimate details to be able to answer questions. Boundaries. Easier said than done when we're put on the spot sometimes, but we just need to do the best that we can.
     
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    #107 TMO51nv, Jul 2, 2022
    It scares me!
     
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