New beginnings with my wife. Our journey.

Thanks for the encouragement.

I had a moment of surprising, spontaneous ecstasy yesterday! I was unlocked in the morning for showering and preparing for the day ahead. After my shower, I thought that would be it, but Sal gave me the most amazing handjob - I swear she must have been looking at her own porn sites but she assures me she hasn't.
I was teased and didn't know if I would get to the end, then she got me to take over and insisted on watching me orgasm - which I did!
Then another shower and told that I would be free all day while out the house and to be sure I would be relocked later - which I was.
It had been 65hours locked - that's a new record.

In other steps, Sal has suggested I buy a second device, so that there's variety and comfort for me!

Sal has also definitely been much clearer with me - more directive about her own pleasure - breast massage, rubbing cream into her legs after a shower, etc. She's also just instructing me to put on the device or take it off - not asking anymore. This gives me a big kick.

 

I have a weekend of chores underway. House cleaning and admin. Sal seems happy and fulfilled at present - she's relaxing and working on her art.

We have been busy in bed, but I've remained locked throughout. I have not been out for washing but that's all. The last time I had any time to myself and unlocked was Valentine's Day. Hence I have not masturbate since then either.

Life seems good. I get more focussed on Sally - trying to please her. I'm always looking for ways to touch her breasts. They get more gorgeous every day.

Oh well, I can dream.

 

I'm still going strong. I'm locked apart from occasionally for cleaning, and fun times - which haven't happened often!
Sal is still loving it. Rather than focus on the chastity, I've started to assume that's a given, and embarked on a pampering strategy.
I've started rubbing cream into her legs after she has showered. She loves that. This has led on to leg massages and foot massages. Wow!
Last time I did it, I had her sit on the couch and reclined the seat for her, then kneeled on the floor in front of her to massage her toes. She gave me instruction on the way she wanted it. She seemed to like me kneeling on the floor! I was pressing against my cage throughout!
I've also been invited to rub a different cream into her breasts on a regular basis - wow!

The chastity has been ok. I talked to Sal and I suggested we got another device as well - for variety, so I've ordered another one from Lovehoney here in uk. It's silicone. We'll see how that goes.

Happy Gary here...

 

Sal is still playing games with me , and still seems to be getting fun. The initial novelty has worn off for her, and she leaves me locked for days without talking about it to me, which is frustrating.

I've taken to massaging her feet every chance I get - added it to my repertoire alongside breast massage, and back rubbing. She is loving all the attention, but won't let me near the prize too often of giving her clit close attention.

I'm also caught up with all the household chores. Sal is slowly starting to believe that I'm not doing all this just as a joke.

She's just not been in the mood these last few days, and I'm honouring my commitment of her being in total charge of all this. I'm desperately trying to be patient.

 

Yes, getting familiar with the day to day is fun, like sitting on the toilet.
Life continues down the road, although maybe at a slower pace. Sally levelled off in her enthusiasm for a few days during the week - there was little mention of chastity or sex, though I remained locked throughout.
I have been locked continuously for a week apart from a couple of shower breaks, supervised.
Then this morning I was taken out and given a hand job by Sal. It was the most amazing experience.
She is embracing taking the lead quite a lot. I've questioned her on this and she maintains that she is loving the control and loving the fact she can dictate the pace. I have to rub lotion into her breasts every morning and cream into her legs after showers. I often rub her feet now.
I have become more compliant, less grumpy - at least that's what Sal says.
Will try to post more often. Like you all say, it's the dull detail that's often the most interesting.
Let me know if there's anything in particular you want to hear about.

 

Up to 5 days locked apart from 10 min hygiene/washing breaks - fully supervised. I know this is a short time for many of you out there, but it's new record for me.
Sal has had a quiet, busy week with life outside of me and sex, so I've respected that fully and been working hard to please her. This morning, before I went to work, I cleaned all her boots - 4 pairs. And I've ramped up as many nice routines as possible for her - making sure I get the coat she wants to wear, etc.
This morning, after washing, she checked my balls in the most delicious and spine/cock tingling way, and teased me by talk of the weekend and what we may get up to with her new toys.
I'm not sure yet whether to believe her - we'll see. I live in hope.

I've been reading FLR websites - the famous ones out there. Seeking guidance where I can on next steps. Any recommendations on websites/books/forums very welcome.

Thanks for listening!

 

A while since any update but here goes.

It's been a blast so far. Overall, exciting, but so so frustrating. Sal has lost a lot of interest, but still keeps me locked up. I get hygiene breaks and cum occasionally when she lets me out and I get a hand job from her, or full sex occasionally if she's in the mood.

I've kept a spreadsheet since Feb 14th and I've been locked 78% of the time. Bear in mind some of the free time has been when we've been to family occasions, or on a trip somewhere, so it feels like a much higher percentage to me.

From nothing, this is a big step!

If I'm honest, the thing I miss the most is the occasional masturbation. There, I said it, sounds bad but hey, ho. This is the place to be honest.

We've had great sex since Feb14 - more than before, but totally under her control. And I've not masturbated once...

Thanks for listening...

 

Ok, so here's a funny story. We're still going and Sally is still very much into this.
I've been locked more than not - unlocked for showering and the occasional family event or outing, but the norm is to be locked.

It was Sal's birthday last week and I bought her a few books, one about how to be a key holder, one how to be a Mistress, and one about FLR. She's been reading them enthusiastically and her behaviour has changed. She's become more assertive, more demanding and giving me instructions plainly, which I love. She's also demanded more attention such as rubbing cream and lotion into her, or massaging her feet.

Then yesterday, she asked me a question. 'Have you ever heard of a ruined orgasm?' she said. I was speechless. This is not the sort of conversation we've ever had in all our time. I mumbled something about having heard something about it, but not sure. 'Well, we'll have to give it a try sometime,' she said.

Oh crikey.

Will keep you posted.