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    #1 padlocked, Dec 1, 2019
    Hello to all, long time a CM reader and since ages a non-english native speaker chastity fan, just decided to become an active member now my dream -or nightmare- came true.

    I really do believe chastity is a bliss and really helps improve a relationship like mine, so to speak to level the grounds between her sweet and unconditional love, which has been frequently rejected by my self driven and untamed alpha male attitude that society and work has imposed me as the only way forward.

    I'm feeling really lucky to have a loving GF who has agreed -following a two year trial and error chastity enforcement essay period- and became enthusiast enough in her new KH role to finally chastise me on a regular basis, and particularly her beloved possession between my legs at all times when we are not together. That's our starting point.

    I just felt becoming an active member of CM would help me and hopefully others to live this lifestyle (and not just a kinky game) as intense as possible. At some point I will invite my beloved GF/KH to join to this community as well.

    All friendship requests, comments and advice are very welcome, having in mind I'm not interested someone to KH me. All the best!
     
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    #2 Alana, Dec 1, 2019
    Welcome,

    Most of us are warm friendly and willing to share our experiences. I hope you like it here.
    I would encourage you to invite you GF/KH to join sooner rather than later, We have quite a few Women and Keyholders on this site that could offer her support and advice.
     
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    #3 padlocked, Dec 1, 2019
    Many thanks Alana for your comments and suggestion, I'll think about it! Regards,
     
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    #4 madams-sissysub, Dec 1, 2019
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    #5 Sissy-CJ, Dec 1, 2019
    Welcome to CM
     
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    #6 Finnchastity, Dec 1, 2019
    Welcome to the Mansion! I hope You and Your KH find all the information, social network and support You'll need on Your Journey in chastity.
     
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    #7 Cumschot, Dec 1, 2019
    Welkom
     
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    #8 jemima, Dec 1, 2019
    hello @padlocked and welcome to here and I hope as well that you go nicer when you are put and keep in your cage.
     
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    #9 padlocked, Dec 1, 2019
    Many thanks !
     
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    #10 padlocked, Dec 1, 2019
    Many thanks @Finnchastity , hope to find here all support we need and of course to contribute as well. No monies though ;-)
     
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    #11 padlocked, Dec 1, 2019
    Many thanks @CuriousJay !
     
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    #12 padlocked, Dec 1, 2019
    Thanks @Cumschot !
     
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    #13 MissyB, Dec 1, 2019
    Welcome to our community. I'm sure you'll find it helpful and i'm impressed with how you've started your keyholder relationship with GF. Good luck.
     
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    #14 padlocked, Dec 1, 2019
    Many thanks @jemima ... I'm actually caged, wasn't I nice?
     
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    #15 padlocked, Dec 1, 2019
    Many thanks @MissyB, it has been a very nice welcome! May I ask you why are you impressed about how we've started keyholding?
     
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    #16 LesterBallard, Dec 2, 2019
    hello and welcome
     
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    #17 sissy_christine, Dec 2, 2019
    Hello and welcome to C/M, nice meeting you,
     
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    #18 the odd tease, Dec 2, 2019
    ...and another welcome! Hope your kh enjoys the site as well in time!
     
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    #19 padlocked, Dec 2, 2019
    Many thanks @sissy_christine, cheers!
     
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    #20 padlocked, Dec 2, 2019
    Hello @LesterBallard , thank you!
     
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    #21 padlocked, Dec 2, 2019
    Thank you @the odd tease, I'm still thinking of inviting her to join, very deeply I believe it is the right thing to do, but I'm not sure about her reaction. Any advice?
     
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    #22 the odd tease, Dec 2, 2019
    I don't understand why you'd fear her reaction. If she has embraced the whole chastity-servant thing, a mere website on a common theme shouldn't be much to bring up? I'd quickly tell her where there was an appropriate moment. Her decision to participate, or perhaps just monitor your activities here.
    Best of luck!
     
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    #23 sissy_connie, Dec 2, 2019
    Welcome. I enjoyed your profile and am certain you will enjoy this site and members
     
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    #24 padlocked, Dec 2, 2019
    Thanks @the odd tease for your thoughts, my fear is precisely she might not have fully embraced her role yet in such a way she may not find CM interesting at all and otherwise a little creepy to from me to open this dynamic of us to a community (I truly believe at least from my side I need some support from it), besides the threat of some fake F KHs that surely may be around, potentially giving her not well intentioned advise and influence not only the KH dynamics but also my whole relationship. It is not that I've met yet someone like this in here, everybody has been so far very nice and polite, but we both tend to be unaware of people's intentions (say a little naive). Of course I am certain she is much more capable than me to handle such situation, maybe it is also a control attempt from me, and fear of what would happen to me if she has access to a mountain of knowledge in KH & FLR, that last one I am not sure to be fully on board.
     
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    #25 padlocked, Dec 2, 2019
    Many thanks @sissy_connie , I'm glad you enjoyed my profile. Regards,
     
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