New and First experience (waiting on cage to arrive)

He has in her head that I’m in pain for some reason. She said the cage looked painful. I really think it’s a combination of her being exhausted and not in the best of moods. She’s been taking care of my two kids who are sick and she hasn’t been sleeping much. I’ve been helping as much as I can but I have to work. I’m going to wait until the kids are feeling better and then revisit the conversation.

 

I hope so too. Lol. I know her better than anyone but I honestly can’t tell if she is or not. I haven’t brought the cage back up yet but just a few mins ago she came in our bedroom straddled me and started kissing me, then she starts teasing my cock. I literally thought we were about to have sex. Then just when I get rock hard she pats my cock, kisses me one more time and says “good night”.. She must be getting something out of teasing me right? She knows I haven’t released in 4 days bc she told me not to.

 

Well I haven’t been truly caged yet so there’s that… but she has told me not to talk about anything sexual and I’m not allowed to get off in any way what so ever. Just no cage involved… I only asked if I could jo in hopes that she would deny me. I’m still testing the waters here. I’m not experienced with this.

 

Otw home from work. Wife texted me “lock up” when you get home. But she said since I was so annoying the other night to lock myself up and she doesn’t want to hear any talk about anything sexual. I’ll take it.

 

I was caged for about 4 hours last night. Gave my wife a foot massage. She unlocked it so I could sleep. This morning she told me to go lock up. I’m off today so I’m going see how long I can wear it. Cage seems to be pretty comfortable so far.

 

I was caged yesterday for probably about 14 hours yesterday. No issues at all. My only issue with the specific cage I ordered is i may have over estimated on my dick size. I’m a good bit smaller than the sleeve so I ordered a smaller. My wife saw how I was able to wear it all day without any probs so I think she feels much better about it. Her worries if be able to see it through my pants are gone as well. Last night she unlocked me before bed. Of course I got hard when she took it off. Something about her holding that key and unlocking that lock made me SUPER horny. Last night had been 5 days since I’ve been allowed to ejaculate. My wife said she wanted to give me a hj and I couldn’t then it down. I explained to her what edging was and she liked the idea. So she began by playing with the head of my dick and stroking with only two fingers. I reached the edge three times. One out of the three was actually a dry orgasm. I could tell was getting tired and I told her she could stop if she wanted but she told me she wanted me to cum. On the fourth round she used two fingers again and right when I was about to cum I let her know, she pulled her hand away and steady stream of cum came shooting out of me. I literally came all over myself, even shot some in my face. One of the best orgasms I think I’ve ever had.

 

Well I tried to sleep caged the other night. Whoever said the comment about erections bring pain/uncomfortable while sleeping wasn’t lying. Lol. It wasn’t that bad but I did end up unlocking so I could sleep. Last night my wife and I went to a wedding and I was caged the whole time. It made me extremely horny when we were dancing bc she was grinding her nice ass all over my cage. I guess I consider that teasing. It was awesome. I was looking forward to having some really sloppy foreplay when we got back to the hotel but we both ended up getting way to drunk. I don’t really remember but she said I got mad at her about something last night so this morning before we left she put nipple clamps on me, bent me over the bed and spanked me with a paddle we brought from home. Every now and then she would reach between my legs with the paddle and hit my balls.

 

Haha. Ok. I guess it does seem a bit untrue bc of how fast we’ve moving. My seems on the fence then the next sec she’s spanking me but it’s all true.. I guess I’ll stop telling my experiences and just ask questions when I have them. That’s why I signed up anyway. It was just fun sharing what I was experiencing.. last post until I have a question I promise.

 

Haven’t posted anything in a few days bc I kind of got discouraged. My wife has been so on and off about the cage so I backed off completely. I was on here last night and I came across this link to a very well written explanation of male chastity. It’s def written for a vanilla wife. I sent it to my wife. This morning she read it while I was with her and said she wanted to give it an honest try. The things that have been said/done by her up until this point I think was just her attempt to try and make me happy. She said she was worried that it wasn’t good for me or it was painful which she has mentioned before. I assured her again that it wasn’t. She agreed once again to give it a try. Later I asked when she wanted to start and she said “right now, go lock up”. Took a few mins to get my hard on down enough to fit the new cage on but I got it on. I asked later how long she thought she’d keep me lock up and she said “idk I haven’t decided yet” I’m otw to work now. I’m working night shift this week and I work 12hr shifts. She has both keys with her. I hope this all works out. If it doesn’t this time I may just have to give it up completely.