Need advice- wife not taking advantage

Have you ever discussed with her what she wants? She maybe doesn't want any of those things.

 

@Ftank7382 well she prob thinking bout other thingys. cos She is not in a cage see and you am. i dont know how long you been do it but if you just starting and you maked a lot of mess before then being lock up in a cage makes you think bout making mess all the time. and now you cant.

 

Just communicate, but mostly listen. There is a good chance that she is doing what she wants & there is a better chance she is just doing it to keep you happy.

 

It's not about you.

It takes a while to learn this.

When she ignores you, go wash the dishes.

When she falls asleep early, go iron her clothes.

When she wants to read a book, ask her if she'd like her feet rubbed. If she's not in the mood, go mow the lawn and weed the garden.

It is possible to learn to experience pleasure from serving. That's not a replacement for the pleasure from her attention, but it helps buys you some time (some sanity) until she chooses to spend her attention on you.

 

She is not sexually active nor explorative. The chastity on you is your own idea and at least she accepts it. She might be thinking thats what you want and it keeps your manhood locked away, you would not be bothering her anytime soon.. the longer the better. She might be thinking you are trying to be in tune with her needs. Only in her wildest thought that she IS expected to participate and impose denial, teasing and constantly humiliating you as part of the regime… ! Maybe you should put her desires 1st.. ask her if she is interested in a nice warm body massage in the buff.. works wonders with your hands and tongue.. while staying locked.. she will feel the threat of invasion of the penis is absent.. she will feel secured and opened up.. listen to her needs.. she will come back to you for yours..

 

My wife is exactly the same, she is not one for making any moves or even hints about pleasure...in her younger years yes but not now.
When we're caged usually we're mentally aware of it or stimulated by the cage but the wife is not wearing one so she is not aware of what it's doing to us.

Remember women are stimulated via the mind and stimulation works best in low stress and low workload environments.
Which is very difficult in todays world.

I think the advice given by other posters here is correct, Tend to her needs ask questions and if you get little or no feedback from her just occupy yourself to take your mind off your situation.
Good luck.

 

If you're caged only when she's on her period...she may not be feeling particularly sexy or horny. Sure, its a way to deny you when she feels she's not getting any...but its not at a time of month that's exactly pleasurable to her (and I AM assuming here). If that's the agreement, focus on running her a nice hot bath with bubble and serving her a glass of wine, and offer to dry and brush her hair when she's out of the tub: focus on romance if she's on her period and uncertain of the benefits to her...

...then when she's off her period, tell her all she has to do is ask for that romance, and follow through. I don't know you or your wife but finding out what she likes (by asking) and then reinforcing again and again (however long it takes) that she can have those things whenever she wants may help.