My wife and I are on our second round of caging. Last time was for 2.5 weeks. We have went with i get caged when she goes on her period. My wife liked the idea that it keeps me away from masterbating and i am nicer when i am caged. The issue i am finding is she really doesnt take advantage of the benefits of me being caged. She doesn't ask for pleasure unless i bring it up. She doesnt tell me really things to do. She really doesnt acknowledge the cage. I am here trying to get ideas of how to get her to take that role? Am i overthinking it, wishful thinking, or is there a way i can bring it up in the right way?