So I locked up last night a little buzzed... to start Loctober. I was nervous and warry, but once I was locked it was much easier. So I started a little early on September 29th, 2020. Right now it's 6:15 September 30, 2020. Loctober eve. I've tried many cages over the years, but this one seems right. Very comfortable and very secure. Really hoping this works well for long term chastity. It's easy to clean even when on, it weighs just the right amount, it's very comfortable, no pinching. Overall, this one is great. I'm rather decently endowed, particularly with girth, and I'm a grower for length and I'm not small (not massive in length either) so it took a while to find the right cage. So far so good.
October 2 A little more used to having my cage in today than I was yesterday. It’s more comfortable today as a result. Very comfortable cage, best so far. Which frankly is a key point for me as I am interested in long term chastity. I’m hoping that after a week I will readily forget it’s on most of the time. There’s fleeting moments I do now. One goal? I want it to feel natural on me so I don’t think about it constantly. I want it to essentially become a part of my life.
It does happen that way eventually. At least it has for me. I've been in an Evotion Bijou for 4 years, and now I can't imagine NOT wearing it. It's as much a part of me as wearing pants. I'd be almost scared to go out without being locked up.
So day 3: Cage is definitely more comfortable today. I'm pretty sure I found "the cage" which makes me very happy. I took an edible and as I started to feel stoned something happened. The cage become even less noticeable in the little discomforts. It started to feel *natural*, like it belonged there. Hell, it even felt very pleasant. I love this feeling, I absolutely love this feeling. It feels so right.
Day 5: slipped out last night. This cage is still great, but it think I may have to look into a custom cage eventually. It felt wrong to not be in the cage and I quickly caged myself back up. Sitting eating lunch I feel good to be locked up. There’s something right about how it feels. I deserve to be in chastity it feels like. I am happy to be in chastity. When do you start to feel that feeling of bliss?
Locktober continues to go well. Cage feels so right more and more. It’s like I’m getting a euphoria for being locked. Honestly right now if I was asked to take it off I wouldn’t want to. I want it on. I want to be locked. It feels so. I have better than being unlocked.
Is the euphoria supposed to happen? I’ve locked up before, but the euphoria is really hitting me this time. It might be because I have a better cage.
it nice to have a cage that is fit ok. and if you dont have it lock on you it feels all funny not have it on dont it.
In the first few week of wear, before ever having worn one, you do notice its presence all the time. But eventually you become physically desensitised so hardly notice its physical presence. Yes, so while its *physical* presense might fade into the background, the fact that it stops you from having an orgasm really does start to build up those sexual feelings. I find that after about 5 days it kicks in significantly and maybe steps up after about 10. It becomes a low level feeling of pleasant sexual tingles and feeling calm and secure. But also that the slightest thing can take that sensation into a fuller turn-on, such as a sexual thought, a t-shirt brushing over my nipples (that seem to be almost permanently erect/sensitive when caged), or my partner just brushing up against me (or even just wearing something slightly sexy). It makes me very attentive, very eager to please, very tactile. We have a lot more hugs, stroking, kisses when I'm caged Normally these situations would lead to sex, but somehow wearing the cage makes you accept that they won't, you feel (beautifuly) controlled and more easily able to accept it as it is, which of course just prolongs that lovely euphoria. I say that it doesn't lead to sex but what I mean is that it doesn't lead to an orgasm. There is something so hot about pleasing your partner sexually while having no chance to orgasm yourself. It *really* focuses the mind, but also intensifies the head buzz significantly (sometimes to the point where afterwards I literally have to sit with my head in my hands and focus on bringing myself down to a point where I can function normally once again). And the afterglow turn-on (that can last hours) is just lovely. It feels like selfless sex, more emotional, you giving but not expecting the same in return. I think that it is all to easy to get hooked on it, especially if you know that an orgasm puts you right back at square one and you then have to wait days for it to build up again.
Today I got a new cage in the mail, the Cobra cage my K3D. I put it on right away. ... and I'm so very happy I bought it. I thought the other one was comfortable, but this one is so much better! It's astounding how comfortable this is. I can forget it's on it's so comfortable, which is what I've wanted in a cage for a long time now. It's... amazing.